FabSwingers.com forum: what earns a block from you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Although we didn't used to block people we do now,not because we are rude but as we know we won't be meeting.

What earns a block from you?

We will block any rude message.

Females/couples with no veri's who keep looking.

If we message a couple and they don't reply we will block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness and not being able to accept a polite no...oh and people i message after they wink me and they dont reply just carry on winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who is rude or pestering gets the block from me.

I also block if someone irritates me, asks repeated (daft) questions or whines about things, eg "I see you've got a new verification/photos. Why didn't you ask me to meet you instead of him?"

Maybe I block more when I'm suffering with PMT too. Tolerance levels are WAY down then lol.

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By *pontanious3Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

quite simply - if "she" looks like a pirates wife !..never know whether to say hello or sing "what shall we do with the d*unken sailor !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything crude as a first message - I wanna fuck you, do you like vwe, do you want my big fat cock, bet your a dirty slut, I would love to suck your tits etc

All though I find the messages amusing I would not like to meet someone who finds that an acceptable introduction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't take no for answer or those who when you don't reply straight away persist on messaging you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who is rude or pestering gets the block from me.

I also block if someone irritates me, asks repeated (daft) questions or whines about things, eg "I see you've got a new verification/photos. Why didn't you ask me to meet you instead of him?"

Maybe I block more when I'm suffering with PMT too. Tolerance levels are WAY down then lol."

I agree

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Currently people who message me even though I have said I don't want messages right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the others - rude or daft messages earn an instant block.

Sadly just that alone means I have a large block list.

People who fail to answer a straight question or who answer by cybering.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If I had said no thanks but they keep on messaging. If they are rude and abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently people who message me even though I have said I don't want messages right now."

If u apply all the filters would that not stop messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness

Persistent random friendship requesters

Those who arrange to meet but I then work out that they are not going to turn up

Block a lot less now that one can leave a note on a profile as its a reminder of why I won't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of the above reasons apply to us too. Plus couples that are clearly only looking for a female.

There have been a few that have been blocked for no other reasons than gross pictures and/or annoying statues appearing on our newsfeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone I have no intention of knowing, let alone meeting in person.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've blocked two.

One I thought I might know from vanilla life, the other is unworthy of wasting the pixels on to be honest

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Only got a couple of blocked people.....rude people......manners cost nowt..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only really block if there crude or really annoying with the " why not?" and " why dont you want to fuck me " messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rudeness and not being able to accept a polite no thankyou..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block all men who clearly don't understand the meaning of straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples and females who delete a message we send them without replying.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Oh its simple:

1) People (ok, girls or couples) who contact insisting on their profile people must have face pics while they have none of their own, then contacting me asking for face pics... even though I have face pics my public gallery.

It basically says they don't feel obligated to abide by their own 'rules', or they ignore the obvious when in front of them. Avoid.

2) Friends invites from people who have never exchanged emails (I block after 3-7 days giving them a chance to email me, then block if no email).

3) People who generally take the piss and assume I'm stupid, or they can pull a fast one and I won't notice or react. (Its worse if I don't react - it means I have passed their file to the 'Karma' department!) lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not blocked anyone yet but have noticed I've been blocked. To these I am bemused I do not repeatedly message anyone. I am not rude I respect people I am a genuine guy here to make friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What earns a block from me

-sending a message when not read profile to see if they fit criteria I am looking for.

-being rude after getting a no thanks message .

-constantly looking at profile/pics and not sending a hello message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a laugh and joke with the best of them, but there is a couple on here or so they claim, from Thirks who every day on their status put on an anti Liverpool joke, everyday, as said I can laugh at myself but heard them a billion times and now old hat and boring !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually men who have straight on their profile but sit for hours on ends viewing my cam! Creeps me out lol

Couples/fems is just if they are rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually men who have straight on their profile but sit for hours on ends viewing my cam! Creeps me out lol

Couples/fems is just if they are rude"

Glad to see I'm not the only straight guy that can't stand being watched by men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples mainly - even though my profile states quite clearly at the very beginning that I have no interest in them, you still get the ones who wink and send friends invites repeatedly - I even once recieved a message, very poorly spelled, saying 'hurry up and accept my friends invite my wife loves your cock'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who i dont like, i might of met someone then found out they were not nice so i block them.

people who are not my type and never will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider all my blocks on a case by case basis.

I find having a rigid set of rules regarding blocks to occasionally be unfair to some - and having given them the benefit of the doubt i've gone on to have interesting chats with them.

There are some of course that have me reaching for the block button by the second line of their profile - if there is a second line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone asks me what is my type when I have said no, and when people are obnoxious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and people who don't turn up for meets obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now a days I block;

Rude messages.

Those who send another email, (usually the same one) months after Ive already sent them a no thanks.

Anyone married or attached,

Anyone stalking me (on looked at me, friend invites, winks, which given I dont look very often ..)

The second, one line email, when I havent responded to the first yet and when they only ask where I live as the one line

And now I can add to that anyone I come across posting rubbish/misery over and over. I'd never meet them so wont even let them look at my profile.

Also when they chuck 5 -6 emails into my inbox after the very basic 'hi' message from me, I cant be doing with that demanding.. that early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really blocked anyone but I got blocked the other day for showing someone my face pics which she had asked to see lol that did piss me off x

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I hardly ever block anyone,even the ones that are rude stay unblocked as i figure once blocked then they will come back with a fake profile so its easier just to ignore them.I am amused to find myself blocked by people i have never even talked to,such as i once looked at a profile that had fabbed my pics only to find myself blocked...how weird !!!!! also i have sometimes gone to answer a message ,admittedly a little late and again find im blocked,but the ones i really hate are the ones that say a polite no thanks is better than no reply ,but when i say no thanks then im blocked,,lol,,and yes i understand that some do this to stop themselves sending repeat messages but the only people i block are the ones that block me as dont think its fair that they can unblock me whenever they want and take a peek...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

Although we didn't used to block people we do now,not because we are rude but as we know we won't be meeting.

What earns a block from you?

We will block any rude message.

Females/couples with no veri's who keep looking.

If we message a couple and they don't reply we will block them."

We block people we don't want to exchange messages with. We may have chatted before, we may not its not a rude thing its just prevention as we see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not reading our profile, also adding as friends without talking first = blocked lol

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Most of my block list are people who have been disrespectful or annoying in the chatrooms.

Occasionally a profile is so vile I'll block so I never have to see it again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not reading our profile, also adding as friends without talking first = blocked lol

yeah,we also block cold friend invites

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

- someone who says no thanks

- someone who deletes two messages fro me

- someone who no-shows without a believable reason

- someone who has blocked me

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Only block people who have been abusive.

The ones that havent read the profile, 'wanna fuck' messages etc I just ignore.

I used to block people where the profile would be my type but they have posted a status or said something in here that I didnt like eg looking for bareback.

Used to block them so that I didnt message them another time, but now I tend to use private notes for that, so block far fewer than I used to do.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Ive never blocked anyone..... Maybe I should as sometimes I forget who Ive viewed especially if they change there avatar pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block

People who clearly haven't read my profile

People who are abusive.

Psycho women who warn me off other swingers lol

People who arrange a meet and don't turn up.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I dont think I have blocked anyone yet - I must have experienced the good people of the site thus far, plenty of time for that to change yet though I suppose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think I have blocked anyone yet - I must have experienced the good people of the site thus far, plenty of time for that to change yet though I suppose!"

Lol give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never blocked anyone yet no one been abusive yet but then don't get many messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a few blocked. One is a previous meet who decided that badmouthing me after said meet and inserting herself in everything i wanted to do on here was a great idea. One of the other noteworthy blocks was a guy (i'm not bi) who got snotty and very rude when i told him politely that i had no interest in guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only reason we have ever blocked is people who dont listen to a polite no thanks.

Infact blocked a couple today for sending us about 15 friend requests and winks...do they not get the little warning that fab sends them when winking to many times etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how I feel on the day to be honest! Will only block someone I have no intention of meeting though so usually offensive messages/posts in forum, repeated messages I'm bored of saying no to, constant friends invites with no messages ever sent and no private pics in their gallery, or constant negative status updates. Must admit I block more now than I used to do...used to worry about upsetting people but that has passed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only reason we have ever blocked is people who dont listen to a polite no thanks.

Infact blocked a couple today for sending us about 15 friend requests and winks...do they not get the little warning that fab sends them when winking to many times etc.

I thought you could only send 1 wink at a time and one friends request a month?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only reason we have ever blocked is people who dont listen to a polite no thanks.

Infact blocked a couple today for sending us about 15 friend requests and winks...do they not get the little warning that fab sends them when winking to many times etc.

I thought you could only send 1 wink at a time and one friends request a month? "

If they are deleted though I think it resets the timer as I have had repeated invites from the same guy in a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use the block button for many different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only reason we have ever blocked is people who dont listen to a polite no thanks.

Infact blocked a couple today for sending us about 15 friend requests and winks...do they not get the little warning that fab sends them when winking to many times etc.

I thought you could only send 1 wink at a time and one friends request a month?

If they are deleted though I think it resets the timer as I have had repeated invites from the same guy in a month"

Apparently not I've just tried and got " Sorry, you can't wink at this user

Why? You've already sent them one within the past 30 days" so I think someone above is a little fibber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't tend to block many, the notes are great! I will block local profiles who bareback as i've seen profiles change when they realise that it reduces their potential for meets drastically! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only reason we have ever blocked is people who dont listen to a polite no thanks.

Infact blocked a couple today for sending us about 15 friend requests and winks...do they not get the little warning that fab sends them when winking to many times etc.

I thought you could only send 1 wink at a time and one friends request a month?

If they are deleted though I think it resets the timer as I have had repeated invites from the same guy in a month

Apparently not I've just tried and got " Sorry, you can't wink at this user

Why? You've already sent them one within the past 30 days" so I think someone above is a little fibber.

How very dare you lol. I didnt say they sent them all at once. I knows there is a limit to how many you can send within a set time,but whatever that time is,they must keep trying till there

allowed again.

Is there a limit to friend requests then as i know for sure we have had loads from the said couple. Aw well,blocked anyway now.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"We don't tend to block many, the notes are great! I will block local profiles who bareback as i've seen profiles change when they realise that it reduces their potential for meets drastically! Z"

Ooooh.. I missed the notes function - I must keep that in mind and how to use that also!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't tend to block many, the notes are great! I will block local profiles who bareback as i've seen profiles change when they realise that it reduces their potential for meets drastically! Z

Ooooh.. I missed the notes function - I must keep that in mind and how to use that also!

it's brilliant - and can be quite amusing as well! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples looking for tittilation via messages with no intention to meet.

Single guys are filtered so no bother from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only reason we have ever blocked is people who dont listen to a polite no thanks.

Infact blocked a couple today for sending us about 15 friend requests and winks...do they not get the little warning that fab sends them when winking to many times etc.

I thought you could only send 1 wink at a time and one friends request a month?

If they are deleted though I think it resets the timer as I have had repeated invites from the same guy in a month

Apparently not I've just tried and got " Sorry, you can't wink at this user

Why? You've already sent them one within the past 30 days" so I think someone above is a little fibber.

Try again as I have just deleted it. And I said I think on the winks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll block anyone who looks at me in the wrong tone of mind!

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By *otstr8Man
over a year ago

howden

Blocking People because they have looked at you too many times !!! Please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocking People because they have looked at you too many times !!! Please.

lol! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone winked me this afternoon so I sent a polite wink back. Then I got a message saying 'thanks for the wink but sorry you live too far way'!...blocked!

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By *exy firemanMan
over a year ago

essex

For me, its if they have got a face like a welders bench!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's people who can't display face pics because of their jobs, fireman ? Not a firefighter no ??????

Pardon my cynisism.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Dwarfs.

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By *exy firemanMan
over a year ago

essex

"For me it's people who can't display face pics because of their jobs, fireman ? Not a firefighter no ??????

Pardon my cynisism. "

nothing wrong with applying discretion!

And on my pass out certificate it clearly states fireman!

Does that answer your question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope sorry !!!!!

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By *exy firemanMan
over a year ago

essex

"Nope sorry !!!!!"

and that is the answer i expected from you! your blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted, such a cute face !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of message ping pong and making excuses not to meet.

couples who send friends requests without sending a message first and whos profile says no single males.

single guys who just send abusive messages.

people who block me so they cannot contact me if they change their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who message every 5 minutes saying 'Hi how are you', crude messages, any guys saying they've got mates they could invite to meet me also, that really annoys me and is an instant block. There are also a few people, some women, whom I just don't want looking at my photos or my verifications to see who I've met, jealous types, I block those

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I dont use the block ....never had the need to I dont get much contact

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"quite simply - if "she" looks like a pirates wife !..never know whether to say hello or sing "what shall we do with the d*unken sailor !"

lolol

Hello Mr spontanious

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I only block someone who block me for no reason.

I once message a lady after reading her profile just to say hello and how nice she was with a very great profile. Thats all. Message deleted without reading then blocked. I blocked back straight away. 2 days later she message from another account asking me why i've blocked her. i remind her of how SWEET she was for not reading my message ( yeah too much msg in her box ) and how classic she was for blocking me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of interest = block. I give it and dont mind if I get it.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

My block list is growing steadily!

I put a warning in my status (I know I'm grumpy and unreasonable but it's a rare occurrence) and have had messages referring to my status and joking that I don't really mean it.

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North

"Usually men who have straight on their profile but sit for hours on ends viewing my cam! Creeps me out lol

Couples/fems is just if they are rude

Glad to see I'm not the only straight guy that can't stand being watched by men "

Actually very annoying when that happens and worse when they pm you in the rooms asking you if you meet men... instant block...

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