FabSwingers.com forum: Messy houses...

By *objguk OP Man
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

Is it just me or is it a real turn off when you see a video on a profile and the house in the background is a scruffy mess?

You wouldn't tidy up before you had visitors round so why not clear your shit away before you get the camera out.

Is it just me?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No it's not just you, we're very observant

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

Fully agree, it would put me off meeting.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Even more so is when you zoom in and see all the drug paraphernalia like change the angle duh

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I really don't give a dam. A messy house doesn't necessarily indicate negative character traits to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Untidy - fine

Unclean - *vomit*

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I really don't give a dam. A messy house doesn't necessarily indicate negative character traits to me."

Yep.

Unless it looks like a crack house I'm far more interested in the people in a photo than whether they've dusted/hoovered or had a spring clean.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How messy?

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By *illyandjamesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

What gets us is when people don't mute the tv when filming, there are way too many videos with family guy audio in the background. Definite mood killer!

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By *anny Boy31Man
over a year ago

Belfast all over the Uk and Ireland

Dirty house a no go. Any place can be kinda untidy but scruffy in the pictures would tell me it’s x10 times worse in person

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends on how messy and what the mess is and also how hot the person is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely something we look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, if people can’t keep their house clean and tidy , what is their personal hygiene like, big turn off for me !

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Mouldy black grouting *vom*

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

Instant block for us if they can’t clean their home in pictures they can’t clean themselves lol

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By *objguk OP Man
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

great points raised so far both pro and con but I agree with naughtyknotts.

If their house is dirty.....how clean are their bits?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

First thing I notice is the background

Still shocks me that people post pics with filth around them

Makes you wonder what their own personal hygiene is like

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely off putting

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes especially in dirty bathrooms or stuff all over the floor, it's easy to blur out a background.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully agree!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

How messy are we talking

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

"What gets us is when people don't mute the tv when filming, there are way too many videos with family guy audio in the background. Definite mood killer! "

I agree......unless lois is on, i sooooo would!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or is it a real turn off when you see a video on a profile and the house in the background is a scruffy mess?

You wouldn't tidy up before you had visitors round so why not clear your shit away before you get the camera out.

Is it just me?"

Funnily enough I was talking with my man about this today. A total turn off. I'm easily distracted by background shite

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How messy? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t put me off .

I done distractions before like sending friends request by accident when I just read a second a go “ don’t do it “

Maybe there’s a reason . She could have 3 kids and is hard to keep up .

Where is it ? Maybe I should ask her if she needs a hand ^^

Is just a distraction I’m sure she will be nice and spot on

But yeah . Is a bit off putting

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"What gets us is when people don't mute the tv when filming, there are way too many videos with family guy audio in the background. Definite mood killer! "

Haha, I saw one video the other day of a wife sucking off her husband with the theme tune to Coronation Street in the background!

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West

Definitely a turn off.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"I really don't give a dam. A messy house doesn't necessarily indicate negative character traits to me."

huge difference between messy and dirty ....

I quite like my lived in look at the weekend ..... you know ...papers on the floor .... plate ive eaten from ... wine n glass on the table..... half eaten bag of crisps etc.....

I LIVE here......

I would tidy up before someone came around tho .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I'd tidy it before taking pics too

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By *aves14Man
over a year ago

bourne

I've walked away from a meet because the house was such a mess...dirty dishes in the front room with uneaten food...urggg...

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"What gets us is when people don't mute the tv when filming, there are way too many videos with family guy audio in the background. Definite mood killer!

Haha, I saw one video the other day of a wife sucking off her husband with the theme tune to Coronation Street in the background!

The joys of everyday sex though!

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