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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one !

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I guess not

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

The majority of your pics are public though?

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"The majority of your pics are public though? "

Approx 50/50 so not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who get top pics and fabs up the wazoo speak on forums etc of having their filters and settings wide open to catch all potential interested parties. And that's how they like to use fab and they are perfectly entitled to do so.

Personally I'm not here to run a business or link to another location or to get myself off on the numbers game.

I'd be doing a shed load more ass kissing and a whole lot less forum posting if I were.

I'm here to explore and find likeminded friends and sexual matches to potentially connect with so I'm my real self and set my filters to my personal preferences.

My friends are people that I have physically met facetoface and I've no interest in playing with those who enjoy fake schoolyard popularity bs

But fab is a huge place, space for everyone to swerve or engage as pleases them

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By *eaderMan
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Those who get top pics and fabs up the wazoo speak on forums etc of having their filters and settings wide open to catch all potential interested parties. And that's how they like to use fab and they are perfectly entitled to do so.

Personally I'm not here to run a business or link to another location or to get myself off on the numbers game.

I'd be doing a shed load more ass kissing and a whole lot less forum posting if I were.

I'm here to explore and find likeminded friends and sexual matches to potentially connect with so I'm my real self and set my filters to my personal preferences.

My friends are people that I have physically met facetoface and I've no interest in playing with those who enjoy fake schoolyard popularity bs

But fab is a huge place, space for everyone to swerve or engage as pleases them "

Definitely agree. Friends are people who you've met and have physically seen. Too many random requests by far....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess not "

bless you.

I mainly accept friend request from ppl I have met or really planning on meeting as there are mostly pictures of my face.

I turn off the fab option so I am not really bothered by them being fab or not.

If someone likes my public pictures they usually text to let me know, so my cunning plan works

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

All depends if you really want to be in the top fabbed pic page, personally I only add to the friends list people I have met/would like to meet or people I enjoy interacting with on here.

Your profile you run it the way you like

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend "

Ha ha same as us. We wait til they’re offline then have a nosey

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend

Ha ha same as us. We wait til they’re offline then have a nosey "

Living life in the fast lane eh aren't we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend

Ha ha same as us. We wait til they’re offline then have a nosey "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind it if they have friends only content on their profile that i can also perv at, but if they have zero pics up i delete them

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Not a problem as I don't get random friend requests

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Those who get top pics and fabs up the wazoo speak on forums etc of having their filters and settings wide open to catch all potential interested parties. And that's how they like to use fab and they are perfectly entitled to do so.

Personally I'm not here to run a business or link to another location or to get myself off on the numbers game.

I'd be doing a shed load more ass kissing and a whole lot less forum posting if I were.

I'm here to explore and find likeminded friends and sexual matches to potentially connect with so I'm my real self and set my filters to my personal preferences.

My friends are people that I have physically met facetoface and I've no interest in playing with those who enjoy fake schoolyard popularity bs

But fab is a huge place, space for everyone to swerve or engage as pleases them "

Same here x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I just delete.

It's like swatting away a mildly irritating fly. No more.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend

Ha ha same as us. We wait til they’re offline then have a nosey

Living life in the fast lane eh aren't we "

Always funny to fab a few of their friends only while you’re in there too

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend

Ha ha same as us. We wait til they’re offline then have a nosey

Living life in the fast lane eh aren't we

Always funny to fab a few of their friends only while you’re in there too "

Everytime snigger

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I get a lot of friends requests from people who I have never chatted with.

If I have an interest in them, I will message and explain that I don't accept unless I have chatted and feel that we have common interests.

It's rare I get a message back so I delete the request.

Mostly picture hunter I guess,

Xx

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By *KCxWoman
over a year ago

skegness


"I just delete.

It's like swatting away a mildly irritating fly. No more."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just delete random friend requests - many are from folks with little content in their profiles ... who just want to prev on our friend only pics / videos.....

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend "

Same! Look at their pics then ALWAYS delete

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend

Same! Look at their pics then ALWAYS delete "

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! "

Impressive pics and vids young man

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We usually just delete any random requests that come without a reciprocal winking or message beforehand. Occasionally, we'll accept and have a look if the profile interests us and they've got some friends only pics That's a rarity though

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! "

Why not do an experiment and accept every friend invite for X amount of time. See if it leads to more Fabs/ fun.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"We usually just delete any random requests that come without a reciprocal winking or message beforehand. Occasionally, we'll accept and have a look if the profile interests us and they've got some friends only pics That's a rarity though

C "

We never delete them!!! leave them pending it stops the muppets re-sending every other day!!!!!!!

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We usually just delete any random requests that come without a reciprocal winking or message beforehand. Occasionally, we'll accept and have a look if the profile interests us and they've got some friends only pics That's a rarity though

C

We never delete them!!! leave them pending it stops the muppets re-sending every other day!!!!!!! "

That's a great idea! Didn't know that put a hold on the re-requests. Thank you very much for the advice

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! "

Definitely… We get so many winks and friends invite from people we’ve never even had any sort of connect with… they get reviewed but if it’s clear they’ve not read our profile, can’t meet our requirements then they get deleted. If the come back, blocked

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland


"We usually just delete any random requests that come without a reciprocal winking or message beforehand. Occasionally, we'll accept and have a look if the profile interests us and they've got some friends only pics That's a rarity though

C

We never delete them!!! leave them pending it stops the muppets re-sending every other day!!!!!!!

That's a great idea! Didn't know that put a hold on the re-requests. Thank you very much for the advice

C x "

It's 30 days I believe

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! "
lol 27 out of 38 pics feature your cock what's in your friends only

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! lol 27 out of 38 pics feature your cock what's in your friends only "

Pretty impressive cock though

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"We usually just delete any random requests that come without a reciprocal winking or message beforehand. Occasionally, we'll accept and have a look if the profile interests us and they've got some friends only pics That's a rarity though

C

We never delete them!!! leave them pending it stops the muppets re-sending every other day!!!!!!!

That's a great idea! Didn't know that put a hold on the re-requests. Thank you very much for the advice

C x

It's 30 days I believe "

think so but by then at least 50% have gone UNLOS lol

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! lol 27 out of 38 pics feature your cock what's in your friends only "

Not a steering wheel I can assure you

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! lol 27 out of 38 pics feature your cock what's in your friends only

Pretty impressive cock though "

Pretty impressive couple

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! lol 27 out of 38 pics feature your cock what's in your friends only

Pretty impressive cock though

Pretty impressive couple "

I try to please

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! lol 27 out of 38 pics feature your cock what's in your friends only

Not a steering wheel I can assure you "

Made me laugh out loud that did

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! lol 27 out of 38 pics feature your cock what's in your friends only

More like a joystick

Not a steering wheel I can assure you "

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lucky enough for me, I don't ever get random friends requests so cant relate to your problems. but I would only add or accept people I've at the very least chatted to.

I'm not one who likes to be popular so It's good i don't get the randoms

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I get loads I just ignore them

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one ! "

Lol I wouldn’t accept random friend requests either

Sometimes I have pics on there purely for ‘friends’ eyes

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one !

Lol I wouldn’t accept random friend requests either

Sometimes I have pics on there purely for ‘friends’ eyes "

I feel like you should be on my friend list instead of my hotlist...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't accept friend requests from people I'm not already chatting to.

I get maybe one random request a month which is about the same number of messages I receive and I've no doubt fabs would increase if I accepted them all but my decision to post pics isn't based on potential fabs.

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent

We block people that send unsolicited friend requests, it says that we block on our profile too. We aren’t interested in meeting pic collectors or those that can’t be bothered to read a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my content would probably get a lot more fabs if I accepted every random friend invite I get. But I only accept from people I want to engage with. Anyone else think that approach is the right one !

Lol I wouldn’t accept random friend requests either

Sometimes I have pics on there purely for ‘friends’ eyes "

I wouldn't mind being friends with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll add a friend requests

If you have content, those been on over a year without pics etc not a chance ??

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

Unfortunately I don’t get many friends requests .

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By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn


"We ignore all random requests, even if the profile matches what we like...we have a handful of friends on here and those are previous meets or people we enjoy chatting with.... some requests I do except simply to nose at their friends picture then delete as a friend

Ha ha same as us. We wait til they’re offline then have a nosey

Same "

Same here as well

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I get 2 or 3 friend requests daily and unless I've spoken to them previously and enjoyed the chat or I'm planning on meeting then at some point, I just delete. Pretty sure most are just wanting to check out my friends pics to see if they are naughtier ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just ignore them, don't delete and they can't send another.

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accept them once they’re off line , take a peek then remove them

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