FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else given up on porn?

By *penbicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Has anyone else lost interest in porn?

I mean, we still watch it together, but that feels completely different. And Alice watches it on her own, but if it's just me it pretty much bores me these days.

And I honestly think that my "performance" in the bedroom has improved, but that could just be subjective.

Anyone else here in the same boat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye, there’s an over saturation of it now on t’internet and it kind of becomes a little boring to be honest.

Back in the day, pre-internet (yes, Fabsters, I’m THAT old!) it was harder to access and seemed more erotic. Now it’s a bit meh.

I can easily shut off from it for weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are becoming desensitised to it. If there is always biscuits in the biscuits tin, where's the fun in biscuits xx

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Tend to be more selective of the content, a lot of it is boring and mundane but once in a while an actor comes a long that you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are becoming desensitised to it. If there is always biscuits in the biscuits tin, where's the fun in biscuits xx"

Prefer Hob Nobs to Rich Tea anyday

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Not at all. But I do find my search terms to be very specifically BDSM related these days

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The TV/TS stuff is quite boring on the majority of sites. Occasionally something good appears but it’s rare.

I quite enjoy the Japanese TV porn (JAV) but even that stuff is pixelated around the good stuff. So I generally find myself enjoying erotic fiction, my imagination filling in the gaps.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I would not say I'm off porn but I don't find it as much of a turn on as it used to be. As someone already said back in the day before the internet a good titty mag was about all you got so anything more like a VHS porn video was amazing. Now it's just there 24/7 so I find not the same excitement anymore. But when I do look for porn now it's more tailored to my taste.

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By *penbicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Thanks for your responses, folks.

Has anyone else noticed (or perceived) a difference in their "performance" since engaging with porn less often?

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Haven't been watching much porn then again I haven't been doing much of anything due to be sick with the flu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye, there’s an over saturation of it now on t’internet and it kind of becomes a little boring to be honest.

Back in the day, pre-internet (yes, Fabsters, I’m THAT old!) it was harder to access and seemed more erotic. Now it’s a bit meh.

I can easily shut off from it for weeks.

Ah, yes! As a fresh faced 16yr old myself and my boyfriend used to cycle VHS porno tapes with our mates. Then came the invention of dirty dvds and it was a whole new world! I still have a few that I've kept for nostalgia purposes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not given up on porn x im still a porn lover. I love to flick through the categories until i cum accross one that makes me the most horniest lol. Surely im not alone in the porno fraternity lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Nope. Just more discerning and selective in my tastes nowadays.

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney

The only porn that gets me going nowadays is our own private viewing only videos. Especially ones she brings home after she been with her special friend. I think it's because I feel a connection,

And I know it's real. I know she is really enjoying it because she wouldn't do it if she didn't.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We haven’t watched porn for nearly 10 years. The real thing is much better. In porn they're not doing it for pure enjoyment, it's for their next line or fix. And those fake porn noises...Well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I did. Well I am still at an early stage as I haven’t watched anything still august (expect on fab) but I don’t purposely go on a porn site and look for video to have a wank over.

But so far so good. I feel much better without it and had my first wank without it and… well never thought I’d say that one day and feel a bit vulnerable, but it felt lovely , it was good to reconnect with my body without the noise of porn. I was with myself for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your responses, folks.

Has anyone else noticed (or perceived) a difference in their "performance" since engaging with porn less often?"

Realising that maybe I gave you information for your next book!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

So much new porn is made in America and Eastern Europe and it’s all the same and based on the usual scenarios. I think Brit porn is some of the best out there but there is very little new stuff coming out post Ben Dover era

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t watch it as much anymore. I often go back to scenes from 10/15 years ago if I do

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We still watch porn but I, Willow cannot stand all the false noises, spoils it.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"We still watch porn but I, Willow cannot stand all the false noises, spoils it. "

Totally agree

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By *penbicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Realising that maybe I gave you information for your next book! "

Nope. Bit too 'adult' for my next book!

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By *rbifunMan
over a year ago

exeter

"Has anyone else lost interest in porn?

I mean, we still watch it together, but that feels completely different. And Alice watches it on her own, but if it's just me it pretty much bores me these days.

And I honestly think that my "performance" in the bedroom has improved, but that could just be subjective.

Anyone else here in the same boat?"

I just find it so fake and mostly boring, and I used to be obsessed with it.

I much prefer people's photos and videos on here, and cams, the reality of it is much more of a turn on. I also love my locked gallery on my phone which is full of photos and videos of my fun with the wife/others.

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By *ooki82Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

The bi mmf stuff is so samey now!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Cant even remember the last time i watched any or what it was.

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By *arkjackMan
over a year ago

West Cork

"Has anyone else lost interest in porn?

I mean, we still watch it together, but that feels completely different. And Alice watches it on her own, but if it's just me it pretty much bores me these days.

And I honestly think that my "performance" in the bedroom has improved, but that could just be subjective.

Anyone else here in the same boat?"

Come to same conclusion.

Avoid it now most of the time.

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By *penbicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I just find it so fake and mostly boring, and I used to be obsessed with it.

I used to be obsessed with it too. I wouldn't say I was addicted, but it was definitely a problem. I don't really know how I got away from that either!

And, yeah, I would much rather peruse my secure folder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else lost interest in porn?

I mean, we still watch it together, but that feels completely different. And Alice watches it on her own, but if it's just me it pretty much bores me these days.

And I honestly think that my "performance" in the bedroom has improved, but that could just be subjective.

Anyone else here in the same boat?"

Porn is boring . I used to have a porn club bu age of 12 . The wrong and naughty was exciting .

I don’t like FM porn . Can’t stand it any more .

Love FF porn . Used to watch ladies on cam a few years back

Is all boring waste of time now .

I am better and more happy being the action man then the watcher

Same as drinking massively … is all done … no more big fuzz about it .

Miss the company tho

could do with that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We still watch porn but I, Willow cannot stand all the false noises, spoils it. "

Last few years ( 3 years ago ) I used to watch FF or web cam masturbating was always on mute . Not just the audio is off puttin certain expressions is far to fake for it .

Find amateur broadcast more exciting

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
over a year ago

North West

Much prefer watching vids we've made with each other or other people... turns me on remembering it all.

Porn sites are pretty boring

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I hate how staged it looks now & it always sounds forced, that's why I use Fab as my porn now. Some incredibly sexy people on here & great video makers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watch quite a bit, usually while having a play, Mr isn't really bothered about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Much prefer watching vids we've made with each other or other people... turns me on remembering it all.

Porn sites are pretty boring"

Same . If I’m the porn star with a lover is cool rest is crap ha ha

Exactly this

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Much prefer watching vids we've made with each other or other people... turns me on remembering it all.

Porn sites are pretty boring"

I can understand why you would have that opinion

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By *hris7upMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

These days I prefer reading erotic stories to viewing the mass produced repetitive porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find looking for vintage or retro does it more for me than up to date stuff.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm amazed at how the fans' etc sites have so much popularity, when there's so much free stuff.

I don't generally find enough porn of interest to me now, much of it is tedious and too staged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally use xhamster but only go on occasionally now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me the amateur stuff which is done on a phone

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By *rbifunMan
over a year ago

exeter

"The bi mmf stuff is so samey now! "

It's all so bloody fake. Genuinely real homemade bi mmf porn is a very lacking genre, and a shame, because it's so damn hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero interest in it. It was briefly a curiosity years ago but it bores me now.

Couldn't tell you when I last watched it. Tbh my own imaginings and flashbacks to recent fun are more than hot enough to fuel any solo play sessions

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I got bored with it years ago does nothing anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only really like genuine amateur bukkake and gangbang porn. Find all the studio stuff boring

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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Best making some homemade stuff

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

dont watch much porn at all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since we started recording our own sessions we have totally gone off of porn and would just prefer to watch our own play sessions and meets back.

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By *XLguyMan
over a year ago

London

Yes I started creating my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, feels oversaturated. Mrs fox does extra stuff herself online but even she's bored of producing the stuff too as she's always seeing it! Think we'll detox for a bit haha

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

My interest is waning. For me to get really excited it has to be pretty niche these days. Amateur, real credible is needed to push my buttons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up on porn a long time ago, far too much choking going on nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEP!!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Not really a desire for it even though it is instantly accessible and caters for every desire. I think for me it's a mixture of being very busy and having an active frequent sex life. I don't need it to get horny. And when I get the horn I don't need it to get off because I'm already horny as a product of my imagination.

I suppose it doesn't help that I find a lot of porn terrible anyways. And on the point of porn is there a law that says in Clubs only terrible cringy porn is allowed to be shown?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through phases of watching it alot and then not at all, and I'm in a not at all phase atm.

I think flirting with gorgeous sexy women is alot more sexy. Also I've been on a porn set (not acting) and it really isn't as hot as it looks or sounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

I still love it

I have certain moods that need certain porn !!

Lol

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Porn doesnt do much for me anymore, think thats more due to lack of real sex as I use it to help me remember those amazing nights I've had in the past.... now those are mostly so far back they are fuzzy

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Does having videos of one's own meets count as porn? I find them much more arousing than even the old 70's stuff which I used to love.

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By *arkjackMan
over a year ago

West Cork

"I gave up on porn a long time ago, far too much choking going on nowadays

Choking seems like a sexual convenience food way to feel control loss, it works, but the nutrition of being sincerely fucked isn't always going to be there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I have. It all seems so meh. I like the more kinkier side and it's getting harder and harder to find stuff that isn't terrible.

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By *arkjackMan
over a year ago

West Cork

"My interest is waning. For me to get really excited it has to be pretty niche these days. Amateur, real credible is needed to push my buttons"

That's the way it goes, then you'll sputter out and mostly drop it, reckon this happens to a lot of men. A real physical fuck. Can't be duplicated with 2D women.

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By *hilleddevilMan
over a year ago

north Manchester

"We are becoming desensitised to it. If there is always biscuits in the biscuits tin, where's the fun in biscuits xx

Prefer Hob Nobs to Rich Tea anyday"

Chocolate ones though

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By *arkjackMan
over a year ago

West Cork

"We are becoming desensitised to it. If there is always biscuits in the biscuits tin, where's the fun in biscuits xx

Prefer Hob Nobs to Rich Tea anyday

Chocolate ones though"

Smother them in whipped cream, that is the key.

Also an open invitation for femalekind to be resurfaced with careful applications of whipped cream, chocolate and strawberries. That is also The Way.

P.S. Totes d*unk but also super serious.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Sometimeywhen you look on here and see your going to have no meets then porn is a man’s best friend.

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