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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how can i get my mrs into swinging, would love to watch her being fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i think u have to try and bring it up as a conversation. use either books movies articles internet to get her thinking. Am in Cambridge if u wanna meet.Tc

Joe

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

gve her a guy 4 xmas

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

if its a sexless marrage due to the mrs illness why would she want to swing with strangers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try having a conversation with your wife. If she likes the idea of it you may get lucky, if she doesn't you've no chance, but you need to be completely honest with eachother or it wont work. Hope it works out for you either way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say in your profile your wife doesn't have any interest in sex due to her illness, so it's very unlikely she will want to have a 3sum!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it may kick start her love of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if its a sexless marrage due to the mrs illness why would she want to swing with strangers ? "

*giggles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if its a sexless marrage due to the mrs illness why would she want to swing with strangers ? "

Perhaps she's sick of him ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"it may kick start her love of sex "

Are you serious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is not having sex with you it might be a bad idea to encourage her doing it with others.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

think u need to sort ur pillow talk out

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Log on fab and leave the laptop on so that she can see your account and what it is all about

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By *iamp86Man
over a year ago

preston


"it may kick start her love of sex "

Sorry to disappoint you mate but don't count your chickens .....

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"it may kick start her love of sex "

She's ill and all you can focus on is her libido?

I'm truly speechless!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would your wife want to have sex with a stranger if shes ill, if she doesnt want to have sex with you...

And if she does have sex with a stranger how would you feel about that if she hasnt wanted to have sex with you, because of her illness?...

If you do introduce her to fab, and swinging, how do you think she would feel if she seen your profile?...

Questions you need to think long and hard about. Personally unless you are prepared to open a whole can of worms i would leave well alone...

Just sayin'....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

she suffers with confidence issues and really shouldnt, she's a good lookng girl and a great figure but feels like she's "lost it" and just thought if she had some interest and flirty men chatting her up she may start to believe in herself more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So confidence issues are her illness?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

help her get back to full health

then maybe explore fantasies

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her about what you've already done & see how she reacts. You already have a verified singles profile; maybe she'll make it an honest one

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

Why don't you say to her. Look if you don't want to have sex with me would you like to shag someone else then. And see what her reaction is

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she suffers with confidence issues and really shouldnt, she's a good lookng girl and a great figure but feels like she's "lost it" and just thought if she had some interest and flirty men chatting her up she may start to believe in herself more"

Or she may feel like she is only doing it to please her husband?

Think you should try and get your wife's confidence levels back up, and not worry about the sex side of things until her illness is sorted

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"she suffers with confidence issues and really shouldnt, she's a good lookng girl and a great figure but feels like she's "lost it" and just thought if she had some interest and flirty men chatting her up she may start to believe in herself more"

How about you work together on building your wifes confidence? I honestly don't think the way you're going about this can have anything but a bad ending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think her confidence levels would go right through the floor if she read all this on your computer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think her confidence levels would go right through the floor if she read all this on your computer. "

I concur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doubtful mate tried that with my hubby we swung for years together but it did not kick start our sexual relationship, in fact it ended it! needless to say that is why I am now single lol

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

1) You have to bring it up openly and honestly without any bias or pressure.

2) Let her play with and mull over idea for as long as she likes without any pressure.

3) answer any questions she has honestly

4) If she shows interest show her where she can find good information

5) If she says no then that's your answer. It only works when both parties are equally interested and equally interested.

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood


"1) You have to bring it up openly and honestly without any bias or pressure.

2) Let her play with and mull over idea for as long as she likes without any pressure.

3) answer any questions she has honestly

4) If she shows interest show her where she can find good information

5) If she says no then that's your answer. It only works when both parties are equally interested and equally interested.

"

and it's very late and I'm repeating myself and I'm repeating myself LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she suffers with confidence issues and really shouldnt, she's a good lookng girl and a great figure but feels like she's "lost it" and just thought if she had some interest and flirty men chatting her up she may start to believe in herself more"

Have you told her recently how good looking she is?

DO you flirt with her and chat her up, not try and have sex with her, just 'woo' her?

Sometimes cuddles compliments and communication are what's needed before any sexual contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she suffers with confidence issues and really shouldnt, she's a good lookng girl and a great figure but feels like she's "lost it" and just thought if she had some interest and flirty men chatting her up she may start to believe in herself more

Have you told her recently how good looking she is?

DO you flirt with her and chat her up, not try and have sex with her, just 'woo' her?

Sometimes cuddles compliments and communication are what's needed before any sexual contact. "

If closeness isn't there then how can there be a healthy sexual element. It's like having air to breathe, without it, it's pointless.

The OP runs the gauntlet of alienating themselves against their partner, or being repelled by them when things backfire. Things have to be oh so solidly based to swing that if you don't have that you might as well not bother as the risks (if you value what you have) are just too high.

I'd fix the relationship first.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cannot try to encourage someone to have sex with strangers just because you want to see it. That is really wrong, you don't own anyone elses body.

Is the reason you want her to swing really because you want to see her, or do you feel it will open up more meets for you.

Noone should ever try and persuade others to have sex. I think pressurising is really wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think her confidence levels would go right through the floor if she read all this on your computer. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try showing her your profile explaining you've been having sex with strangers and see if she wants to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should work on the issues between the 2 of you first.

rememeber ur vows "in sickness and in health" that means being there for each other :/

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