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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people respond to winks or just simply ignore them? I use it as my way of letting people know I’m interested but not often much comes from it. I understand people may prefer a message but I’m just curious to see if winks actually work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only really look at mine if I'm joining in a forum game or whatever. I think it's a nice low key way of showing interest, but a bit too low key if no one is looking at them

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By *eed.a.signalMan
over a year ago

Local

All for the wink system, shows interest without pressure to reply

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

I normally only use them if it's part of a thread its hard enough to get a response from a message never mind a wink

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By *exbot 1Man
over a year ago

Chester le street

Always try to send a message back if someone winks at me

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I wink back, I also send winks.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only had one from a nice guy who I thanked but had to explain he wasn’t for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I pay them attention, normally just delete

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A wink is similar to a polite way to say hello and if receive one back can start of with a message. Prefer using the message if I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people respond to winks or just simply ignore them? I use it as my way of letting people know I’m interested but not often much comes from it. I understand people may prefer a message but I’m just curious to see if winks actually work"

We like using winks to let people know we are interested. If we are interested in anyone who winks us, we send a message

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love winks. Both sending and receiving them.

They have led to some interesting encounters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a wink and I'm interested, I will reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are under rated on here.love getting a wink if im lucky to receive any that is

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We have a look at their profile and wink back if interested then message with face pics. The face pics can be the deal breaker..

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

I like sending winks, shows o am interested in them. If they were not meant to be sent then why have them as a function on the site? There to be used ? X

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think wings are great way of communicating. But my problem is I wink at people that are way too far from me.

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas


"We have a look at their profile and wink back if interested then message with face pics. The face pics can be the deal breaker.."

That nerve wracking moment when waiting for a face pic to come through. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a look at their profile and wink back if interested then message with face pics. The face pics can be the deal breaker.."

This is me also!!

Do think it’s an easier way of gauging the interest between both parties…think it makes the creation of an opening message so much easier haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone winks us we will look at their profile and if we like what we see we will wink back

if there is no profile pic we won't even look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people wink when they have no public pictures and a three word bio?

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I never remember to check them to be honest. But will from now on after seeing some of the people who have winked at us

Mrs

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I send winks. And if am lucky enough to get any back, happy days.

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas


" I send winks. And if am lucky enough to get any back, happy days. "

This

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've never sent a wink to anyone. If I'm interested, I'll message with pic. I do receive winks but only respond if they arouse interest, which is rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people wink when they have no public pictures and a three word bio? "

or worse still they message and say... "want to meet?" .....

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
over a year ago

Colchester

Funnily enough we’ve sent a few out today. See if we get any back!!

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I think of winks as being the equivalent of smiling at someone across a room. If they smile back, I take it as a sign that they might not run to the hills if I spoke to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think wings are great way of communicating. But my problem is I wink at people that are way too far from me. "

Being where we are in Scotland, pretty much everyone is far away for us, but that doesn’t stop us making an effort to connect. It’s nice to even just get to know people on the scene, and you never know your paths might cross sometime

F (Mrs)

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"I think wings are great way of communicating. But my problem is I wink at people that are way too far from me.

Being where we are in Scotland, pretty much everyone is far away for us, but that doesn’t stop us making an effort to connect. It’s nice to even just get to know people on the scene, and you never know your paths might cross sometime

F (Mrs) "

True. I could always get a helicopter

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