FabSwingers.com forum: Women who can dominate a couple

By *ontWannaMissASwing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

So me and Mrs R were discussing this a few days ago.

In our relationship, Mrs is quite submissive, without our relationship actually being a D/s thing. I'm no Dom, it's just that when we do anything sexually I tend to initiate our play and control the pace and what happens etc.

Mrs likes to be tied up, teased and 'used' by me.

I love it and it's perfect, for like 99% of the time.

Occasionally however, I'd love us to be able to switch it up, for someone to be a bit rough with me, tie me up, tell me what's going to happen etc.

Its just not something that Mrs feels comfortable doing, and i know she feels awkward trying.

So we've been wondering about meeting a woman who could maybe meet us and control things with both of us? Not like a full on mistress type of scenario, just someone who can direct and has the confidence to dictate what happens and use us both.

Has anyone had success in finding this, it feels a bit more ambitious in comparison to finding one of the hundreds of fellas who could probably do something similar, though its not quite what we are after here.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d suggest maybe trying to meet a domme at an event or munch. I’m sure there are plenty of dommes who’d be into this, and by chatting to an experienced member of the kink community you’d be able to find what you like. A session with a pro domme would mean you’d get EXACTLY what you want.

By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Agree with previous comment, you’ll more likely find this within the Fetish Community.

I used to (still occasionally) go to Fetish clubs and female dominants to turn up and play with singles and couples.

Or look at a club night near to you that’s have a BDSM party night.

Good luck

By *ontWannaMissASwing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you for the advice, we will take a look at some stuff in our area.

Anyone else had success with a meet like this?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for the advice, we will take a look at some stuff in our area.

Anyone else had success with a meet like this?"

Definitely look for a pro domme. It's great fun!