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By *etitesara OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

After a conversation last weekend I've been wondering.

For those who like sissies/being a sissy, what is a sissy for you?

Is it the clothes, the attitude?

Can you be a sissy in male clothes or is the feminisation integral to it?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

To be honest I dont like the term sissy ( or trans ) as really it was used more as an insult towards many boys.

Whilst im fine with feminisation in a doms point of view.

or the lady feminized the male into wearing ladies clothes.

also used with a strapon.

fully feminized made to wear ladies clothes and to give bjs and take cock like a female would do.

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By *etitesara OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Lots of transvestites use the term, for me its a sexual definition because i associate it with the satin & frills look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a sissy?

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By *etitesara OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"What is a sissy?"

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mistress calls me a Sissy whether I'm dressed or not. I love being called a Sissy.

She also address me as 'Cuckie' when we're are out. I'm sure everyone just thinks of Cookie instead

Just waiting to be properly cuckolded by her.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I love the sissy aesthetic but the expectation that you're supposed to be a brain dead airhead irritates the piss out of me.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"What is a sissy?

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish."

.

It's an interesting question,

chatted to a few on here who are quite happy to call themselves sissy

but have never asked what that means for them.

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By *etitesara OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"What is a sissy?

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish.

.

It's an interesting question,

chatted to a few on here who are quite happy to call themselves sissy

but have never asked what that means for them."

For me (and i understand its different for everyone) its about the clothes, hyper-feminine frills & satins etc combined with sexual submission & a dose of humiliation.

Not for everyone but it turns me on intensely!

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By *etitesara OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"I love the sissy aesthetic but the expectation that you're supposed to be a brain dead airhead irritates the piss out of me."

That's a fair point, not something ive come across myself.

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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"What is a sissy?

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish.

.

It's an interesting question,

chatted to a few on here who are quite happy to call themselves sissy

but have never asked what that means for them.

For me (and i understand its different for everyone) its about the clothes, hyper-feminine frills & satins etc combined with sexual submission & a dose of humiliation.

Not for everyone but it turns me on intensely!"

Yeah this is how I think of the term Sissy.

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By *issy_sub_rTV/TS
over a year ago

Near Thatcham


"What is a sissy?

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish."

When I'm playing, I identify as a sissy. In vanilla life, I present as a very heterosexual male, with an almost domineering presence (goes with my job). However, as soon as I'm dressed in female lingerie and get my head into sub-space, I identify as sissy. To me, it's the dressing, the humiliation, the submission, the release and reduction in my masculinity. Gets me off every time x

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By *etitesara OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"What is a sissy?

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish.

When I'm playing, I identify as a sissy. In vanilla life, I present as a very heterosexual male, with an almost domineering presence (goes with my job). However, as soon as I'm dressed in female lingerie and get my head into sub-space, I identify as sissy. To me, it's the dressing, the humiliation, the submission, the release and reduction in my masculinity. Gets me off every time x"

Hard agree with this.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire


"What is a sissy?

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish.

When I'm playing, I identify as a sissy. In vanilla life, I present as a very heterosexual male, with an almost domineering presence (goes with my job). However, as soon as I'm dressed in female lingerie and get my head into sub-space, I identify as sissy. To me, it's the dressing, the humiliation, the submission, the release and reduction in my masculinity. Gets me off every time x"

You find stereotypical femininity humiliating - isn't that pretty misogynistic?

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"What is a sissy?

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish.

When I'm playing, I identify as a sissy. In vanilla life, I present as a very heterosexual male, with an almost domineering presence (goes with my job). However, as soon as I'm dressed in female lingerie and get my head into sub-space, I identify as sissy. To me, it's the dressing, the humiliation, the submission, the release and reduction in my masculinity. Gets me off every time x

You find stereotypical femininity humiliating - isn't that pretty misogynistic?"

Yeah the whole submission and humiliation aspect doesn't appeal to me at all.

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By *tar112Couple
over a year ago

st helens

For me Kirsty Kate the sissy must be dressed and look as close to a real lady as possible.

Not wearing some wig that looks like they dragged it up from down the side of a couch, lots of effort

If we are out and about they must be in a dress unless we are looking for a male, in the house or in a room they would be full sissy satin dress /maid petticoat the works ready to serve in whatever means they are asked to. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a sissy?

That's what I'm trying to ascertain!

For some it's an insult, for others it's a sexual fetish.

When I'm playing, I identify as a sissy. In vanilla life, I present as a very heterosexual male, with an almost domineering presence (goes with my job). However, as soon as I'm dressed in female lingerie and get my head into sub-space, I identify as sissy. To me, it's the dressing, the humiliation, the submission, the release and reduction in my masculinity. Gets me off every time x

You find stereotypical femininity humiliating - isn't that pretty misogynistic?"

Not misogynistic from a male POV. A male acting stereotypically feminine can easily be humiliating as a guy.

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By *ndisMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

When my CD mistress dresses me up I like to be called a sissy. In no way convincing we just like the dynamic and the feel of it. If we are not dressed it changes to me being a lave. If that, makes any sense. X

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By *arah_tv999TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxford

Like others have said, I'm not a fan of the "Sissy" word as for me it has negative undertones.

However, to answer the OP's question, this is my take from chatting to those you do use the term to describe themselves.

Dress/style wise it tends to imply wearing of over feminine satin dresses that in my experience no genetic female would ever wear, almost in a pantomime dame style. It also seems to be used to describe an extreme form of submission, as in humiliation.

Now, don't get me wrong, if that all turns some folk on, then fair play to them, but it does nothing for me.

For me, being feminine, dressing as a female and being submissive does not make me a sissy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like others have said, I'm not a fan of the "Sissy" word as for me it has negative undertones.

However, to answer the OP's question, this is my take from chatting to those you do use the term to describe themselves.

Dress/style wise it tends to imply wearing of over feminine satin dresses that in my experience no genetic female would ever wear, almost in a pantomime dame style. It also seems to be used to describe an extreme form of submission, as in humiliation.

Now, don't get me wrong, if that all turns some folk on, then fair play to them, but it does nothing for me.

For me, being feminine, dressing as a female and being submissive does not make me a sissy. "

Oxford Dictionary - a soft, timid, or oversensitive person, or a boy or man viewed as being overly interested in things traditionally associated with women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me Kirsty Kate the sissy must be dressed and look as close to a real lady as possible.

Not wearing some wig that looks like they dragged it up from down the side of a couch, lots of effort

If we are out and about they must be in a dress unless we are looking for a male, in the house or in a room they would be full sissy satin dress /maid petticoat the works ready to serve in whatever means they are asked to. xx "

I look like I've been dragged up from down the side of the couch. So that outfit choice is fine by me.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"I love the sissy aesthetic but the expectation that you're supposed to be a brain dead airhead irritates the piss out of me."

200% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you be classed as a sissy for the likes of pegging or being with a trans person?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

no , a trans woman or trans man is just that , the sex they are ... male of female basically ..

remember they are worlds apart from CD/TV to TS people .. I am a trans woman for last 14 years .. my living experience is worlds apart from any of my TV/Sissy friends and they respect that and I respect their choice/fetish/enjoyment ..

Sissy is just a fetish play style really , lately the last few years it has crossed over into trans amateur porn content which is starting to cause friction within the adult community of TS vs Sissy types ..

Many people use have zero clue about terms or what insults one doesn't another .. I am a trans that uses terms many trans find insulting such as shemale/ladyboy/tranny/femboy etc but I come at from n adult model perspective where it just play on words for marketing ...

Sissy play though has really blown up alot last few years totally especially with chastity

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By *ichaelG76Man
over a year ago

Over and Over


"no , a trans woman or trans man is just that , the sex they are ... male of female basically ..

remember they are worlds apart from CD/TV to TS people .. I am a trans woman for last 14 years .. my living experience is worlds apart from any of my TV/Sissy friends and they respect that and I respect their choice/fetish/enjoyment ..

Sissy is just a fetish play style really , lately the last few years it has crossed over into trans amateur porn content which is starting to cause friction within the adult community of TS vs Sissy types ..

Many people use have zero clue about terms or what insults one doesn't another .. I am a trans that uses terms many trans find insulting such as shemale/ladyboy/tranny/femboy etc but I come at from n adult model perspective where it just play on words for marketing ...

Sissy play though has really blown up alot last few years totally especially with chastity "

Great explanation.. you are absolutely amazingly gorgeous

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

sissy play for me is making sure cuck is not wearing manly underwear or anything that resembles sexy (male or female) sissy is girly frillys / satin / cute so that he knows his penis is not manly in any way shape or form its also to show others who play that he is 100% cuck

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
over a year ago

Hinckley

Does it really matter what people like?

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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"After a conversation last weekend I've been wondering.

For those who like sissies/being a sissy, what is a sissy for you?

Is it the clothes, the attitude?

Can you be a sissy in male clothes or is the feminisation integral to it?"

I see it as super feminine worshiping big cocks

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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Do sissy’s prefer big cocks? I get a lot of attention from sissy’s… just wondering if it’s a vibe I give off or a size thing or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been exploring this lately for me it's being in some panties and women's leather and boots and being feminine for a woman so not necessarily into full cross dressing I guess it's the submissive side of it

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By *etitesara OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"Do sissy’s prefer big cocks? I get a lot of attention from sissy’s… just wondering if it’s a vibe I give off or a size thing or what?"

Well, i do but i wouldnt say its true for everyone!

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Lots of transvestites use the term, for me its a sexual definition because i associate it with the satin & frills look."

I was having this conversation with a guy today. 10 years ago I would have agreed with you, it was more those that dressed in the satin and frills look that used it. Now though it seems more broad in its use.

XX

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

According to UB, this is what a sissy is.

A sissy is a biological male; who acts really feminine, slutty, horny, also really bimbo like, etc. They tend to be really submissive but not all of the time. Most sissies are into men, but some are into women, some are Bisexual or Pansexual as well. Most of them like to play with other sissies as well.

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