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"Why is it dead?" Diabetic penile neuropathy is the main reason along with other medical problems he was dealt with .. its more common that people think but we've turned it to our advantage rather than sulk .. after years of hotwife fun and him enjoying me with others cuckold was a natural progression .. | |||
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"Why is it dead? Diabetic penile neuropathy is the main reason along with other medical problems he was dealt with .. its more common that people think but we've turned it to our advantage rather than sulk .. after years of hotwife fun and him enjoying me with others cuckold was a natural progression .. " well that's good you can both deal with it , if your husband is ok with you seeing other guys for your enjoyment it shows he loves you very much , allowing you to indulge in some sexy fun and games,, so hats of to you both | |||
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"Why is it dead? Diabetic penile neuropathy is the main reason along with other medical problems he was dealt with .. its more common that people think but we've turned it to our advantage rather than sulk .. after years of hotwife fun and him enjoying me with others cuckold was a natural progression .. "  | |||
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"so this is aimed at cuckold couples whos cuck is permanently limp by permanently limp i mean not by cage just natural limp .. tell us a little about your cuck .. my hubs/cuck permanently limp now for 5 years yes medical reasons no treatment to help as its dead as a dodo not a real biggie for me as it never really hit the spot before either or lasted all of 10 seconds lol now its just a cute little thing ..what has been amazing is how fast they shrink when the ability to get hard disappears but all good for me as i now get choices of guys to please me .. so again the question is for cuckold couples is your cuck fully limp.. for those who dont understand the cuckold relationships please keep opinions on the lifestyle to yourself this is not a debate on the lifestyle " This is really interesting | |||
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"so this is aimed at cuckold couples whos cuck is permanently limp by permanently limp i mean not by cage just natural limp .. tell us a little about your cuck .. my hubs/cuck permanently limp now for 5 years yes medical reasons no treatment to help as its dead as a dodo not a real biggie for me as it never really hit the spot before either or lasted all of 10 seconds lol now its just a cute little thing ..what has been amazing is how fast they shrink when the ability to get hard disappears but all good for me as i now get choices of guys to please me .. so again the question is for cuckold couples is your cuck fully limp.. for those who dont understand the cuckold relationships please keep opinions on the lifestyle to yourself this is not a debate on the lifestyle " I would say there are a fair few cucks on here that have erection issues, nothing wrong with that and it’s good that couples can understand their problems and embrace the cuckolding lifestyle so the ‘hotwife’ gets the servicings she needs. | |||
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"...I'd suggest that all the cuckold and hotwife folks have very different needs and dynamics..." Very much so in my experience. I've played with a few cuck couples and the dynamics are surprisingly different. One is very female dominant, hubby is kept in a cock cage and humiliated, another sits and wanks, another 'helps out'. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves, it all good. | |||
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"I’ve not been hard in probably four years and can’t cum really, maybe once a month. Lola doesn’t touch it now. " So you don't need a cockcage anymore | |||
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"I’ve not been hard in probably four years and can’t cum really, maybe once a month. Lola doesn’t touch it now. " Really as long as you both have fun, that's all that matters. I've played with a few cuck couples with wildly different dynamics but they all seem to work. | |||
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"...Even though the condition isn't as prominent as before we continue to enjoy a cuckold experience." It works for many couples for a number of reasons not just medical, in my view there can't be much that is more erotic than watching your lady get aroused and orgasm. Anyway, I'm glad that there are couples who feel that way  | |||
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"I'm permanently limp but I've been in permanent chastity since I was 19. On the rare occasion I'm not caged I can get an errection " so your not permanently limp are you if you can still manage erections ??? hubs is 100% limp if you stuck a 100 naked women in front of him he would not twitch it would drive him wild in his mind and leave damp patches in his knickers but thats it ... in all the years we've been together hes never had strong erections and we would still have been cuckold if he could get them as hes very much on the small side ie really really dont know when hes in or out and then add in the he only last a few seconds he was born to be cuck sexually ... 
remember people cuckold couples nearly always both like what they do if anyone ask my hubs what his sex life was like he would tell then its bloody fantastic its all consensual we talk we still talk he very much want this as do i .... hes had guys ask him what does he get from it his answer is alway everything | |||
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"so this is aimed at cuckold couples whos cuck is permanently limp by permanently limp i mean not by cage just natural limp .. tell us a little about your cuck .. my hubs/cuck permanently limp now for 5 years yes medical reasons no treatment to help as its dead as a dodo not a real biggie for me as it never really hit the spot before either or lasted all of 10 seconds lol now its just a cute little thing ..what has been amazing is how fast they shrink when the ability to get hard disappears but all good for me as i now get choices of guys to please me .. so again the question is for cuckold couples is your cuck fully limp.. for those who dont understand the cuckold relationships please keep opinions on the lifestyle to yourself this is not a debate on the lifestyle " | |||
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"does hubby still feel an erotic desire for you " we are very much together in everyway if he was not in my life then i dont do this lifestyle at all because to me hes perfect ... till death do us part oh and and we are still very much in love | |||
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"does hubby still feel an erotic desire for you we are very much together in everyway if he was not in my life then i dont do this lifestyle at all because to me hes perfect ... till death do us part oh and and we are still very much in love" and we both still turn each other on very much so not having a erection stops that | |||
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"I had a nice large 7in cock a medical reason happened and now I stay limp I get hard for about 20 seconds and then it’s gone would love to go to doctors but too embarrassed " go to the drs take mrs with you i went to all with hubs there is so much they can do to help just that hubs has exhausted all and some he could not have due to health .... drs deal with this every day its common very common | |||
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"I had a nice large 7in cock a medical reason happened and now I stay limp I get hard for about 20 seconds and then it’s gone would love to go to doctors but too embarrassed go to the drs take mrs with you i went to all with hubs there is so much they can do to help just that hubs has exhausted all and some he could not have due to health .... drs deal with this every day its common very common" | |||
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"I had a nice large 7in cock a medical reason happened and now I stay limp I get hard for about 20 seconds and then it’s gone would love to go to doctors but too embarrassed go to the drs take mrs with you i went to all with hubs there is so much they can do to help just that hubs has exhausted all and some he could not have due to health .... drs deal with this every day its common very common" Great advice, hopefully the Dr’s can help you out | |||
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"I’ve not been hard in probably four years and can’t cum really, maybe once a month. Lola doesn’t touch it now. So you don't need a cockcage anymore " No. She was never fully comfortable with the cage thing in any case, though I would’ve been more than happy to comply. But as I can’t be hard there’s no point. The last time she was in bed with her guy who she was very much into, he suggested that she suck his cock and then mine, he thought he was being nice. She snarled at me ‘first of all, we’d have to find it first!’ Her guy looked awkward for a moment, then said that I was probably best to leave them to it. Which I did. | |||
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"having sexy fun with another guy is so eye opening, and in so many cases makes the relationship between the husband and wife so much stronger, and if the husband is unable to perform then allowing another guy to join them, is so good, but it has to be what they both want " Excellent point. Joe was accused of being a ‘selfish cuckold’ by a guy in a message recently. He banged on about setting the wife free to have a proper sex life. But that doesn’t take account of the rest of our partnership - plus that we like the dynamic. | |||
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"...Excellent point. Joe was accused of being a ‘selfish cuckold’ by a guy in a message recently. He banged on about setting the wife free to have a proper sex life. But that doesn’t take account of the rest of our partnership - plus that we like the dynamic. " There are almost as many variations on the cuckold scene as there are people. There are many reasons people do it, cuck, bull and wife. I've given up counting personally I just enjoy taking part in a scene where 3 people get to have fun, for whatever reason and in whatever form they enjoy. | |||
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"...Excellent point. Joe was accused of being a ‘selfish cuckold’ by a guy in a message recently. He banged on about setting the wife free to have a proper sex life. But that doesn’t take account of the rest of our partnership - plus that we like the dynamic. There are almost as many variations on the cuckold scene as there are people. There are many reasons people do it, cuck, bull and wife. I've given up counting personally I just enjoy taking part in a scene where 3 people get to have fun, for whatever reason and in whatever form they enjoy."the are 2 types of cuckold couples those who are just fantasy / roleplay and those who are living the lifestyle for real reasons .... alot who call themselves cuckold are not alot are simply just hotwife couples or basic swinging couples who enjoy 3way fun .. real cuckolding is actually quite a small group compared to those who roleplay / fantasy let also not forget the 100s of single men who think they are cucks they to totally just dont get it ... so theres 2 groups then add into that there personal dynamics that you get with anyone who swings / kink cuckolding is far far more than a sex act its a mental connection between cuck n wife | |||
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"...Excellent point. Joe was accused of being a ‘selfish cuckold’ by a guy in a message recently. He banged on about setting the wife free to have a proper sex life. But that doesn’t take account of the rest of our partnership - plus that we like the dynamic. There are almost as many variations on the cuckold scene as there are people. There are many reasons people do it, cuck, bull and wife. I've given up counting personally I just enjoy taking part in a scene where 3 people get to have fun, for whatever reason and in whatever form they enjoy.
the are 2 types of cuckold couples those who are just fantasy / roleplay and those who are living the lifestyle for real reasons .... alot who call themselves cuckold are not alot are simply just hotwife couples or basic swinging couples who enjoy 3way fun ..
real cuckolding is actually quite a small group compared to those who roleplay / fantasy let also not forget the 100s of single men who think they are cucks they to totally just dont get it ... so theres 2 groups then add into that there personal dynamics that you get with anyone who swings / kink
cuckolding is far far more than a sex act its a mental connection between cuck n wife"Genuine question. As a couple who's really into the cuckold life style (rare) and not playing out a weekend fantasy, do you struggle to find a guy/bull who understands the dynamic fully? And is a mental connection/friendship with you husband and your bull an important factor for you both? | |||
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"having sexy fun with another guy is so eye opening, and in so many cases makes the relationship between the husband and wife so much stronger, and if the husband is unable to perform then allowing another guy to join them, is so good, but it has to be what they both want Excellent point. Joe was accused of being a ‘selfish cuckold’ by a guy in a message recently. He banged on about setting the wife free to have a proper sex life. But that doesn’t take account of the rest of our partnership - plus that we like the dynamic. " After chatting to various cuckold couples, I've found everyone different, and often the line between hotwife and cuckold is some what grey/blurred. Some bulls really seem to want to drive out the husband completely, not have him in the room, meet alone etc! to me it's a missed opportunity for a mental connection, having a husband watching and being involved is a big turn on! As much as it is to send him some naughty pics of a random meet with is wife without his knowledge. | |||
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"...Excellent point. Joe was accused of being a ‘selfish cuckold’ by a guy in a message recently. He banged on about setting the wife free to have a proper sex life. But that doesn’t take account of the rest of our partnership - plus that we like the dynamic. There are almost as many variations on the cuckold scene as there are people. There are many reasons people do it, cuck, bull and wife. I've given up counting personally I just enjoy taking part in a scene where 3 people get to have fun, for whatever reason and in whatever form they enjoy.
the are 2 types of cuckold couples those who are just fantasy / roleplay and those who are living the lifestyle for real reasons .... alot who call themselves cuckold are not alot are simply just hotwife couples or basic swinging couples who enjoy 3way fun ..
real cuckolding is actually quite a small group compared to those who roleplay / fantasy let also not forget the 100s of single men who think they are cucks they to totally just dont get it ... so theres 2 groups then add into that there personal dynamics that you get with anyone who swings / kink
cuckolding is far far more than a sex act its a mental connection between cuck n wife
Genuine question.
As a couple who's really into the cuckold life style (rare) and not playing out a weekend fantasy, do you struggle to find a guy/bull who understands the dynamic fully?
And is a mental connection/friendship with you husband and your bull an important factor for you both? "with 30 plus years in this lifestyle i know enough guys by phone number to play with the 3ed person is important to us both that he fits out dynamic ... i dont look for guys who call themselves bulls we learnt a very long time ago that anyone tagged bull = bullshit .. i meet assertive guys who know what we want / regulars whom i regard as boyfriends ... the only bits of sex cuck gets is after ive had fun if hes lucky .. i will allow him to be used by a guy or two here n there they use him tho and hes still not allowed to cum unless i say so ... not that he can even cum its a dribble | |||
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"I ave heard that by a regime of chastity combined with teasing and regular spoilt orgasms a wife can get her husband to be nicely limp so that they can both concentrate on her pleasure with other hard hung real men " | |||
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