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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x " all the time either hes to old or im to young especialy since he turned 50 ah well there loss | |||
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"Age gap couple here to.. It can be frustrating. But the easy way to get round the system is to physically go to socials, events and clubs. Its attraction not age at these sort events. Or if you still want online... You add a single female profile, add pictures of yourself and parse couple image. Link profiles together in your profile text. advertise for couple on couple action. Create your own filter blocking to suit your wants and needs. Happy FABBING Amelia ![]() Agreed that if its an issue online then try clubs People have their preferences and for some (including myself) it includes age ![]() | |||
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"Yes we have done that ....I have my own G3mma " 11 years between us. The only problem we have is couples friend request or wink and we can't reply as their profile is hidden and we can't message either. Doesn't bother us. | |||
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past. I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them. There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here. " You have to say, that's totally fair comment. ![]() | |||
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x " Get a younger man then. ![]() | |||
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past. I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them. There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here. " Exactly this. | |||
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x " We had the same with john. Dont stress just keep looking. X | |||
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"I think the younger generation often think that your getting past it once you mature. Having a younger partner can help to keep you young at heart. Also you can keep in really good shape. There are some very attractive mature couples on here. I feel you have to respect everyone’s preferences and have always tended to have a preference for mature women. Ageism is part of growing older and it is more difficult for couples with large age differences but there are still plenty fish in the sea and you must never feel too old. Age is just a number it’s you persona that counts. " So you would meet a 19 year old and an 85 year old? If not, you are ageist right. ![]() | |||
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"Temperament has a lot to do with it too. I had a relationship with a 25 year old single mum with two kids and she chased me and she likes older men.The problem was she was a total nightmare to go out with insisting on drinking herself to a stupor and getting in all sorts of scrapes in the end It got way to much. " Do you think that erratic behaviour made her a vulnerable person | |||
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"I think the younger generation often think that your getting past it once you mature. Having a younger partner can help to keep you young at heart. Also you can keep in really good shape. There are some very attractive mature couples on here. I feel you have to respect everyone’s preferences and have always tended to have a preference for mature women. Ageism is part of growing older and it is more difficult for couples with large age differences but there are still plenty fish in the sea and you must never feel too old. Age is just a number it’s you persona that counts. " Not wanting to have sex with someone significantly older than you isn't 'ageism' ![]() | |||
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x " just had a quick look. You both look a great couple. Xx | |||
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"Yup, we've had it. I respect others preference, but it still stings when others say sorry hes out our age range. So I take the view if they don't take Mr they don't take me & move on Mrs C " Love this x | |||
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x " You are most certainly not the the only one that likes that | |||
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"It's a shame you can't do polish on here. I wonder how many women would date an older man? How many have thought about it, but not done anything about it. And how many wouldn't go near an older man? It would be interesting to see the results, and see if it actually made women start seeing older men or sway them away." Yeah it would be interesting | |||
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"Temperament has a lot to do with it too. I had a relationship with a 25 year old single mum with two kids and she chased me and she likes older men.The problem was she was a total nightmare to go out with insisting on drinking herself to a stupor and getting in all sorts of scrapes in the end It got way to much. Do you think that erratic behaviour made her a vulnerable person " She kept putting herself in vulnerable positions. Now I have distance I have cone to think a lot of the things she claimed happen to her while we were together were limes and attention seeking. I have become more and more wart of trusting women theee days. Notba good way to be but the last few relationships over the years have done me a lot of damage mentally and financially. Not a hood way to be I Know | |||
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past. I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them. There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here. You have to say, that's totally fair comment. ![]() It is , Bo often writes similar to what I think. I have age filters on and filters to stop couples and shadows messaging me,because I'd rather be able to get less messages ,so the people I want to chat to get through. As someone said above try clubs and socials as its easier Ftf when you're not giving ages away immediately etc. | |||
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"It's a shame you can't do polish on here. I wonder how many women would date an older man? How many have thought about it, but not done anything about it. And how many wouldn't go near an older man? It would be interesting to see the results, and see if it actually made women start seeing older men or sway them away." Why not just focus on the women who don't have an issue instead of trying to sway those who do? | |||
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past. I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them. There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here. " Do you usually just stop chatting to someone on the day they become a year over the age limit? | |||
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"It's a shame you can't do polish on here. I wonder how many women would date an older man? How many have thought about it, but not done anything about it. And how many wouldn't go near an older man? It would be interesting to see the results, and see if it actually made women start seeing older men or sway them away. Why not just focus on the women who don't have an issue instead of trying to sway those who do?" That should have said... Shame you can't do Polls (as in to see percentages) and not Polish. Bloody predictive text. ![]() | |||
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"So far what's the biggest age gap in this thread? Ours is 33 years." A mere 14 years, but she loves to play the old man card which is in jest and taken with a pinch of salt. ![]() | |||
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past. I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them. There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here. Do you usually just stop chatting to someone on the day they become a year over the age limit?" If you actually read my comment properly you would know the answer to that rather than try and be smart ![]() | |||
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"People are allowed to discount just because of his age. Just like people can discount because of your age as well that's their prerogative. I have my age filters set mainly to cut down on messages on here but if I see someone outside of them that I like I will make first contact and have done in the past. I really don't understand why people get so pissed off over other people's filters.No one is owed anything on here. And the main thing surely is that you fancy your partner and are happy with them. There are plenty of other people you can meet on here who will be happy to meet you both, concentrate on them and not on the ones who you fall outside their filters. And respect their filters rather than trying to find ways around them there is nothing more annoying than people who do that on here. Do you usually just stop chatting to someone on the day they become a year over the age limit? If you actually read my comment properly you would know the answer to that rather than try and be smart ![]() Just a bit of banter..i read every word i promise | |||
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x Get a younger man then. ![]() The whole point is I prefer older . | |||
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"So far what's the biggest age gap in this thread? Ours is 33 years. A mere 14 years, but she loves to play the old man card which is in jest and taken with a pinch of salt. ![]() Old man or not - your a total silver fox ![]() | |||
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"Tbh we’ve hit 40 and we’re finding a lot of couples & females we’re attracted to have filters set so we’re unable to message, it’s part of life, although mrs L2 looks 10 years you get than she is people still have preferences on age, as gutting as it is we respect that x" Mrs l2 is very hot, who cares what her age is | |||
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x Get a younger man then. ![]() ...And they prefer younger men than he is. | |||
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x " Not really a problem to self-filter out the wheat from the chaff. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I thought as long as one of you are within the age range you can message profiles. I get couples with older males messaging me." Yep. An older partner won't prevent you contacting someone. Age filters have always gone by the younger age in a couple - unless something has changed recently. But we recieve messages where one half of a couple is outside our filters so I doubt that. A | |||
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"I am 26 my partner is 53 , he does not look his age , ex fitness model and adult movie actor and is fitter in everyway than most 25yr olds . But we get blocked by filters , and discounted based just on his age only ! Am I the only one that likes a fit older daddy type with a rocking body ? And does anybody else have this problem? Tia G x " Fit older type here ![]() ![]() | |||
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