FabSwingers.com forum: Your journey into swinging

By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago

chigwell

We're always curious as to how couples get into swinging in whatever format they enjoy. Anyone wish to share their journey?

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Ours was a frank conversation about how we had become complacent in our marriage, 23 years together so we tried a few ideas, did a list each and went from there, our swinging journey began because it was too cold for dogging (February) and went to a club instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to role play and talking about it during sex, looked into it a bit online after some conversations between us.

Ended up here, few socials that turned it lots of fun and a visit to a club in the last 6 weeks since we started!

Loving it and met some lovely people so far x

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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago

chigwell

I guess we should start

We were both quite inexperienced sexually when we met ( though my first ever sexual experience was a f/f with a friend as a teenager).

We were open minded in our approach to life but experimenting sexually wasn't on our radar

After over 9 years of marriage we went on holiday to agreed island and we heard a couple talk about a nude beach. Like excited teenagers we thought we should try it

Was nervous as he'll lol but soon the nudity becomes banal. Loved seeing the various bodies and was amazed at the variety of cocksnon view, sizes, shapes, shaven etc.

One very hung guy came and chatted and I was very nervous and shy.

He became the focus of my husbs teasing, suggesting I liked what i saw, which of course I denied whilst secretly agreeing with him. I sawbhow excited the idea gotnhim and soon warmed to the idea of letting him know I'd like to have seen him hard. We agreed we'd go back to the beach and have another look

He wasn't there but did get friendly with another well blessed chap who invited is back to his place for some soft play. The experience was electrifying forus both.

Back home we thought of getting more into nudism and eventually found a nude spa not far from us and went a few times. There was clearly sexual behaviour going on behind closed doors but we didn't take part as it wasn't whybwe werenthere

We got chatty with one guy and eventually over the visits our conversation turned to sex and out desires. He was far more experienced and told us about the swinging scene

And in particular about cuckolding. The idea of it was mesmerising

One night we took the plunge and invited him home to show us what it was all about. It went so well he became our regular friend and bull for a considerable time

Thanks to him we discovered sexual adventures and an introduction to the swinging lifestyle which we still enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby broached the subject first. I past it off as I thought he has alternative motives.

But he kept bringing it up and involving it while have sex.

Then it happened while away in Manchester for a weekend not planned.

We met a guy in the same hotel as us, we all clicked. The talk got fruitier I was loving the attention.

It was me in the end that told them to take me to our room.

There face's were like boys with a new toy on Christmas morning.

What a night and the rest is history.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I was lucky to meet my other half here almost 7 years ago (never month).

We decided to take some time away just for us ,then came back as a couple to carry on swinging a few months after.

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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago

chigwell

Wow so brave to take part as a single woman. That idea would never have crossed my mind when i was songle. Bravo!

"I was lucky to meet my other half here almost 7 years ago (never month).

We decided to take some time away just for us ,then came back as a couple to carry on swinging a few months after."

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

He was on fabguys after we had short separation, told me and let me see his account. We found swingers through fabguys and he had already said he would like to see me with another guy, so after plenty of searching and talking finally took the plunge. Not looked back since and we both enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're always curious as to how couples get into swinging in whatever format they enjoy. Anyone wish to share their journey?"

We wanted a 3sum, couldn’t figure goes to make it happen and stumbled across a swingers club, went… enjoyed and haven’t looked back.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

It was a long time ago (80's). Began with porn mags and 'readers stories', fantasising whilst we had sex, then after having our kids deciding we would move to an open marriage, then threesomes which is what we both really wanted.Two marriages later I'm still enjoying them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ellen had always fantasised about being in an orgy (Catholic upbringing). Clubs seemed like the closest thing to it.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We did the famous BDSM test and noticed we both scored highly for non-monogamy. We decided why not give it a bit more thought and lots of discussion. Now here we are

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started like many others. We both got turned on hearing about the other's past sex life. That led to me (the guy) fantasising about actually seeing her with someone else. We talked about it in a semi serious way and then though we should actually try it.

We visited our first club a few weeks later and it was even more exciting than we imagined.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"We're always curious as to how couples get into swinging in whatever format they enjoy. Anyone wish to share their journey?"

Cherry was already into the lifestyle when we met, I didn't find out for a couple of months. I quickly joined her and the fantasy became reality. Definitely third time lucky for me and our love for each other will certainly last. Our swinging journey has had it's up an downs yet we still hold on to hope of finding a similar couple who also want a lasting naughty friendship based on trust, respect, mutual passion and a different kind of love..

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
over a year ago

east coast

We was talking about a 3some FFM for about 6years then I started my new job and was talking about it to a work mate and he said about fab so we come on here

we never did do the FFM but did have a six some and chams on are first ever visit lol really want to try mmf ffm and more lol J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both X military he is 20 years older. We value life pleasures after what we seen throughout the world. You only live once. You can be gone in a instant. So go for your fantasies your endeavors at all costs. Because you never know what tomorrow brings.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

all started 20 years ago i enjoyed friends talking and looking at her cleavage that was the beginning

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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago

chigwell

Thanks everyone for being so open about your start in swinging. Such a variety of reasons. Just shows there's no one right way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we are a new is couple that enjoy having sex alot and talking about it both have very similar fantasys and couple swap and a ffm was something we both wanted to do. So we watched a couple of programmes about it like open house and some YouTube then thought why not. So now we are here with meets planned and convos being had for others.

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