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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m in a bind (yep, another one).

I can, with due planning, accommodate & happily put that on my profile - especially as single operators like me who can’t come off looking sketchy.

However, I’m curious to know - when a house is obviously a shared family home, with all the detritus that brings, what proportion of you find that a buzzkill?

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I always say, mind the Lego underfoot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't put me off as we have the same situation here. I just close all the doors to kids rooms. So as long as we aren't doing it amongst the soft toys or next to the high chair we are all good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always say, mind the Lego underfoot! "

For you, Alice, there’d be no brick too prickly

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there. "

Why’s that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wouldn't put me off as we have the same situation here. I just close all the doors to kids rooms. So as long as we aren't doing it amongst the soft toys or next to the high chair we are all good. "

Very reasonable indeed

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I always say, mind the Lego underfoot! "

You should set a challenge,like a firewalk but a Lego walk, if they pass that then they move onto the upturned plugs round, the prize is you at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate as I have a less abled family member who resides with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d never go to someone’s house because we’d worry about hidden cameras.

Hotels give us control of the environment and anonymity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.

Why’s that? "

Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’d never go to someone’s house because we’d worry about hidden cameras.

Hotels give us control of the environment and anonymity.

"

This too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.

Why’s that?

Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home."

I don't mind tbh

But I totally get this view point.

My little cousin lives with me and even if she wasn't out for the evening/night I wouldn't bring someone home unless it was a gf or bf

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.

Why’s that?

Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home."

That’s fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.

Why’s that?

Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home.

I don't mind tbh

But I totally get this view point.

My little cousin lives with me and even if she wasn't out for the evening/night I wouldn't bring someone home unless it was a gf or bf "

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.

Why’s that?

Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home.

I don't mind tbh

But I totally get this view point.

My little cousin lives with me and even if she wasn't out for the evening/night I wouldn't bring someone home unless it was a gf or bf "

Did you mean if she was out for the night? I’m guessing so

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

My brother lives with me.

I'm fortunate in that he works away during the week, making accommodating fairly easy.

I dont have issues bringing my regular FWB back when he is there, but unlikely to accommodate anyone else.

And certainly won't accommodate when my niece stays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can awlays do when kids are at school etc we used years ago.

Personally, we steer clear of those can't accommodate, personal choice

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By *ustBlissCouple
over a year ago

Matlock

Depends on the level of wreckage. No offence meant, just that children rarely have a concept of tidiness.

I prefer a tidy house and always scrub mine before a playdate. I can cope with some display of a family home, but would feel put off if it were a total kip shop, if you see what I mean?

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We have and will definitely meet others in their house regardless if they have kids.

We wouldn’t go round for a meet if the kids were still at home though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have and will definitely meet others in their house regardless if they have kids.

We wouldn’t go round for a meet if the kids were still at home though. "

This is my feeling. I put ‘accom’ more to show willing than out of expectation of it being taken up.

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