FabSwingers.com forum: The curse of Fab

By *idsHornyCpl40 OP Couple
over a year ago

West Mids area

Anyone else get this....you start chatting to a new couple and it all seems great, but then the next day or a few days later no messages and they ignore your messages?

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I get it all the time, lost count how many times it's happened

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
over a year ago

out of town!

I always thought the curse of Fab was related to the amount of sudden deaths members grandparents suffer from when planning to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this all the time used to it now though

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

It doesn't just happen with 'new' couples...

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Yep they've got the horn and in Fab mood and then the horn goes. We don't mind chatting but want some prospect of it leading somewhere. It is incredibly difficult to pin down many couples (and ladies) and find chat quickly dries up sometimes if we start suggesting dates or asking for them to, even rough timescales.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Some people may get bored of swapping messages, some want to meet and actually chat in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always thought the curse of Fab was related to the amount of sudden deaths members grandparents suffer from when planning to meet.

It’s costing me a fortune in cards and flowers mate. Someone needs to do something about it.

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By *mMrbrightsideMan
over a year ago

wakefield

The echoes of every single man on here lol

Don’t worry about it and carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

"Anyone else get this....you start chatting to a new couple and it all seems great, but then the next day or a few days later no messages and they ignore your messages?"

Chatting to someone and it was all great. Then arranged a day for a meet in it suddenly became short one word answers ??

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By *offeecakesunCouple
over a year ago

York

Has happened few times and also people cancel at the last minute

Our most recent was that, a couple invited us to theirs and did not answer the door or the phone such …

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Happens all the time, as does no shows when agree to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the feckin time with other couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had a convo stop for no reason although I’ve stopped responding for a multitude of reasons! Boredom, red flags in messages, offputting forum interactions, offputting statuses, sending me dick pics or action shots, messages dropping down the page and just forgetting. A whole bunch of reasons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else get this....you start chatting to a new couple and it all seems great, but then the next day or a few days later no messages and they ignore your messages?"

Men on fab experience this constantly. Now you know how it feels :D

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Get that a lot

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's not a curse. It's just online life.

People have jobs and responsibilities that take priority over fab.

People are generally chatting to more than one profile at a time so you don't have exclusivity over their time. Maybe someone more interesting came along?

Conversations may seem like they're going great from one persons point of view but maybe the other party feels differently?

Don't puta all your eggs in one basket, jump to conclusions or start building expectations early and you'll live a stress free, happy Fab life.

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By *9funboyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Yeah. Loads of couples do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be standard procedure now….I really dont understand why non genuine people are in here

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I always thought the curse of Fab was related to the amount of sudden deaths members grandparents suffer from when planning to meet.

I avoid planing meets just in case someone old dies or gets rushed into hospital , can’t handle the guilt

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By *oe n JayCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Been there, still collecting the t-shirts lol

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Not just new couples. Couples message us,want to meet,swap face pics,friends invites and when it comes to actually arranging something it's radio silence. Not unverified either

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We get this quite a bit - more so with couples which is why we take chats off-line once it’s got so far.

We can then chat in a 4 and see how much interaction both provide.

On FAB you don’t actually know who you are talking to…it could just be one of the couple answering for them both.

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I always thought the curse of Fab was related to the amount of sudden deaths members grandparents suffer from when planning to meet.

Now that is funny....and dogs being ill. We have had that one before. The foursum did not even include the dog!!!

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By *ustintime69Man
over a year ago

firest hill

Fab life is rarely what it’s cracked up to be

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's unrealistic to expect that most great starts will discover and realise everyone has full mutual compatibility. It's less a curse and more reflective of the low levels of compatibility, especially when it's multiplied by more than just 2 people seeking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting is not a guarantee of intrest

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