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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being very new to this I wondered what was the deal on hotels....I mean do you share the cost, do you expect a guy to pay, do guys offer? Is it sorted out before the meet as I'd feel a bit weird asking the question before I've even met someone...

I guess sharing the cost would be the ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on the total cost of the meet, including both parties travelling expenses, I would cough up my share with the aim to split half and half, as I believe this is only fair.

I would normally volunteer to cover the hotel cost, by booking a budget hotel well in advance, and the gent would cover the cost of the meal, etc...

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Id prefer to share tbh or if it became a regular thing take turns

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"Depending on the total cost of the meet, including both parties travelling expenses, I would cough up my share with the aim to split half and half, as I believe this is only fair.

I would normally volunteer to cover the hotel cost, by booking a budget hotel well in advance, and the gent would cover the cost of the meal, etc...

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I was going to say this but I assumed it was just a hotel meet for a fuck seeing as she only mentioned the hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we have a threesome with a lady we always pay for everything, only polite to do so!

Pity you don't want to explore the delights of being the centre of our attention Josie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some ladies i have met from here i have taken to marriott hotels.

everything included and they have had a great time.

cost doesnt matter sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think just discuss it with the other party and come to an agreement that works for me. If someone travels a long way to see me I will sort the room out think thats fair.

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By *ighclassfunMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Being very new to this I wondered what was the deal on hotels....I mean do you share the cost, do you expect a guy to pay, do guys offer? Is it sorted out before the meet as I'd feel a bit weird asking the question before I've even met someone...

I guess sharing the cost would be the ideal."

As a proper gentleman I would offer to pay - it's only right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to offer to book or pay half then once ended up paying for a hotel and a no show, so it's put me off a bit so I will offer Halfs if needed but will expect the men to book it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a freeloading bastard so if you want to fuck me, it'll cost ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go halfs on a meet

The only time i dont pay towards a hotel is if they are working in my ares and have the room booked anyway thro work

If the room is booked for our meet i will pay halfs or i have even paid the whole price on a few occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always offer to pay, especially if significant travelling is involved on the part of the other person.

It's what gentlemen do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always offer to pay, especially if significant travelling is involved on the part of the other person.

It's what gentlemen do..."

thats when i have paid for the room myself, if a guy has traveled for 2 hours ro meet me in my area the least i can do is provide the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always paid half the hotel costs, or tried to pay them.

But I dont book the room, and I dont stay the whole night.

I think if they were having a room and staying all night anyways, then just a decent bottle of wine should do :D

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

When we travel from Guernsey to uk we have the hotel booked for us to stay in anyways so asking people to pay would seem a little too much. Specially if they are not staying the night and leaving when the fun is over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We either go halves or we pay outright and stop the night .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met couples at hotels, but we insist on two rooms. We'll pay for ours, they'll pay for their's.

We prefer seperate room fun anyway so there's no other way to do it really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always offer to pay, especially if significant travelling is involved on the part of the other person.

It's what gentlemen do...

thats when i have paid for the room myself, if a guy has traveled for 2 hours ro meet me in my area the least i can do is provide the room "

I wouldn't let you...lol

I'm a true believer in chivalry, I'll pay for the room, drinks and food. You bring the lube and latex gloves!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

ive had a few hotel meets and always paid never realy asked 4 half its nice if its offerd tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only paid half once for a meet the rest of the times the guy pays but usually they stay in the room all night, I dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only paid half once for a meet the rest of the times the guy pays but usually they stay in the room all night, I dont."

Lol, I'd never looked at it like that. You have a great point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always offer to pay, especially if significant travelling is involved on the part of the other person.

It's what gentlemen do...

thats when i have paid for the room myself, if a guy has traveled for 2 hours ro meet me in my area the least i can do is provide the room

I wouldn't let you...lol

I'm a true believer in chivalry, I'll pay for the room, drinks and food. You bring the lube and latex gloves! "

i wouldnt give you the name of any local hotels then

i think its only fair

If i traveled a long way to meet someone and they left me to sort out my own accommodation and all they did was turn up, shag and go i would think that VERY rude after id made the effort to travel to meet them and got my own hotel etc and they made no input into the meet at all bar having a shag

therefor i wouldnt do it to anyone else, its called hospitality, i wouldnt treat someone like that in every day life so why would i on here?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I always offer to pay, especially if significant travelling is involved on the part of the other person.

It's what gentlemen do...

thats when i have paid for the room myself, if a guy has traveled for 2 hours ro meet me in my area the least i can do is provide the room

I wouldn't let you...lol

I'm a true believer in chivalry, I'll pay for the room, drinks and food. You bring the lube and latex gloves!

i wouldnt give you the name of any local hotels then

i think its only fair

If i traveled a long way to meet someone and they left me to sort out my own accommodation and all they did was turn up, shag and go i would think that VERY rude after id made the effort to travel to meet them and got my own hotel etc and they made no input into the meet at all bar having a shag

therefor i wouldnt do it to anyone else, its called hospitality, i wouldnt treat someone like that in every day life so why would i on here?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always offer to pay, especially if significant travelling is involved on the part of the other person.

It's what gentlemen do...

thats when i have paid for the room myself, if a guy has traveled for 2 hours ro meet me in my area the least i can do is provide the room

I wouldn't let you...lol

I'm a true believer in chivalry, I'll pay for the room, drinks and food. You bring the lube and latex gloves!

i wouldnt give you the name of any local hotels then

i think its only fair

If i traveled a long way to meet someone and they left me to sort out my own accommodation and all they did was turn up, shag and go i would think that VERY rude after id made the effort to travel to meet them and got my own hotel etc and they made no input into the meet at all bar having a shag

therefor i wouldnt do it to anyone else, its called hospitality, i wouldnt treat someone like that in every day life so why would i on here?"

I completely understand what you're saying and to a degree I agree with it.

It's just how I'm wired, I was bought up to put a lady first. Also, being a single guy on here, every little helps...lol

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I completely understand what you're saying and to a degree I agree with it.

It's just how I'm wired, I was bought up to put a lady first. Also, being a single guy on here, every little helps...lol

X"

we're not talking about a lady tho we're talking about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I completely understand what you're saying and to a degree I agree with it.

It's just how I'm wired, I was bought up to put a lady first. Also, being a single guy on here, every little helps...lol

X

we're not talking about a lady tho we're talking about me "

I'd pay double in that case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I completely understand what you're saying and to a degree I agree with it.

It's just how I'm wired, I was bought up to put a lady first. Also, being a single guy on here, every little helps...lol

X

we're not talking about a lady tho we're talking about me

I'd pay double in that case! "

the village hotel is just down the road from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always payed half each for room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I completely understand what you're saying and to a degree I agree with it.

It's just how I'm wired, I was bought up to put a lady first. Also, being a single guy on here, every little helps...lol

X

we're not talking about a lady tho we're talking about me

I'd pay double in that case!

the village hotel is just down the road from me "

I'll get my keys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had 7 hotel meets with single guys, to be fair they have paid for every one of them.

They have said they see it as the least they can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on what you arrange, to be honest i have had a few guys who have insisted they didnt want any money off me towards the room and tho im more than happy to pay my way im not going to sit and argue with them over it nor am i going to turn down a meet with someone i like because of it, if i offer them the money and they wont take it so be it, thats their call, i would still offer tho

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

If it's to meet a couple or lady then half each is fair.

If I already have a room and arrange for some reason and then organise a meet, then I don't expect any contribution.

Some profiles have put me off by their insistence that the single male pay and also some insist on quality hotels as well. Very disrespectful to single males in my opinion

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

Sharing is nice but when I'm skint (often)chaps have offered to pay, it's either that or no meet so they step in like true gentlemen.

Also I'm supporting a family so single guys have more spare cash LOL

*ducks and waits for the abuse to begin*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sharing is nice but when I'm skint (often)chaps have offered to pay, it's either that or no meet so they step in like true gentlemen.

Also I'm supporting a family so single guys have more spare cash LOL

*ducks and waits for the abuse to begin*

"

depends if they are single

most 'single' guys are supporting a family and wife on here

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

If i am travelling i book the hotel for me to stay over anyway, so i pay for it, it is booked in my name and if the lady couple want to stay fine, if not thats okay too.

I will NOT book a hotel in my name and then leave after we have played leaving them there.

If they travel and book the hotel, i will offer half even if i am not staying overnight.

Not saying I am right or wrong, but thats my theory on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being very new to this I wondered what was the deal on hotels....I mean do you share the cost, do you expect a guy to pay, do guys offer? Is it sorted out before the meet as I'd feel a bit weird asking the question before I've even met someone...

I guess sharing the cost would be the ideal.

This

As a proper gentleman I would offer to pay - it's only right "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far I have always paid and never asked to split the bill. I have also covered any taxi fares if needed.

If offered to split the cost, I think I would decline, as if it was a date I would expect to cover the bill. A bit old fashioned perhaps but I do understand that some girls will insist on paying their share.

We are all adults so if we can talk about sex we should be able to talk about money and have an amicable agreement about the arrangements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being treated and having a gentleman pay, although it depends on travel and whether its pure sex or more of a shared date.

Sometimes I have paid the full whack - if I'm being Domme I pay, if I'm asking a guy to do something specific I will too.

Regular 'buddies' and I, we take turns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I had my first fab meet on here a cpl of months ago.. They travelled 30 miles and insisted on paying for the room which was fine by me

Being offered £20 for my taxi home however made me feel cheap lmao x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gentlemanly answer is for us men to cough up and pay...but in these tough economic times and with mounting debt and the ever ending need to cut our clothes accordingly ....its an assessment of situation before you jump in lol ....

1. Is she/he/they horney enough to pay ?

2. How long was it since you last got laid ??

3. if the current offer was not there; would your willy fall off/pussy shrivel up before next offer ??

4. How many times do you think you screw for cost of the room ?

5. is there a MAC'D's near by

Seriously; sharing everything is best

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Our view..

If its a single bi female..we would be happy to pay..everything..

If its a couple and they travelled to us..we would get the room....

If its a mutual distance with a couple... Halvsies is fair

And if we met a single guy or guys....we would share the cost..... But I'd like to think they would buy Sooze an oul glass of wine or two..( I mean treat her like a lady)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to pay for the hotel even if I'd travelled some distance... It's always been the way I am.. Some ladies don't like us men paying for everything... Some do, and more!! But if I was meeting, I would offer to pay..

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