FabSwingers.com forum: Your first experience of the scene

By *ausage1970 OP Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Mine was a visit to Eureka in my early 20's met a lovely group of people who introduced me to another world. Before that I was in a relationship with a bi girl who although didn't ask me to join her and her friend it created a trust that worked.

So fabsters what was your first experience?

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

letting a mate fuck the wife in her 20s that was the start on the road 30 years a go

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By *ausage1970 OP Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

There must be more

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Like you OP a trip to Eureka picnic in the bottom field did the wicker basket and the full monty.

That started a grand adventure into this secert hobby

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Our first experience was a trip to our local club. It was pretty nerve-racking heading up in the taxi but once we arrived and had a look around, all nerves pretty much disappeared. We didn't go with the expectation of playing but certainly met some very lovely people while we were there. And so the journey began!

C x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We contacted a single guy on another site, met him for a drink then went back to his place. We met him a few times after that.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Although not die hard naturists, we always enjoyed being naked on the beach, so while traveling through the south of France we thought we'd spend a few days at Cap d'Agde. On our first trip to the beach we found ourselves surrounding by sucking, fucking, wanking, spit roasting, bukkake and gangbanging. That evening we went to Le Glamour and I had my first, but long waited for, bi experience. Coming back to England we immediately joined Liberty Elite and La Chambre. That was ten years ago and we've never had a moment of regret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was a visit to Eureka in my early 20's met a lovely group of people who introduced me to another world. Before that I was in a relationship with a bi girl who although didn't ask me to join her and her friend it created a trust that worked.

So fabsters what was your first experience? "

Wasn't good at all went to my first club and the first lady I met insinuated I was in a relationship and told everyone not to communicate with me, I was single

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

"letting a mate fuck the wife in her 20s that was the start on the road 30 years a go "

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

First experience every me and the x in bed with a naughty neighbour after a few to many drinks.. never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First swinging experience was chatting to an older couple who replied to my ad in the adult section of a selling paper.Met the wife about a week later at a pub local to them,then went back to theirs for the evening and most of the night.Still in contact with them and we still meet occasionally.

First club experience was a trip to Chameleons on a Friday night with my gf at the time and we had a fantastic evening

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By *haz46Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

first experience was meeting someone from the internet and cheating on hubby with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was first wife. She would go out and bring back male strangers. Intially it was one guy then eventually it was 3 or 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"first experience was meeting someone from the internet and cheating on hubby with them"

I like that. Love to know more xx

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By *alwholikes2watchWoman
over a year ago

solihull

Not so much first experience on the scene but I am going to a club for the first time on my own on Friday. Oh I hope it’s a Friendly vibe

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

"Not so much first experience on the scene but I am going to a club for the first time on my own on Friday. Oh I hope it’s a Friendly vibe

You'll be fine. Try to relax and remember everyone is there because they share a common interest with you. Get chatting, have fun and set boundaries if anyone does step out of line. You're there to enjoy yourself first and foremost.

To the initial question, my first venture into this world was from a woman I was chatting with on another app. She mentioned she was on here and I was curious. She also took me to my first club. I do often wonder what she's doing these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years ago - Went to La Chambre …

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

La Chambre

this was my face

But it made me realise that you don’t get jumped on ad soon as you walk in. It’s like going to a pub but with the addition of sex activities going on in other rooms.

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By *ausage1970 OP Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Not so much first experience on the scene but I am going to a club for the first time on my own on Friday. Oh I hope it’s a Friendly vibe

If its Chameleons then enjoy

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Visit to La Chambre for us, met a nice couple and evolved from there.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

1998 in an underground club in Manchester, the whole room just erupted in spontaneous group fucking and swapping. There were a LOT of drugs flying around at the time but it eventually led me to Cupids in Swinton.

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By *evlishduncMan
over a year ago

north suffolk south norfolk

Student in Manchester in 1991' was chatted up by an older lady at the bar in a pub in Didsbury. She was looking for a waiter at the weekend. I became one of their CFNM waiters at their pool party.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Mine (Mr) was when I was putting ads in the "Loot" paper. At the time I was only looking for women and only getting the odd reply.

Then out of the blue I was contacted by a couple. I'd never fucked a woman while her husband watched before so the first time was quite intimidating. I met them a few times after that and it was they who introduced me to my first club.

That was way back in 1987/88 and the club was the Adam & Eve at Eccles.

Since then I have been in and out of the lifestyle (more in really) both as a single guy and as a couple with 3 different partners.

With the current wife we have been doing this together for 12 years. We've not had any breaks but we are slowing down a bit now.

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

Back in the days of messenger my x wife & I were invited to a couples house knowing they were swingers and started playing truth or dare …we later went to Chameleons and many more clubs

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

First experience was joining a couple who I met in a chatroom who were looking for a voyeur to help with a fantasy. Met at theirs and we all had a great time, the wife felt bad seeing my hard cock and asked if she could help me out hubby said yes so we ended it with her being spit roasted me getting a bj which was cool more than I expected. Have not looked back.

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By *umblebiMan
over a year ago

ayles

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

First experience was a house party which called itself Club Naughty down in Camberley. Eyes were opened very wide that afternoon!

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By *icknmix500Man
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

A dinner party that went well !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a dogging site

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By *acktothefutureMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My boss of all people got me in to swinging, the boss's wife came to his workplace every Friday, she would take one of the guys home just to "move some heavy boxes at home".

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Mine was a woman inviting me to visit for some fun, and then casually asking me if it would be OK for her husband to watch - as recounted here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1067833

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Me and four couples. Tried a number of things for the first time that night.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Me and four couples. Tried a number of things for the first time that night. "

How long ago? Your pics say you are experts at this point

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Yahoo groups many years ago and very early chat,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First experience for me was meeting a couple from a rival swinging site - I just wanted a little more sexual excitement in my life without actually cheating so advertised as a voyeur wanting to watch another couple having sex.

For me the big draw was being allowed into someone else’s most intimate moments, real people as opposed to commercial porn.

After a short while and the usual single male rejection frustrations a bloke contacted me as his 40th was coming up and his wife had agreed to be photographed nude and having sex .. it was a case of being in the right place at the right time.

A few emails later and I was at their house during an extended lunch break from work using their camera as she undressed and as they fucked. I remember as clear as day the moment he pulled out and invited me to get up close to her still gaping pussy .. the buzz the whole afternoon back at work was amazing.

After that, things were never the same again and my journey had begun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend and his wife invited me for drinks at their house a couple of years ago. Ended up having a threesome a few times over the following months and they introduced me to fab last year while we were both spooning his wife in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in the lifestyle for a while so plucked up the courage to venture into Decadence and loved it. Now a regular, love the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 12yrs ago, one of the mums on the school run invited me for coffee after we’d dropped the kids off.

One thing led to another and we quickly became FWB and she introduced me to Fab. We got up to all sorts (a lot of firsts for me) over the next 3yrs until she moved away.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Got talking to a couple on messenger many moons ago, eventually met up. First soft swap and wife's first bi experience. Thoroughly enjoyed by all, repeated a few times after that as well.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Me and four couples. Tried a number of things for the first time that night. "

Mmmmm would have enjoyed watching that

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Mine was over 10yrs ago now, got chatting to a nice lady on here and she invited me round to hers for a dinner time social, when I arrived she was wearing a white vest top and a tiny denim skirt with no knickers and bare feet...I was instantly turned on. we sat on the couch and chatted for a while with her turned facing me so I had a perfect view up her skirt she had a beautiful pussy with a large labia it was such a tease eventually I asked if she'd like to kiss and we proceeded with some hot and heavy snogging she noticed my cock straining to get out my pants so asked if I wanted to get him out so I did and she then gave me what was probably the quickest blow job she's ever given haha I was so turned on it lasted about 2 minutes and I came in her mouth she was very understanding and we agreed to meet again and do it properly (which we did) . I remember it so vividly to this day I kinda wish I could go back and do that first meet again it was so exciting and different to the "normal" dating world I'd know until then.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Me and four couples. Tried a number of things for the first time that night.

How long ago? Your pics say you are experts at this point "

That was 3 or 4 years ago. I came to the party very late (I'm not referring literally to my arrival at that particular party!). Got a taste for it and have been making up for lost time since then!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Thought I was gonna be murdered & my body used as compost on my 1st meet haha

. When her hubby opened the door, bloke was 6.4 tattoos & bodybuilder type. But he was a chilled funny guy & we had a fun evening giving the Mrs a good seeing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was meant to be going round a couples house for a gang bang, but at the time I arrived he said I could have his wife to myself, was still a bit nervous ngl

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

This one time at band camp….

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By *oinerbillMan
over a year ago

warrington

Same as a previous poster, replying to a ad in Loot

Met a lovely couple at a pub one eve and had a nice social meet, then she gave me a amazing kiss as we left so i thought i was in with a chance

he rang me next day and we met in a local pub, before going back to a flat he had over his newsagents.

Had a amazing night with her, he just sat and watched. Loved it and had more meets in loot before the internet came along

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