FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong ?

By *ral-jedi OP Man
over a year ago

warwickshire

Hi fabbers

Been here for a while was on a long time ago . Had one meeting the first time round .. this time round I’m getting nowt . I’m polite non pushy I send face pics I don’t think I’m that ugly . Am I been to nice ? Any pointers appreciated ..

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is shit with no pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public photos and a profile picture always help

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

"Public photos and a profile picture always help

This

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Hi fabbers

Cheers "

Hoops... Jump through hoops

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Profile is utterly uninspiring. It has no photos, and you say nothing about you that makes you stand out from the other 20, 000 "fill in later" profiles with no pictures.

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

There's literally nothing enticing about your profile. You can't expect people to give you a shot in anything, if they know nothing about you. These threads are a daily occurance. The advice is always the same - my suggestion is to search the forums for similar queries. You'll find some fantastic advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't take long to put a bit of blurb up

if your profiles lazy what does it say

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

your one of many many many men couples and women have the cream of the crop to chose from .. it really is that simple ..

100/200 men per couple/women in some areas more and 100s of men joining everyday will only make things tougher

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

No pictures and barely any profile text = no luck

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By *ral-jedi OP Man
over a year ago

warwickshire

Added some more details and put some of my photos as public .. any better ?

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s perfect.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Added some more details and put some of my photos as public .. any better ? "

I'm guessing it's better than nothing but in my opinion, your bio reads really badly. It's like a stream of consciousness- you wrote down anything and everything that came to your mind at the time without any thought given to logical order. It's very messy, but if that's the best you can do and if you believe it reflects truly who you are, leave it that way.

Your interests, OP, seem to be very limited- not saying it's wrong, it is refreshing that someone didn't tick all the boxes at once. But they may limit your options of potential matches.

Anyway, good luck and happy Fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are also in a market where demand outstrips supply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t stress

Just relax and enjoy the site, chat and make friends, things progress and happen naturally on here, not forced or rushed !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These fucking threads,look at your profile and compare it to the 50,000 other single guy profiles. Then consider folk might not find the attraction. Your not a child you know why your not getting a response

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"These fucking threads,look at your profile and compare it to the 50,000 other single guy profiles. Then consider folk might not find the attraction. Your not a child you know why your not getting a response"

Not tempted then?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You've been on here at least 9 years and you still aren't having much luck?

I do wonder how pro active you are being or if you are just expecting people to come flocking to you.

How many clubs and socials have you attended?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hi fabbers

Cheers "

I read your profile text fella, and you come across quite desperate? Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you’re asking for help, and if a guy (me) thinks you sound desperate, a woman or couple will too.

Have a re-write on your profile. Do correct spelling and grammar, and less of the repetition. Exude confidence is my tip

Some new pics would help too? I would recommend a visit to a quality barber for a male grooming, and take a pic in a suit. I’m not saying you look scruffy, I’m just saying show the best you. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers

Cheers

Have a re-write on your profile. Do correct spelling and grammar, and less of the repetition. Exude confidence is my tip

This 100%

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Added some more details and put some of my photos as public .. any better ? "

The fact you had to be told to improve and that you couldn’t see for yourself what your issue was is a big no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero effort reaps zero rewards

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

been on here 7 months and not one meet !!a lot of fantasists on here i think ?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"been on here 7 months and not one meet !!a lot of fantasists on here i think ?"

And a lot that make no effort then moan about not getting anywhere

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Zero effort reaps zero rewards "

Confucious?

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Were you d*unk when you took that photo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging is not the golden ticket to sex.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been on here 7 months and not one meet !!a lot of fantasists on here i think ?"

How many socials and clubs have you been to?

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By *ral-jedi OP Man
over a year ago

warwickshire

"Were you d*unk when you took that photo?"
I was on a night out so probably..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months, the other 4 must have just been a fantasy

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"swinging is not the golden ticket to sex....."

What's the swinging part without any sex?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Your profile is shit with no pictures "

Don't mix your words now, say what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another crucifixion of a guy lol

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By *ral-jedi OP Man
over a year ago

warwickshire

"Another crucifixion of a guy lol "
. Nobody is going to nail me to a cross. Not my type of thing sorry …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at the other threads saying the same as you and see what's been said to the other guys.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"Were you d*unk when you took that photo? I was on a night out so probably..

What made you think that was a good photo to use?

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By *ral-jedi OP Man
over a year ago

warwickshire

"Were you d*unk when you took that photo? I was on a night out so probably..

What made you think that was a good photo to use?"
why not ? It’s still me just a little tipsy .. I take it you do not approve ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clear photos are the best ones to use.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"Were you d*unk when you took that photo? I was on a night out so probably..

What made you think that was a good photo to use? why not ? It’s still me just a little tipsy .. I take it you do not approve ? "

If that's an accurate reflection of who you are then you'd probably be doing the women of Fab a huge favour by reinstating it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers

Cheers

Have a re-write on your profile. Do correct spelling and grammar, and less of the repetition. Exude confidence is my tip

I think the above is decent, well meant genuine advice. Some of the other comments are a bit cruel.

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