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Purely platonic meets

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
over a year ago

London & Europe

Do you have them? And I don't mean group socials, I mean 1:1. Do you meet someone even when you know sex will never be on the menu?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Not from this site, but I met a guy on Fet and we've become pretty good friends since our first meet, he's about the only friend I've made since moving to Bristol

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
over a year ago

London & Europe


"Not from this site, but I met a guy on Fet and we've become pretty good friends since our first meet, he's about the only friend I've made since moving to Bristol "

That's nice to hear, it can be tough making friends in a new city

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yes.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I absolutely would. There’s lots of people who I really like on forums that I don’t fancy and don’t fancy me, but I think we’d have a great day/night out.

Can’t have too many friends.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North/Blackpool

Yes

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I don't see why not as long as everyone knows it's a platonic friendship and nothing else is expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made a friend via here who I know I'll never have sex with. But we chat every day which is lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have , and will again.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

We have socials with people we did meet for fun... doesn't always have to be about sex with us to have a nice time.

Of course, it's nice when it is... but it's also nice just to chill too.

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
over a year ago

London & Europe


"Yes I don't see why not as long as everyone knows it's a platonic friendship and nothing else is expected. "

I think it's a great thing as long as both parties feel the same way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet some regular people at clubs and have very nice conversations but Dora doesn’t want to fuck them.

We arranged to meet a guy recently just for a coffee as he was desperate for a verification.

He stood us up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I think it’s a really nice idea, so long as you’re all clear that’s the intention or at least a possibility. Politeness matters, with or without undies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and stayed the weekend together

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Yes I have. A fair few actually.

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington


"Yes I have. A fair few actually. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have made a friend via here who I know I'll never have sex with. But we chat every day which is lovely "

This

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

Many times, always happy to go for a coffee or beer, gives you a chance to get out and chat and just relax, especially taking the pressure of sex off the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to make platonic friends and do this but worry more will always be expected

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By *pinningfasterWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I absolutely would!

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes ... we would

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes of course. I wouldn't be here if I thought every meet was about sex or the expectation of it.

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By *ouraineCouple
over a year ago

Blois, France

We've met two couples for sex several times. After a while the novelty of having sex with them has faded but we still see them as friends. The great thing is that there are no taboo subjects and we talk about the other experiences we've had since and compare notes on clubs etc. We've been clubbing together but go our separate ways during the evening before meeting up again afterwards.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Never works as a woman with another man. All the men who try to meet, claiming lets just be friends, end up trying to sleep with me. I find it really depressing that most men can't be just friends with a woman. However I do have 5 male friends that never asked me to sleep with them. They know I would get very angry and disappointed with them. They value our friendship over sex.

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By *liceinwanderlust101Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge/London

The odd one yes! Some meets where it’s a play once then friendship onwards

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes I have done. I've really enjoyed it actually and this thread has inspired me to ask someone if they fancy coffee so thanks Op.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Many times . We like to meet cpls even though sex is not must. Its purely because we love to spend evening with like minded ppl rather than on our own.

Have some freinds here for that too.

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By *hil most chill OP   Man
over a year ago

London & Europe


"Yes I have done. I've really enjoyed it actually and this thread has inspired me to ask someone if they fancy coffee so thanks Op. "

Glad I could help!

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Yes we do

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By *bnstockingsCouple
over a year ago

devon

Yes we have , and would again

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"We've met two couples for sex several times. After a while the novelty of having sex with them has faded but we still see them as friends. The great thing is that there are no taboo subjects and we talk about the other experiences we've had since and compare notes on clubs etc. We've been clubbing together but go our separate ways during the evening before meeting up again afterwards. "

I love this!

Sounds like forum people are a very sociable bunch

I too meet one-on-one "just" for a social though if I've been curious enough to meet up chances are it's not entirely platonic (just the way inexperience friendship).

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"We've met two couples for sex several times. After a while the novelty of having sex with them has faded but we still see them as friends. The great thing is that there are no taboo subjects and we talk about the other experiences we've had since and compare notes on clubs etc. We've been clubbing together but go our separate ways during the evening before meeting up again afterwards.

I love this!

Sounds like forum people are a very sociable bunch

I too meet one-on-one "just" for a social though if I've been curious enough to meet up chances are it's not entirely platonic (just the way inexperience friendship)."

*I experience! What a lapsus, gonna ponder this one.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Yes I do.

Fab has never been just about sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and given I’m living in a new to me city would again

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Yes several times.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I have been in a platonic friendship for the past 41 years.

We have strayed only once when we went to a party, drank too much wine and finished up sleeping together, nine months later our daughter was born by which time we were back to being a platonic couple, when she was old enough we explained why mummy and daddy lived in separate houses.

The years rolled by and our friendship

continued, surviving a number of bereavements and many a crisis in our respective families.

A few years ago I broached the subject of us making our friendship a sexual relationship but to no avail.

We are now both pensioners, we have 3 grandkids to keep us amused and see each other two or three times a week.

Both of us now have the feeling that our platonic friendship is now more like a Brother and Sister relationship.

Throughout all the years we have been friends with have both had sexual relationships with other people, few of which lasted more than a couple of months.

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