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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had 133 NEW messages in a 12 hour period. Any females/couples seeing similar and if so how do you handle it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hand them to my Personal Assistant just Pete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read 11 messages per hour.

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Yep we get an awful lot on a daily basis, the majority of which are the ol “ hey” or “ what are you looking for” type messages which get completely ignored.

Will always reply to polite well written messages but just can’t be bothered reply to the wanking dead

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Only read messages that are a multiple of the number 13. They will be the lucky ones!

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Had 133 NEW messages in a 12 hour period. Any females/couples seeing similar and if so how do you handle it?"

Message filters and brutal deleting. If a message doesn't hold our interest or we're a bit sus about it - delete!

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"Read 11 messages per hour."

ctrl A ctrl X

i doubt i get that many in 6 months

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Don't make a single female profile if you can't manage 133 you'll never manage the 600+ that will get lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep we get an awful lot on a daily basis, the majority of which are the ol “ hey” or “ what are you looking for” type messages which get completely ignored.

Will always reply to polite well written messages but just can’t be bothered reply to the wanking dead "

Love that advice wanking dead brought a chuckle

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By *ean and carolineCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

We get around 300 a day. By the time we get to look at them together the first few hundred have disappeared.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We get around 300 a day. By the time we get to look at them together the first few hundred have disappeared."

We sometimes get three a day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start by deleting any without a profile picture or not within my age bracket.

Then I look at what remains

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Set your filters so that you only get people in your preferred age range or only people verified etc can message you.

That reduces the amount of mail you get. You can also block messages from all males or from anyone to have a breather. Then you could browse and just message people who interest you.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Use filters. We only get a couple a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Too many messages. I tend to delete the ones that aren't verified, or don't have a profile pic (or a pic attatched) or the ones that are far away x

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

I really do feel for the women and couples on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I don’t get many as I don’t display much on my profile

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

lets be honest here they are very easy to manage as 90% to 95% are just deleted/blocked due to them being one liners or very poor ..

best way to deal with them is to block those whom you are not interested so they cant keep sending the same rubbish time and time again that way you get to manage things way better..

133 in 12 hours is nothing compared to what alot of others get all it takes is a new pic or something said in forums or the meet sign then boom like a flood gate opening they appear ..

i dont see it as a bad thing like i said use it as a filter and get blocking or you love the attention deep down and do nothing your choice but there are solutions ..

blocking is not rude blocking is use by me as a way to make my fab vists manageable i dont want everyone attention i just want those that are hot (in my eyes) to get in touch ...but then again fab is just a meet finder for me i dont use it to gain attention amongst people ive no interest in i dont use it as a facebook like many do ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Set your filters so that nobody can message you. Search for the people you're interested in and message them. The ones who have already contacted you will still be able to message but you can go through those, respond to who you want to and block the rest

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Use filters ,that's what I do

I stop certain ages ,couples ,newbies and no public pics from messaging me.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Really lockdown your filters

Maybe stop people messaging you all together for a while so you can do the searching, let's face it, probably only 3 of those people have read your profile & be what your looking for the rest will be chuff

It's no wonder couples and single women don't last very long on FAB it's overwhelming and managing your inbox can become a full time job

You're meant to be here for fun not your admin/secretarial skills

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Filters

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I really do feel for the women and couples on this site "

shut the fuck up man!!! .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a single female lol that would be a slow day for me! (FYI not complaining, I’d just switch off men if it bothered me too much)

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Had 133 NEW messages in a 12 hour period. Any females/couples seeing similar and if so how do you handle it?"

I don't think I have had that many messages in the 5 or more years I have been on this site.

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By *oupleexeter30Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Most we've had in 24 hours is 200. That was a fun day lol Most get deleted unless they are well written with a face pic attached

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Interesting the op has gone unlos

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I just renew my membership to get an automated message from fab

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Interesting the op has gone unlos"

There were no photos on profile, it was just another fantasy

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By *TFandMPCouple
over a year ago

Wexford and Dublin

Here today, gone tomorrow…

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Interesting the op has gone unlos"

Well that'll cut down on the incoming messages.

A drastic solution but a very effective one.

A

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

122 to a bloke. Dream on. Oh look your faceless profile has gone.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Had 133 NEW messages in a 12 hour period. Any females/couples seeing similar and if so how do you handle it?"

Had a young lady friend who would get around 500 a day, saw them myself . No wonder she couldn't respond to most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do just delete them all it can get overwhelming.

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