FabSwingers.com forum: ever caught a sti or std from swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just as the heading says..do swingers practice safe sex more than your random "one night stand"

So many on here like having protection (best and only way) although we have noticed that even on the forum some prefer bareback

Personally we think its crazy to do this as your chances increase so much of picking up something

Cheers for any replys

C and D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant understand why anyone would risk their health with strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure people are going to admit something like this. But even using protection isn't 100% safe it just considerably reduces the risks..

There was a thread a few weeks back asking about if a person fingers one female then fingers another then surely they can spread infections.

Where there is skin to skin contact there is risks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I practice safe sex and always have, but on my first sti test after starting swinging I tested positive for gonorrhea in the throat. I must have got it from swallowing cum. You can pick up most of the stis from oral. Something I was unaware of, even though it's pretty obvious. I never swallow cum now. We are all taking risks, it's a matter of mitigating them as much as possible while still getting enjoyment. The risks from catching something from a fem are fairly low, but the reverse is not true. You have a 50:50 chance of picking something up from sperm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it was solely down to swallowing cum, but either way it's not nice to find out is it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

but either way it's not nice to find out is it"

better than not finding out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but either way it's not nice to find out is it

better than not finding out..."

Better indeed, luckily I got tested very soon after starting swinging so I got clear, let everyone I had met know and I get tested 4 monthly now and am hyper careful. Cum is the infected material sadly. Toxic stuff you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is odd how many people admit to having caught sti's though! We are all grown up and we are all taking risks on here. I think people need to know it is possible and much easier than you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is odd how many people admit to having caught sti's though! We are all grown up and we are all taking risks on here. I think people need to know it is possible and much easier than you think."

I mean how few people admit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dread to think how many STI's are passed around from this place. So many don't practice safe sex it's unbelievable or say they do but when it comes to the crunch they don't.

Cover up or don't put it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, but my point is that it's not just pen sex that gives you sti's. and most people don't realise that.

however yes, it's pure madness having unprotected with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and what's the betting I am the only person to admit to anything?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, but my point is that it's not just pen sex that gives you sti's. and most people don't realise that.

however yes, it's pure madness having unprotected with strangers. "

I have just posted something along these lines on the "un wanted bareback" post

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do play bare from time to time. I also have a large number of partners with protection. I do oral without and do take cum in mouth.

I have never in many many years caught anything. But I keep myself tested just to be sure

Cali

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Not from swinging, no. But just so mistressphoenix isn't alone, Vincent caught the clap in the past when a condom broke. - Apparently it put him off sex for 2 years, lol.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wonder if my immune system issue is responsible for my lack of catching things. As I was less than careful in my early years. Never ever used protection. Rarely knew names. Yet never caught anything

I have a rare problem that my immune system over works. But it does cause some problems. But I wonder if this is why I've not caught anything. As I'm first to admit I have a risky sex life

Cali

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

We got the dreaded email from a couple we played with a few years ago.

Apparently the single woman they played with had contracted clamidia (spelling) and informed us to get checked out soon as, as clamidia has no symptoms till its too late apparently.

We got checked out but we where clear and I did not know this but you can catch it from oral too and its one of the most common sti's around as it has no symptoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no symptoms either. For women a few of them are assymptomatic I think. I just got nervous and wanted to make sure I wasn't carrying anything nasty after reading up on oral sti's. Mortifyingly I got the call when I was in a queue in the post office!!!! It was quite funny in the end! But still has put me off cum like you would not believe. Nothing internal from anyone but my regular partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do wonder if my immune system issue is responsible for my lack of catching things. As I was less than careful in my early years. Never ever used protection. Rarely knew names. Yet never caught anything

I have a rare problem that my immune system over works. But it does cause some problems. But I wonder if this is why I've not caught anything. As I'm first to admit I have a risky sex life

Cali"

This was me 20 years ago too mind. Never used condoms as a young woman. Fucked a fair few from 18 to 26 when I met my long term partner. Got tested and was clean then. Not so much going round though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never caught anything from swinging as fuck

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

When I was younger Never used condoms either but like said lot less going around.

We only use them when playing as me (paul) had leukemia 22 years ago and is sterile so no need with my wife.

Trouble is she is not on any form of contraceptive either so condom is a must for more reasons than sti's

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always play safe.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Cant understand why anyone would risk their health with strangers

don't you have sex with people you don't know then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got Chlamydia not long after I started swinging, and I always use condoms (except for FB which some dislike too!). I do think I know where it came from as every other guy I had met also got tested and told me they came back clean...he never got back in touch at all so I'm not even sure he was tested. There was a split condom with the guy I think gave it to me, although it was before he came so the cum isn't required for an STI as precum can still cause infection.

I haven't had a bad result since and get tested every 3-4 months just in case I should get caught out again. I am very pro-safer sex, but think some assume a condom makes them immune to any risks when the reality is it reduces them. I can understand why some play bare, and I don't use condoms for oral, but that's as much risk as I am comfortable taking

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