FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback vs sti's

By *ilverBiBlonde OP Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk

A number of profiles have preferences for bareback sex. If there's no risk of pregnancy, is there a medication that offers protection against infections, that is readily available, effective and free from nasty side effects ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The only ‘medication’ which will almost protect against infection from bareback fun with others is a recent full clear screen result from an sti clinic, and no sex between

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A number of profiles have preferences for bareback sex. If there's no risk of pregnancy, is there a medication that offers protection against infections, that is readily available, effective and free from nasty side effects ?"

There no medication whatsoever just don’t do bareback even if they have a clear check, don’t take the risk with strangers ffs ! You should value your health before a fuck !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilverBiBlonde OP Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk

I've read about a medication known as Doxycycline which has been clinically proven to be effective. I was wondering if anyone has used this ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arklong88Man
over a year ago

portslade /porthmadog

The problem would be if there was such a medication that 'helped' it would encourage more bareback sex.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 12/10/22 09:00:40]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London

The problem would be if there was such a medication that 'helped' it would encourage more bareback sex."

Doxycycline is just a broad spectrum anti biotic. Won't work before hand as a prevention would probably cure it once you are infected. But if thats the case the whole world would be taking anti biotics everyday as a preventive measure to everything, but crying when all antibiotics are useless as resistance has been build up to them by over use.If you are looking for prevention try a condom, radical idea, I know.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilverBiBlonde OP Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk

I am simply asking a question, is there something that people are taking as a form of protection, rather than using condoms, as I have seen alot of profiles where bareback sex is preferred or insisted on. There would surely have to be something they are doing to prevent infection, unless they really don't care about their sexual safety ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am simply asking a question, is there something that people are taking as a form of protection, rather than using condoms, as I have seen alot of profiles where bareback sex is preferred or insisted on. There would surely have to be something they are doing to prevent infection, unless they really don't care about their sexual safety ?"

They probably don't care or don't worry. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

I haven’t met any fabbers for a while but as a player I did acquire some lovely FWBs.. with them, there built up the trust to play bareback but otherwise stay safe!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atermelodyMan
over a year ago

Well there's PreP, which is a preventive drug against HIV but that's about it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make sure I have clear results and anyone I play with either is too or I trust them, in a fwb situation. There is no medication except for Prep (which is only for hiv) and mainly used with bi/gay men. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

A lot of people just don't really care. Probably think it'll never happen to them, or if it does there'll be no harm and it'll just mean popping a few antibiotics.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Absolutely no under any circumstances, I have walked away with my dick in my hand before now when Miss pulls off the condom. It's just not worth the risk.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only ‘medication’ which will almost protect against infection from bareback fun with others is a recent full clear screen result from an sti clinic, and no sex between

Lots of infections don't show up for some time. A Recent test is no guarantee.

And have they checked their oral health also? People don't always remember to include that as a risk.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh an antibiotic might clear up a single instance of an infection but won't clear up your reputation if people know you have had one.

It's reality and you can argue black and white of what's fair but the doubt will be there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

The only system is risk management and working out what is acceptable risk vs reward for you. Also if you are reliant on others looking after their sexual health (which to some extent is the same for non bareback too) then its a mater of who you pick and trust. At the end of the day it's your health and your bodies.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

You've just answered your own question. They don't care.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aleunicorn500Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

The problem would be if there was such a medication that 'helped' it would encourage more bareback sex.

"
best me to it, good reply

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aleunicorn500Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Beat

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well there's PreP, which is a preventive drug against HIV but that's about it."

Anyone taking this shouldn't use condoms,I think it's something to do with the condoms reaction to it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only ‘medication’ which will almost protect against infection from bareback fun with others is a recent full clear screen result from an sti clinic, and no sex between

Lots of infections don't show up for some time. A Recent test is no guarantee.

And have they checked their oral health also? People don't always remember to include that as a risk."

You test all clear, then

3 month's test again, no sex of any form whatsoever

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There no medication whatsoever just don’t do bareback even if they have a clear check, don’t take the risk with strangers ffs ! You should value your health before a fuck ! "

Extraordinary that you even have to point out something so obvious!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well there's PreP, which is a preventive drug against HIV but that's about it.

Anyone taking this shouldn't use condoms,I think it's something to do with the condoms reaction to it "

This is not true

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only ‘medication’ which will almost protect against infection from bareback fun with others is a recent full clear screen result from an sti clinic, and no sex between

Lots of infections don't show up for some time. A Recent test is no guarantee.

And have they checked their oral health also? People don't always remember to include that as a risk."

Exactly; it is amazing how wilfully naive people can be, while pretending to be sexually sophisticated!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well there's PreP, which is a preventive drug against HIV but that's about it.

Anyone taking this shouldn't use condoms,I think it's something to do with the condoms reaction to it "

What sort of moron or malicious idiot told you that?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ayMaxxxMan
over a year ago

Windsor

"Well there's PreP, which is a preventive drug against HIV but that's about it.

Anyone taking this shouldn't use condoms,I think it's something to do with the condoms reaction to it

What sort of moron or malicious idiot told you that?"

Indeed. It's crazy what some people believe.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello.

Quick one word answer . No .

Tho is a nice ambitious vision that I would believe may have a crazy scientist or two trying to give birth to the “ miracle pill “ .

I am a bareback lover . I done the snip . STI once again double checked all negative couple weeks ago . New would be all negative but keep it tidy - always .

No pregnancy . No STI .

Now all it needs ( I done before ) is make a friend who brings pure honesty , all cards on table and with trust you build a lovely connection .

That is what safe sex means to me :

Honesty and trust . Is the only remedy .

With out this condoms it is . I’m happy use them .

Condoms say nothing to me . They not guardians angels . Starting from syphilis and herpes in oral sex , u name it .

Honesty and trust is the only way .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There no medication whatsoever just don’t do bareback even if they have a clear check, don’t take the risk with strangers ffs ! You should value your health before a fuck ! "

I agree

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read about a medication known as Doxycycline which has been clinically proven to be effective. I was wondering if anyone has used this ?"

Never heard of it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes . Honesty and trust . Is your only protection .

I’m a bareback lover . I don’t trust it to anyone just like that .

Cards need to be on table .

And if u have more then one bareback lover , everyone one needs to know about each other exactly where they been and doing what .

You only need 1 to cheat and lie to ruin the everyone in the bubble .

Honesty and trust .

Is very dangerous . Read what google says .

Specially when ladies get with bi sexual men according to documents online the risks get even higher .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ust me 999Man
over a year ago

near you

Massive risk no way would I go bareback

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No . They probably not taking anything .

They probably not even do STI tests

U would be shocked how much people not bothered and don’t care .

I met someone here , a lady , I asked her :

Please Bring me STI results . She didn’t wanted too , was sacred of taking bloods …

End of the line for me . I have a daughter , I have other ladies to give love , I have myself ….

Good bye x x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only ‘medication’ which will almost protect against infection from bareback fun with others is a recent full clear screen result from an sti clinic, and no sex between

Lots of infections don't show up for some time. A Recent test is no guarantee.

And have they checked their oral health also? People don't always remember to include that as a risk."

That’s why I always do every 3 month . Is always negative . But make sure u don’t bring anything from the past .

I’m quality over quantity . I don’t sleep around .

So is not big challenge for me . I know I’m fine .

But for some one with high rhythms like 5 news verifications a week ….

Well then I would not even consider bareback as an option

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes . Honesty and trust . Is your only protection .

I’m a bareback lover . I don’t trust it to anyone just like that .

Cards need to be on table .

And if u have more then one bareback lover , everyone one needs to know about each other exactly where they been and doing what .

You only need 1 to cheat and lie to ruin the everyone in the bubble .

Honesty and trust .

Is very dangerous . Read what google says .

Specially when ladies get with bi sexual men according to documents online the risks get even higher .

I’ve met up with several bi guys and still practice safe sex so I don’t really see where this comes from. What documents?

Why do bi guys get such a bad reputation but bi women don’t?

I always carry condoms as many guys seem incapable of buying them or getting them from a clinic. Stay safe !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Massive risk no way would I go bareback "

Bareback is fine . If u happy with your little bubble .

Trust and honesty . For me is the only way u can say “ safe sex “

10 condoms and fuck 10 different pussies in same night or short time ? Oral sex and hugs and kisses ?

That ain’t safe sex .

looks like but is not totally . Is nearly

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

OP i couldn't believe that i've just read this thread. But it comes down to common sense, there are risk takers and there are those who care about their health and the health of others. No magic pils. As someone who struggles with condoms and sensitivity, i wish there was, but it's not worth the risks.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes . Honesty and trust . Is your only protection .

I’m a bareback lover . I don’t trust it to anyone just like that .

Cards need to be on table .

And if u have more then one bareback lover , everyone one needs to know about each other exactly where they been and doing what .

You only need 1 to cheat and lie to ruin the everyone in the bubble .

Honesty and trust .

Is very dangerous . Read what google says .

Specially when ladies get with bi sexual men according to documents online the risks get even higher .

I’ve met up with several bi guys and still practice safe sex so I don’t really see where this comes from. What documents?

Why do bi guys get such a bad reputation but bi women don’t?

I always carry condoms as many guys seem incapable of buying them or getting them from a clinic. Stay safe ! "

Documents online . Websites , blogs …

Bi sexual men are more risky cause they practice gay sex with other men then came back out to the girls .

And is there with the men gay sex + bi sex with girls that makes high risk

Then the lady goes to the straight guy

Then the straight guy goes to the STI right lady

So on so on .

This is not my theory . Is what I read on google

Ask google . Endless information . Loads .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They even explain that the bottom is at higher risk then the tops to get hiv

https://www.cdc.gov/msmhealth/for-your-health.htm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a straight bareback lover and I always have condoms with me .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More condescending comments than you can shake a stick at. Just to stick one in the eye I'm 42 love bareback and NEVER had an sti. It's all in selection

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

If someone is happy doing bareback then fine leave them alone to enjoy sex their way

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Yes . Honesty and trust . Is your only protection .

I’m a bareback lover . I don’t trust it to anyone just like that .

Cards need to be on table .

And if u have more then one bareback lover , everyone one needs to know about each other exactly where they been and doing what .

You only need 1 to cheat and lie to ruin the everyone in the bubble .

Honesty and trust .

Is very dangerous . Read what google says .

Specially when ladies get with bi sexual men according to documents online the risks get even higher .

I’ve met up with several bi guys and still practice safe sex so I don’t really see where this comes from. What documents?

Why do bi guys get such a bad reputation but bi women don’t?

I always carry condoms as many guys seem incapable of buying them or getting them from a clinic. Stay safe !

Documents online . Websites , blogs …

Bi sexual men are more risky cause they practice gay sex with other men then came back out to the girls .

And is there with the men gay sex + bi sex with girls that makes high risk

Then the lady goes to the straight guy

Then the straight guy goes to the STI right lady

So on so on .

This is not my theory . Is what I read on google

Ask google . Endless information . Loads .

Maverick everything you say is based on fact but you are describing things as if men who have sex with men are the primordeal source of all infection! Statistics give an overview of a group, however as you yourself described the specific practices of each member determine risk on an individual level. The monogamous gay man is lower risk than the promiscuous straight woman. And if bi men didn't exist, straight people would still pass STIs to each other no problem, there's enough go around

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

As much as I miss bareback sex threads like this remind me of why I use a condom even with my solo-poly girlfriend. Neither of us is monogamous so its how we manage our risk reward factor. We also insist on confirming STI risk status with proof whenever a new partner comes into the picture.

On another note if anyone on this site still trusts that guys are straight because their profile says so I'm sorry but they are seriously deluded. The evidence to the contrary is overwhelming.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes . Honesty and trust . Is your only protection .

I’m a bareback lover . I don’t trust it to anyone just like that .

Cards need to be on table .

And if u have more then one bareback lover , everyone one needs to know about each other exactly where they been and doing what .

You only need 1 to cheat and lie to ruin the everyone in the bubble .

Honesty and trust .

Is very dangerous . Read what google says .

Specially when ladies get with bi sexual men according to documents online the risks get even higher .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"The only ‘medication’ which will almost protect against infection from bareback fun with others is a recent full clear screen result from an sti clinic, and no sex between

But that doesnt test for herpes and hpv though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only ‘medication’ which will almost protect against infection from bareback fun with others is a recent full clear screen result from an sti clinic, and no sex between

But that doesnt test for herpes and hpv though"

Indeed; a fact that many people on here seem to conveniently ignore!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread