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By *rFoxAndXeno OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Has anyone ever actually had real life collide with fab in an unpleasant way? I want to share more pics to public, but don't want to have to chop my head off and blur tattoos in everything...- Xeno

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By *oe198199Man
over a year ago

Wincanton

I have been close, was chatting to a couple on here, they showed up as being within a mile and there are not that many people that nearby. Ended the conversation on good terms but not revealing each other as could have been awkward being that close. Now I work on 5 miles or more

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

The thing is, we are all on here for similar reasons so if you do get recognised it will be by someone doing the same as you and not your mum (unless... well... )

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By *rFoxAndXeno OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"I have been close, was chatting to a couple on here, they showed up as being within a mile and there are not that many people that nearby. Ended the conversation on good terms but not revealing each other as could have been awkward being that close. Now I work on 5 miles or more "

That's understandable!!

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By *rFoxAndXeno OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"The thing is, we are all on here for similar reasons so if you do get recognised it will be by someone doing the same as you and not your mum (unless... well... )"

That's what my line of thinking is! I see so many others fretting about privacy and discretion that it's rubbed off on me....thing is, 90% of people I know, KNOW I'm a freaky fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The milage thing isn't as accurate as you think it is, and as someone else said we are all here for more or less the same thing

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If you're worried about how being easily recognisable on here might impact on your life away from here, there's an obvious solution

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon


"If you're worried about how being easily recognisable on here might impact on your life away from here, there's an obvious solution "

Live in the Fab world full time?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

yes there are people on here who love to play with others in the wrong way ie minds ... some turn real detectives to do so too ... we learnt a long long time ago that public pics were not to be too revealing ..there are people who will try and out you ...

not all people are here for the same thing some are just trolls and like to play games..

it amazing how nasty a few can get after being told no thank ... thankfully its not many but dont make the mistake of thinking there are none ...

its when you get those have i just seen you at asda type messages very creepy ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes there are people on here who love to play with others in the wrong way ie minds ... some turn real detectives to do so too ... we learnt a long long time ago that public pics were not to be too revealing ..there are people who will try and out you ...

not all people are here for the same thing some are just trolls and like to play games..

it amazing how nasty a few can get after being told no thank ... thankfully its not many but dont make the mistake of thinking there are none ...

its when you get those have i just seen you at asda type messages very creepy ..

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I guess you are saying, think the worst and post according

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had a guy try and force me to meet him when I gave him a little bit too much personal info when I was on here at the very start he put the little bits of info I gave him and worked out where I was working at the time and told me he would ring my boss and out me. I refused to meet him and brazened it out I also pointed out trying to force someone to meet them for sex and putting their dick near them may not be up in their favour.He did apologise but it was too late and taught me a valuable lesson. He left fab that day but more than likely returned back again . But it thought me a very valuable lesson.

It's pretty simple if you are happy with friends,family members and work mates knowing you are on here then show your pics. But if you are more private for whatever reasons be very careful and there are a people on here who thrive on sharing others info and especially of they are told no,or they just don't like you for whatever reason and they will be more than happy to share it with others or on other social media sites.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"yes there are people on here who love to play with others in the wrong way ie minds ... some turn real detectives to do so too ... we learnt a long long time ago that public pics were not to be too revealing ..there are people who will try and out you ...

not all people are here for the same thing some are just trolls and like to play games..

it amazing how nasty a few can get after being told no thank ... thankfully its not many but dont make the mistake of thinking there are none ...

its when you get those have i just seen you at asda type messages very creepy ..

I guess you are saying, think the worst and post according "

no im just saying they are out there the option is in the hands of those whos profile it is ..

we see it often on here people finding there pics and vids posted to numerous porn site to there are people on here just for that too

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By *rFoxAndXeno OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"I had a guy try and force me to meet him when I gave him a little bit too much personal info when I was on here at the very start he put the little bits of info I gave him and worked out where I was working at the time and told me he would ring my boss and out me. I refused to meet him and brazened it out I also pointed out trying to force someone to meet them for sex and putting their dick near them may not be up in their favour.He did apologise but it was too late and taught me a valuable lesson. He left fab that day but more than likely returned back again . But it thought me a very valuable lesson.

It's pretty simple if you are happy with friends,family members and work mates knowing you are on here then show your pics. But if you are more private for whatever reasons be very careful and there are a people on here who thrive on sharing others info and especially of they are told no,or they just don't like you for whatever reason and they will be more than happy to share it with others or on other social media sites. "

Thank you, I'm probably just overthinking it because of the amount of faceless profiles

I keep the explicit stuff private especially if my face is in it, to be honest that's the only stuff I'd be worried about!

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard


"I had a guy try and force me to meet him when I gave him a little bit too much personal info when I was on here at the very start he put the little bits of info I gave him and worked out where I was working at the time and told me he would ring my boss and out me. I refused to meet him and brazened it out I also pointed out trying to force someone to meet them for sex and putting their dick near them may not be up in their favour.He did apologise but it was too late and taught me a valuable lesson. He left fab that day but more than likely returned back again . But it thought me a very valuable lesson.

It's pretty simple if you are happy with friends,family members and work mates knowing you are on here then show your pics. But if you are more private for whatever reasons be very careful and there are a people on here who thrive on sharing others info and especially of they are told no,or they just don't like you for whatever reason and they will be more than happy to share it with others or on other social media sites.

Thank you, I'm probably just overthinking it because of the amount of faceless profiles

I keep the explicit stuff private especially if my face is in it, to be honest that's the only stuff I'd be worried about! "

A sensible policy, i did come across (no pun intended) an old work colleague on here once but it stayed between us. Shame about the nutters, but they are out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be aware

We once had a situation where a couple were due to arrive at our place. The guy arrived first saying she'd just nipped to the corner shop to get some drinks, so had dropped him off. We were on our guard obviously but willing to wait a short while. Gradually the reasons she still hadn't arrived began to wear thin but it didn't deter him from suggesting the 3 of us crack on regardless.

Luckily Zac handled getting rid of him well but was certainly a wake up call.

Some unscrupulous people out there.

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By *uckwife69Woman
over a year ago

swansea

When I was married someone had stole our pics and used them to create a fake cpl profile on a porn site.... so yes there is a very big down side to oversharing information...

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By *rGandMrsGGCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

Someone recognised us but didn't say anything to us through message instead they decided to act like children in a playground and tell half their mates and then one of them asked my hubby heaps of questions about us being on here etc! Don't really care who knows we're on here but try to keep discreet as we have kids!

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I've only had a good experience... one day... a meet turned up at my work to deliver training....and I met him as the receptionist... after an ooops moment..

We just had a wee laugh with each other and we still chat 7 years down the line

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