FabSwingers.com forum: No one messages.

By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

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By *uiceboxjoMan
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Add a pic. People don’t want to talk to blank profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"

Search the forums for profile advice maybe?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody bothered with blank profiles.

Why when you can just jump onto the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody bothered with blank profiles.

Why when you can just jump onto the next "

No body bothered with mine either and it’s not blank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort your profile out.

You don't stand out from the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard to get any attention on here mate not just you lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

You need to ask yourself, if nobody knows what you may look like how would they know if they find you appealing. What do you look for or expect to see from others before you send them a message. It goes both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"

I wouldn’t even open your message as I delete all blank profile messages without bothering to even look at your profile….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"try a club"

This…..

Attend local organised socials and or clubs. They help with networking and making friends…

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By *4G-GBBukCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Your profile is as much use as a fart in a wind tunnel, that’s just for starters.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Butlins Minehead (for the weekend)

Sort your pics and profile bio out, then get yourself meet verified by attending a club or social.

Sometimes there are open guest lists that make it easier for non members to attend clubs, for example there are BBW and birthday party guest lists currently in the forms for Chameleons Darlaston

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Make a proper profile op

With a pic or 2 and write what you're offering meets and looking for .

Most of us will just delete messages from a blank shadow .

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"

It’s probably your below average profile and no pictures

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Also op and @midlands_guy22 have some patience, this isn't istashag women don't just jump on your dick just because your on here. Some guys don't ever meet off here some just meet in clubs.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Add pics, good ones, show off more than just your cock.

Beef up the bio a bit.

Avoid using words like "wanna"

Best of luck

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"

What do you mean 'literally been on this'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody bothered with blank profiles.

Why when you can just jump onto the next

No body bothered with mine either and it’s not blank

Get yourself on the Northants social list, it's on every few months

Same for you OP, get along to an organised group social

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Follow the advice given by previous posters but also lower your expectations. Just based on the disproportionate number of males alone your chances of a meet are instantly reduced. No one is entitled to anything on here.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Post on the forum so other people can use all their effort crafting a profile that might put you in with half a chance.

Might as well save all your energy for that elusive shag, right?

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

Chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I’ll meet you

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"

Add some photos, write a better profile and be more patient.

Why were you expecting people to msg you? They can't even see who they would be messaging.

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

How can I stand out? Can you help me?

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

Been on her few months. No replies and nothing serious at all

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

True can anyone help me out please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can I stand out? Can you help me?"

You have to be you, your profile has to portray you as a person, it can't come from anyone else.

I don't have an exciting profile but it's what I wrote. I have meets now and again but hardly often. Just the way it is for some of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be blunt your profile sucks, add a few pictures etc.

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"True can anyone help me out please?"

Think you have had quite a bit of advice.

Add picture

Add to your profile.

It's completely blank. Noone would respond d

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also OP there's a "reply & quote" tab to help with who you are replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can I stand out? Can you help me?"

There's 100 single males for every single female or couple on here as its a swinging website site.

As many of said your profile is a blank avatar with zero pictures 99.9% will delete before reading.

Start with pictures set to public and a profile picture. You don't need to show your face but some good body pictures so people get a sense of you is a start. If you put a cock picture a decent erect picture including your body in the shot is the way to go only have 1 or 2 max.

Also address what the reasons are that you can't accommodate in your profile as many take "can't accommodate" as

a sign that your cheating although you will get more leway due to your age than a man in his 30s 40s might.

Finally look at clubs in your local area and social events Fab is just one tool in the box and if your serious about swinging then get yourself involved in the scene.

If your just hoping for a quick shag with little effort then I'd try a different website.

Good luck

KJ x

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By *rownBear365Man
over a year ago

city

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"

Pretend your a woman and watch your inbox implode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try looking for other single dudes in your predicament.

Not many women desperate or not would be enthused at the prospect of chatting to a blank profile.

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

Is my profile better or what else can I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is my profile better or what else can I do?"

Looks ok to me but I'm not your target audience.

Why are you orange in your profile pic?

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

"Is my profile better or what else can I do?

Looks ok to me but I'm not your target audience.

Why are you orange in your profile pic?

That’s a filter I think lol. And how you been xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is my profile better or what else can I do?

Looks ok to me but I'm not your target audience.

Why are you orange in your profile pic?

That’s a filter I think lol. And how you been xx"

Good.

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By *vd1987Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I find most people are on here just to talk (just my opinion) but they ones that do meet are always really good

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Do you live with your parents?

Get rid of the stuff about not having a six pack or whatever. Don't apologise for something you aren't, it conveys insecurity. Whatever you are, own it.

Also get rid of the line about being mature for your age. You probably aren't, and if someone wants maturity, they aren't looking for it from a 23 year old.

Photos aren't great, get rid of the blurry filters and stickers.

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By *imbobongoMan
over a year ago

bognor regis

"Do you live with your parents?

Get rid of the stuff about not having a six pack or whatever. Don't apologise for something you aren't, it conveys insecurity. Whatever you are, own it.

Also get rid of the line about being mature for your age. You probably aren't, and if someone wants maturity, they aren't looking for it from a 23 year old.

Photos aren't great, get rid of the blurry filters and stickers."

She knows

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

"Do you live with your parents?

Get rid of the stuff about not having a six pack or whatever. Don't apologise for something you aren't, it conveys insecurity. Whatever you are, own it.

Also get rid of the line about being mature for your age. You probably aren't, and if someone wants maturity, they aren't looking for it from a 23 year old.

Photos aren't great, get rid of the blurry filters and stickers."

Done and going to add more pictures

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

I give up. No one replies back no matter how hard you try. I’m done with this site. Literally tried everything. This site literally fucks ur head.

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Your not going to be for everyone unfortunately.

Being a single male on fab, means the odds are against you.

If you are getting pissed off and frustrated, then maybe fab isn't the place for you.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

You’ve got some good photos, although I would suggest a few more where you are smiling rather than frowning.

Your profile is OK, but remember this is a swinging site and the social side is important. Add a bit about your interests and the kind of person you are.

Go to socials and clubs, talk to people without any expectations for sex and get to know them.

Oh, and try referring to “women” rather than “females”. Saying “females” makes them sound like lab specimens rather than people.

If you’re just looking for a quick shag to the point that you’re frustrated and fed up after only a few months then this site really isn’t for you.

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

"You’ve got some good photos, although I would suggest a few more where you are smiling rather than frowning.

Your profile is OK, but remember this is a swinging site and the social side is important. Add a bit about your interests and the kind of person you are.

Thank you appreciate the response

Go to socials and clubs, talk to people without any expectations for sex and get to know them.

Oh, and try referring to “women” rather than “females”. Saying “females” makes them sound like lab specimens rather than people.

If you’re just looking for a quick shag to the point that you’re frustrated and fed up after only a few months then this site really isn’t for you."

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Your pics and profile are more suited to the book of face.

Your expectations are too high.

You’ll already have knocked out a lot of interest from your age and your pics.

Are you looking on the site for organised socials, clubs, cams?

It’s not the site that’s the problem when guys can’t get meets…it’s never the site.

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

I try to cam so people can verify me but no one replies on cams.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"I try to cam so people can verify me but no one replies on cams."

What kind of messages are you posting in the chatrooms?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

but remember this is a swinging site and the social side is important.

its a swinging site indeed but for as many who wants socials there are as many who dont but they are still swingers

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"I try to cam so people can verify me but no one replies on cams."

cam veri's mean very little to most all they prove is that you went on cam ...nothing else

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

Maybe I could be yours I’m 10 days away from 24 years old? Somerset wife x

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

"I try to cam so people can verify me but no one replies on cams.

What kind of messages are you posting in the chatrooms?"

I speak to them like ask them how they are and what they’re up to. And ask what they’re doing and what they want from this site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I speak to them like ask them how they are and what they’re up to. And ask what they’re doing and what they want from this site x"

Can you imagine how many times we get asked stuff like that in an average day? Read people's profiles and find something actually interesting to ask about.

(Bry)

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person."

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?"

Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?

Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple."

What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"Maybe I could be yours I’m 10 days away from 24 years old? Somerset wife x"

i wish you luck and it will be hard for you just because your a man ... but its a no thanks from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?

Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.

What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx"

You need to read what I wrote again please.

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?

Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.

What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx

You need to read what I wrote again please."

I wanna try clubs which is best? In midlands? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?

Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.

What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx

You need to read what I wrote again please."

Peg him

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

OP, the people giving you advice aren't giving you signs off interest and nobody here is going to hold your hand.

If you're that interested in the scene then go check out some clubs/socials, there's plenty of info on this site to where they are.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

Peg him"

and thats very helpful and grown up is it not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?

Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.

What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx

You need to read what I wrote again please.

I wanna try clubs which is best? In midlands? X"

I don't know as I haven't been to any in the Midlands. You can look at the club section on this site and read reviews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?

Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.

What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx

You need to read what I wrote again please.

Peg him"

I was thinking when he said the word 'anything' that he was being brave. This is a dangerous place to say "up for anything". Imagine having to do space docking because you said you'd do anything. Jeez.

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By *ingk786 OP Man
over a year ago

"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?

Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.

I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?

Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.

What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx

You need to read what I wrote again please.

I wanna try clubs which is best? In midlands? X

I don't know as I haven't been to any in the Midlands. You can look at the club section on this site and read reviews."

Thank you appreciate it

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