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By *aytie0 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

It’s probably different for men and women but curious about whether your real life friends know you’re on fab, what made you share it with them and what was their response?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Yes they know I'm a swinger and on sites... it's part of who I am. Most of them are on here the ones that aren't respect my choices. Some are curious, some think it's weird and the rest juat accept its part of me

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By *s Roxie RyderWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

A few select ones do that I trust .

I've teenagers so they dont need know about this part of my life .

The ones that do think it's kinda crazy but not surprised of me lol

They lean to the vanilla side of life but each to their own !

Ive always thought would actually be cool to have some like minded lady friends from here to share stories etc...

I should get to socials !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes close friends know and occasional conversations happen about fab life. It isn't a secret, but i don't wear a t-shirt with an upside down pineapple on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real life friends are from fabs

How about that ?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes my close friends know, it’s a part of my life. X

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

After nearly two years of being on here I confided in my open minded 27 yo daughter and more recently a fellow male friend, not in massive detail like my profile name ect, just that I was on such a site. There were no raised eyebrows and quite a lot of understanding why without judgement.

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By *aytie0 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Seaham


"After nearly two years of being on here I confided in my open minded 27 yo daughter and more recently a fellow male friend, not in massive detail like my profile name ect, just that I was on such a site. There were no raised eyebrows and quite a lot of understanding why without judgement."

Did they ask questions about it?

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Nope they don’t

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes friends and family know x

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"After nearly two years of being on here I confided in my open minded 27 yo daughter and more recently a fellow male friend, not in massive detail like my profile name ect, just that I was on such a site. There were no raised eyebrows and quite a lot of understanding why without judgement.

Did they ask questions about it?"

They didn't have to, I was straight up with them regarding reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel the need to tell anyone tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very honest with my friends so they regularly ask and get updated with what i’m doing with Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very open about my life. I have nothing to hide and enjoying a varied sex life should not have to feel like a "shameful secret"

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Only one of my friends knows, and that sort of came out of a joint confession session when she was depressed and it seemed helpful to open up myself to show that even externally respectable me had some secrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t really have any friends so no issues one way or another.

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By *rs W AnchorWoman
over a year ago

North Norfolk

Yes my best friends and my sisters. They like to live through me but they could never do it themselves. They just love that I'm happy and they like to know I'm safe so I tell them who I'm meeting and where x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Definitely no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my best mate does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lord no. Only my wife knows - and all the unfortunate folks I’ve approached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After nearly two years of being on here I confided in my open minded 27 yo daughter and more recently a fellow male friend, not in massive detail like my profile name ect, just that I was on such a site. There were no raised eyebrows and quite a lot of understanding why without judgement.

Did they ask questions about it?

They didn't have to, I was straight up with them regarding reasons."

My daughter also knows I'm on here. I mean she has quite a few folk she knows who are on OF, so I don't think she found it that dramatic her single mum is on here

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By *anny34500Man
over a year ago

Luton

no coz im a to dirty they would think my kinks are weird lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What friends lol

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

No!

What about you OP...your friends know you are on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, other than the friends I've made via fab. Simply because its my private life and my friends are mostly married with kids and simply wouldn't understand this lifestyle!

Fair play to those with open minded enough friends to be told without being judged or criticised though!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

My friends and my family know I am on here... I don't hide what I get up to from them

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

Yes almost all do now, we had pictures leaked so we decided to own it rather than shy away from it. A few prude ones have turned their but most have been supportive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of mine do. And some family

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Fab friends yes

Life outside no they dont, none of their business what i do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't talk about fabclub. Lol.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

No way!

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my closest friend knows and my sister. My work colleagues do not however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do and they are cool with it, if sometimes a bit bemused. Some are also quite jealous as they want to try this for themselves but aren’t in a position to do so.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

only 2 mates no we on here

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By *ongcockMan
over a year ago

somerset

A few do I’ve just seen a friend arrive on here don’t know if should say

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

No its our little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few do I’ve just seen a friend arrive on here don’t know if should say "

Say what?

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

Yes our friends know and a few have joined us for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that i know of but i try not to have friends anymore if i can help it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A few close friends know we're here, it's nice to have someone to chat to about meets etc.

Mrs

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

There's a couple of people in my everyday life know I have or have had profiles on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was introduced to this site by a friend... So yes most of my friends know.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

One mate does. He saw me browsing in the pub once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them do. It's not a secret, it's what 2 adults together have decided to do, simples. If they don't like, their problem. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few female friends that I went to school know as we spotted each other and knew straight away. None of my close friends that I know of, and hopefully it stays that way.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Amazed at the number of Yesses here! I would have thought this thread would have been a non-starter from all the nos!

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By *nsatiablebutfussyCouple
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

Yeah we're very open with all our friends what we get up to, everyone is always very curious and lots have asked us to take them to the local club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hide anything from friends some know, some don't as it hasn't come up yet (oo er)

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’ve got a couple of friends who know because we’ve told them.

Also one friend who knows because we bumped into them at a Fab social!

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

My close friends know. I think they enjoy living vicariously through me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My close friends know. I think they enjoy living vicariously through me. "

Haha, my best friend Naomi uses that phrase about me at least once a month.

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

No, but some of them know that we meet up with people for sex but we haven't told them about the site we meet them on

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

And not only friends and family! Know! 2 work colleagues found me here and my best friends son! but hey ho! X

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By *uff and FruitCouple
over a year ago

littleport

Yes, many of my closest know.

Fruit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always interested to read what singles reply, isn't it no different to going out and having a one night stand? Singles sleeping with others occasionally is what other singles do right? Or not?

Mrs C

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By *urious Wakefield CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I'm very open about my life. I have nothing to hide and enjoying a varied sex life should not have to feel like a "shameful secret"

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By *ukkakelovingwifeWoman
over a year ago

twickenham

One of my hubby’s friends saw my profile cost me a blowjob to keep him quiet

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Only my wife! Though, I suspect that a few times I have been blocked have been because people have recognised me from "real life". So I suspect some might know...

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss


"One of my hubby’s friends saw my profile cost me a blowjob to keep him quiet"
lucky him. Mmmmmmmmm?? xx

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss


"And not only friends and family! Know! 2 work colleagues found me here and my best friends son! but hey ho! X"
did you fuck her son ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the ones thats are on here as well

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Our real friends know. Those that aren’t swingers are pretty curious and ask plenty of questions, which we welcome.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

A couple of friends know we’re on here, but they are on here too, we met at socials and private socials.

The rest no our fun our business and we intend to try and keep it that was, as long as we can .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of my friends know and my wee sister knows

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By *ilson84500Man
over a year ago

Portadown


"And not only friends and family! Know! 2 work colleagues found me here and my best friends son! but hey ho! X"

Did he at least verify you lol

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By *estwirralcoupleCouple
over a year ago

NW England

We haven’t told anyone, it’s our little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My oldest friend knows im on here, i know he won't tell anyone

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

They don't know what sites we're on, but everyone who knows us knows we're in an open relationship.

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

Two do. Any others haven't said so if they do

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some do,but some of them have other friends that are also using this and go to the club's it's just the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No friends , no family .

Only people I chat is from fabs .

My mum knows I been online since 2013 .

Is how I met my daughters mum in dating app .

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My friends know I indulge in this lifestyle and that Im on fab... my family do not, at least I dont think so.

All my friends are married or have long time partners and Im the only single one so dont think they judge

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By *isto99Man
over a year ago

London

Yeah a mate who lives across the road from me lool and another a 2min walk from me, they both don't know I know (we don't talk as much anymore. anyway)

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Some do, some live through us vicariously!

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

One friend is on here , he’s also my brothers mate ! He’s seen my wife’s pics and vids , but doesn’t seem interested in meeting us !

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By *r_GreyscaleMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

My friends don't know, when I still lived in my home town I found a few people I knew on here. I found it pretty exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have a customer once see my phone open and say oh aye im on there too how you finding it i said iv fucked my cock off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One friend of mine (which is on here knows), but other than that no one else. I don't feel the need as of yet to share what I get up to here.

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

dudley

Most of the people who have verified me I class as my friends a good percentage of them I knew from tvchix which was a factor in why I joined fab, there is a few people in the outside world that know I’m on fab,

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

I told a co-worker after he mentioned the site in conversation. He was shocked at all told me a few of his mates were too. No big deal really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend, and a close friend know. They think it's funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of them do

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Friends?

What are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are close circle of friends do. Get quizzed occasionally lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not something we'd share! X

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Hell Nooooo

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Few of our close friends know we are

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By *harlieD69Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Yeh a few of my best mates do , and I think my bro knows too lol

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By *haringiscaring1980sCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

We have 4 good friends that know.

We can tell one of them is very tempted to join us but her partner is a bit boring.

We have nothing to hide and in our age bracket people are more understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are friends on here with one of mr good friends

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By *elly2000Couple
over a year ago

City

My mother and sister know everything about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my best friend because we trust each other 100%. People still message me and say they know me though and I just find that more of an irritation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, family, close friends and work colleagues know.

We dont advertise it, but we dont deny it if asked.

The only people who ask questions are work colleagues, more out of intrigue than anything else. I actually think half of them are jealous....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't feel any need to tell them

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By *winklewinkleCouple
over a year ago

Reading

A few of our close friends know about it, as long as we're happy they're happy.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Yes, a few male friends who are also on here. Also can get together for group and mmf meets

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

God no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends do and my family too. They know I attend parties and host them. My ex husband told them when we broke up and I didn't deny it so the cats out of the bag!

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"It’s probably different for men and women but curious about whether your real life friends know you’re on fab, what made you share it with them and what was their response? "

Some do, some suspect, most haven’t a clue.

We’ve never had any negative responses

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Nope, a few know I crossdress and they’re aware I go to some dodgy places whilst dressed. However they don’t know some of those places are Swinging venues.

Actually if you told them they wouldn’t be surprised.

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By *ifewantsmore777Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Hell Nooooo"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s probably different for men and women but curious about whether your real life friends know you’re on fab, what made you share it with them and what was their response? "

I’ve a few friends who know I’m on here - 2 of them are on here themselves with their partners, and the other is into the lifestyle with her partner but not on Fab. It’s no big secret for us if anyone asked, but we don’t go around shouting about it

F (Mrs)

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

A few (2 so far) have asked us in vaguely put together questions. We have just laughed it off and asked them if their on there themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few know yes.

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By *omethingfun96Couple
over a year ago

greater london

Nope

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By *licia9090Woman
over a year ago

sussex

Just 2 close friends..

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

No, my private life is my business and no one else's

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

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By *etoo8083Man
over a year ago

up north

Nope... I wouldnt know where to start with most friends... plus my wife would soon find out!

I think that I have seen a couple of Facebook friends on here, some are quite sexy... Advice please! Should I message them and tell them who I am or would you leave alone?

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By *etsGo11Man
over a year ago

burton

A few

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Not at the moment but i could tell my mates I was on here who actually wouldn't care tbh (edit as 1 my female mates do know I am, she got me on here)

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We’ve never told any of our “normal” friends about it yet x

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

No one knows I’m on fab, even the people on fab

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By *ongFun94Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

I’ve told a couple of my mates, as I tell them about clubs and stuff

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

2 couples that are our best friends know but that's it. Wouldn't trust anyone else.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Some do, i use it for club details to help my friends discover something new. And introduce them to fab if they want to carry on.

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

No. But it’s not a ‘lifestyle’ for us just occasional fun. So don’t really feel the need to tell anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my mates does. Got her to join as she came out of a bad relationship and she's now met her should mate. So thanks to fab and me she's happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think so … but there has been some times where I thought .. well maybe.

I bet most Married Couple’s have played with this idea …

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

crawley

Our secret. Will remain so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve printed out business cards with my username on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ours don’t, but we prefer that x

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

No and we like it that way x

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By *andyL28TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen area

Yep most of my close friends know I am on and as cd/tv x

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

I hope not.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't tend to hide who I am or what I like. For people who don't want to know it's not known, for people who do I happily share information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here as singles many years ago, then got married (to each other haha) had children etc. Our close family know where we met and so do our close friends, others we just say other dating sites.

Mrs

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By *icouple1990Couple
over a year ago

Beccles

Most of our close friends know we're on here and others people down the school found out to I just laughed it off c talking and I get alot of the mother's wanting to chat since lol

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By *anJXMan
over a year ago

Warrington

No keep it separate

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By *bizzleMan
over a year ago

Witham

Yeah mine do! Nothing to hide here! Open book me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few close friends know about our preferences but the details are kept private xx

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the name fab but know I’m on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, I have got quite a few friends to sign up too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my mates does. Got her to join as she came out of a bad relationship and she's now met her should mate. So thanks to fab and me she's happy "

Awwww!

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Only told a couple of very close friends, quite exciting really for them to know about our "other life"Xx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

So 10 non swinging friends know - they have been really good. Sometimes they will ask how was a night or I was say

It was amazing and then it’s left to that. A few asked a number of questions at first and that was fine

I have a lot of ex swinger friends that are mates so obviously they know.

Generally everyone has been ok.

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

My little secret, just one friend knows as we “found “ each other on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and some where shocked and some weren't

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

I wish my friends did and also wish some where on here

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

LH

It's not a secret, but I don't advertise it. I couldn't give a monkeys about anyone knowing I'm on here

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By *iGuy_LeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Some do, but not all.

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By *rogalCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We both told one friend each

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

I haven't told anyone, but they probably wouldn't believe me if I did. People assume I'm just sweet and innocent, which is both a blessing and a curse.

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

Some of our friends know we swing, it’s likely our parents and siblings know as well.

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By *ove2PlayLincsCouple
over a year ago

Gainsborough

We sort of had to do a Q and A for a friend on boxing day. Those that know just ask questions about rules, jealousy , condoms etc. We find it funny.

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By *oleinone200Man
over a year ago

leeds

Some of our trusted friends know, the rest have no idea.

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
over a year ago

goffs oak

Non of our friends or family know, not worried if they find out and would be honest if asked.

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By *morous twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Northeast

A couple of our closest friends know but we’ve met some great people on here

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"And not only friends and family! Know! 2 work colleagues found me here and my best friends son! but hey ho! Xdid you fuck her son ??? "

Ha ha! No he asked if I would! I said that be wring on so many levels! As I watched him grow up! Plus he has a partner! Was dreading seeing his mum! As we tell each other absoulutley everything! In a way it has tarnished our friendship I feel! I could never say anything to her! X

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By *reeny777Man
over a year ago

chatham

one friend found out although after a few laughs about "I've seen your boner/seen you shagging" we agreed it was no big deal. They since joined and posted similar pics so we're even now, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 of my friends do.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

No. None of my friends know. I like to keep it a secret.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes I have one friend who knows. Sometimes it's good to have someone in the vanilla world to talk to.

XX

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By *randMrs397Couple
over a year ago

durham

Non of our friends know. We quite like the fact. It's like our own secret life.

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By *udeboy65Man
over a year ago

rotherham

My workmates know am on here but not that I’m on fabguys as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my friends know. She I trust with everything. I don't want anyone else to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my friends or family know or at least I don't think they do!

However none would be surprised to hear I'm on here

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

As far as I know, I'm completely on my own on here. But thinking about it, it would be lovely to find a female friend or neighbour on here to chat to.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

A handful of my friends know - some of my close friends are swingers in fact, and have made some firm friends through fab too!

The "non swinging" friends who know, have actually done more swapping than I have!! - Xeno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of our "couples" friends know, and ask questions every now and then, but apart from that no. But if anyone ever asked us we would be honest and say yes we are swingers x

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By *onda Coxor2Woman
over a year ago

nosey cunt.

Yeah a few of my friends know due to me telling a close male friend who I thought I could trust (most of my friends are male) it wasn't until a few weeks after telling him that I had a night out with a group of them & discovered that he had showed them all my pictures .

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Nobody I know know I’m on here

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Certain friends know, afterall this is how we met.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

One couple we told joined themselves and got involved. A couple of Tani’s friends know and usually comment “oh I couldn’t do that but fair play to you both”

I recently told my brother in law, he’s keen to bring it up with his wife (not my sister)

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By *h22ukMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Can be tricky with not just friends, but work colleagues too. A lot of people myself included need that little bit of secrecy..

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By *haringiscaring1980sCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Our close friends know and its not been a problem at all.

one of our female friends now joins us in threesomes which is pretty hot.

Some find it fascinating. The most outraged or disgusted friends - well they haven't had sex in a long time... One hasn't had sex for 10 years so probably find it all strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very accepting. I'm lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fair lot of my friends do yes and they ask for all the juicy stories hahah x

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Not that I'm aware of, but then who knows

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"A fair lot of my friends do yes and they ask for all the juicy stories hahah x"

Same. Apart from family, most of the people who learn we swing generally seem to envy us. A common response is "I'd love to do that, but just couldn't!"

Apart from Alice's son. He immediately asked where to sign up!

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

Our close friends know,and a few family members.we don't hide the fact that we swing

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"Our close friends know,and a few family members.we don't hide the fact that we swing "

Exactly the same ^^

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