FabSwingers.com forum: Why

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think every man assumes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve absolutely learnt through here and life women couldn’t give a fuck about the size of your cock…honestly being above average and at my size I’ve had more complaints of being too big or being told I look to big…wish I had a decent girthed 5 inch cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think every man assumes it"

Didn’t say every man does!

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By *ocopops1962Man
over a year ago

Glasgow / Lindon

It takes women like you duchessb to try to convert men from their preconceptions

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Men love their Willie's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes women like you duchessb to try to convert men from their preconceptions "

Where does that misconception come from though.... Its not from women, as has been shown regularly on here, the majority of women don't go hunting frankencocks they want me average so why is it down to a woman to dissuade them of that belief?

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By *r Black 85Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"Men love their Willie's!

I love my drink more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men love their Willie's!

Haha I mean I love their willies too but I prefer average!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes women like you duchessb to try to convert men from their preconceptions

*Mr average

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Ummm.... I don't. Wise saying is you can only piss with the dick you've got. It's honestly not something I focus on and you know what everything works out fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ummm.... I don't. Wise saying is you can only piss with the dick you've got. It's honestly not something I focus on and you know what everything works out fine. "

I state on my profile that I don’t like hung guys so I find it odd when someone uses being vwe or hung as a selling point, it’s like some men assume that it’s what every woman wants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn is the reason most men think that every woman needs to be demolished by a big dick and think that every woman needs that in there life so they message them with a dick pic lol now we have seen many profiles on here asking for guys that are vwe or hung, I know its there preference but it's giving guys the wrong message for other woman that are not interested in that type.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

men are no different than women when it comes to image ... women go through it every days with media covering blemishes and using only slim women perfect teeth perfect skin perfect everything its pushes daily and its the same with porn the long legs the high heels the perfect boobs and ass saying the perfect thing with the falseness its what expected its pushed into us from a young age ..

now alot of people see this as the norm just look at the forums what people expect they want the magazine look they want the tv junk they want what they see for alot of men that image is porn (and women) you never see a small cock and then you look at cuckold porn and they class small at 7 inches because they look small against the 9/10 incg cocks so therefor men will look in there pants and think holy fuck im small...

the media creates the image that is just not real and the problem is so many belive what the see in the media is real ... look at the womans vagina do you see in porn anyone who has anything other than a neat no lips peach yet most women dont have this ? same with men and there cocks some have hang ups because they cant separate the false world with the real word

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Tbf OP there are a significant number of women and couples profiles who specifically request a big dick. I know not all are bothered like yourself but it is noticeable. Not many profiles requesting small or average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ummm.... I don't. Wise saying is you can only piss with the dick you've got. It's honestly not something I focus on and you know what everything works out fine.

I state on my profile that I don’t like hung guys so I find it odd when someone uses being vwe or hung as a selling point, it’s like some men assume that it’s what every woman wants!

Your first mistake was assuming men read.

Secondly, yeah most guys think that. It's a "sex" site we're obviously all gagging for it and the only thing we're interested in is the cock size.

I generally think if a guy refers to himself as hung vwe or whatever, then that's pretty much all he has to offer.

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By *olvesfunguyMan
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

How about below average?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"Tbf OP there are a significant number of women and couples profiles who specifically request a big dick. I know not all are bothered like yourself but it is noticeable. Not many profiles requesting small or average. "

and theres nothing wrong with that they seek what they want so they ask that should not dishearten anyone just because someone is looking for something they dont have .... its no diffences to some one looking for watersports if your not into watersports then you dont get intouch why would you if your not into what they are no different than wanting a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They see 2 profiles asking for big cocks and they assume that all women are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just from observation, I think porn plays a a big part of it. Also some guys will blame the size of their cock or anything else when in reality it’s totally not just that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If size isn’t mentioned though that’s probably because they don’t care about size. There’s no way that the majority of profiles want huge cocks! It may be a sizeable minority that want big but it’s not the majority!

And it’s one thing if some women want huge but why the assumption by many that all women want huge?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

There's a fair few Size Queens like everything in the world, who's sole thing is to have their guts rearranged. But, for the 99%, me included who are "average" then I just have to be content with one that fits nicely in the mouth. You can only work with what you have.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Porn is the reason most men think that every woman needs to be demolished by a big dick"

It's also why so many are preoccupied with making women squirt, whether they want to or not.

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Also some guys will blame the size of their cock or anything else when in reality it’s totally not just that."

Exactly this. We genuinely have no interest in the size* just so long as it's nice looking.

(Bry)

*Okay, for novelty value a huge one might be fun to play with. But then the same can be said for a micropenis.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sooooo......

'I've come to inspect your plumbing' is not a good line to introduce myself????

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"I generally think if a guy refers to himself as hung vwe or whatever, then that's pretty much all he has to offer. "

I see it sometimes on profiles and often the photographic evidence does not match the claim (IMHO). I wonder how these men think? Do they think their Audi is an Aston Martin?

Personally, it's not something I'd claim as it's not true, and if a meet came to pass, the other party would be disappointed when I undressed - not a great way to start proceeedings.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge. "

well it is a issues when people are putting ladies who want bigger into a box they've not asked for .. why are these women put in boxes for wanting something outside the norm ? or do they have to tip toe around to stop bruising ego's ?

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Porn is the reason most men think that every woman needs to be demolished by a big dick

It's also why so many are preoccupied with making women squirt, whether they want to or not.

(Bry)"

I think that might be because when blokes cum, it's a fairly obvious thing. A big rope of white goo and you go cross-eyed for a bit.

So if a girl squirts I can see the visual being a positive affirmation that you have done something that made then feel good. It's nonsense of course, but I understand where it might come from.

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By *ervice2000Man
over a year ago

derby

Ive been turned down by a few women on here for not having a massive cock and theyve been quite rude about it too!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge. "

I think in your case OP they just aren’t reading your profile are they. Fairly common on here I would say

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I've definitely met more much women who prefer average than large or vwe. Unicorn prefers

under 6.5.

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

Maybe that's where I've been going wrong then. I always write in a message that I am 'vwe',under the misapprehension that this is an abbreviation for 'very well educated'. No wonder I get so few responses from the sexy academic community out there.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Agree, People should be able to express their own preferences on here without people digging them out or questioning it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge.

I think in your case OP they just aren’t reading your profile are they. Fairly common on here I would say "

I’m just curious as to where this assumption comes from. If they are stating vwe and hung to every woman I can only assume that they think that’s what every woman wants! But why?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

me personally think variety is the spice of life same goes for cocks ..size is not a reason to say no small or big

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge.

I think in your case OP they just aren’t reading your profile are they. Fairly common on here I would say

I’m just curious as to where this assumption comes from. If they are stating vwe and hung to every woman I can only assume that they think that’s what every woman wants! But why?"

porn

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge.

I think in your case OP they just aren’t reading your profile are they. Fairly common on here I would say

I’m just curious as to where this assumption comes from. If they are stating vwe and hung to every woman I can only assume that they think that’s what every woman wants! But why?"

I’ve been on fab 10 years and my impression is a lot of women (more wives than singles) are requesting size limits or VWE etc . Just my opinion

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Maybe that's where I've been going wrong then. I always write in a message that I am 'vwe',under the misapprehension that this is an abbreviation for 'very well educated'. No wonder I get so few responses from the sexy academic community out there."

That's a good point, when you turn up to a meet with a Choad in one hand and your degree from King's College in the other, you wonder if the only man that could ever please them is Steven Hawking.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I think that might be because when blokes cum, it's a fairly obvious thing. A big rope of white goo and you go cross-eyed for a bit.

So if a girl squirts I can see the visual being a positive affirmation that you have done something that made then feel good. It's nonsense of course, but I understand where it might come from."

That's a good point that I'd not considered. Mostly because we have to warn guys that Char's going to giggle when she cums and they're not to think she's laughing at them

(Bry)

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

also op lets look at it a different way why do you seek over 6ft tall ? alot will moan at that what difference does it make for sex ??

im not knocking you just pointing out people will take offence at anything if they think they are excluded your asking for what you want rightly so its the same with everything else ... its not all guys most are happy with what they got and know how to use ... its the few who keep moaning about there size and for some reason some women want to try and to reassure and by doing that they get the attension they crave ...

if we think theres a problem now wait til the next crop of boys become men they are even more porn obsessed blame the smart phone ...

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We had the pleasure of meeting a guy once who was possibly *slightly* bigger than average. Yet his girth was simply incredible.

He didn't mention it once on his profile. In fact, I don't think he had a single dick pic on his profile.

On the other hand, we don't meet guys who go on about it. When we did, our experience was that they either overestimated their own size, or they had very little else to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say more profiles day they are looking for vwe than not vwe. Although the majority are silent. However you don't tend to notcor absence of evidence.

If also imagine that some vwe guys promote this as it's their main (only?) selling point.

Vwe also get messages to compliment. Which reinforces any confirmation bias.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge.

I think in your case OP they just aren’t reading your profile are they. Fairly common on here I would say

I’m just curious as to where this assumption comes from. If they are stating vwe and hung to every woman I can only assume that they think that’s what every woman wants! But why?

I’ve been on fab 10 years and my impression is a lot of women (more wives than singles) are requesting size limits or VWE etc . Just my opinion "

i think thats a fair quote is it a case of its wanting different where the hubs wants her to have bigger just as much as her so its more a focal point also alot use it as a filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"also op lets look at it a different way why do you seek over 6ft tall ? alot will moan at that what difference does it make for sex ??

if we think theres a problem now wait til the next crop of boys become men they are even more porn obsessed blame the smart phone ... "

My thread isn’t about offence though so I’m unsure why you’ve gone off on a massive tangent!

I’m asking why do some men assume ALL women want hung when that isn’t the reality! As for height certain positions just aren’t easy to do with men shorter than me (I’m 5ft11)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

Good question .

Same as a barbie girl with big tits they think they can take over the world .

Why ?

Maybe culture , including porn yes , fashion , magazine .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average for me

Not a fan of hung as I like my insides to stay intact

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

Bit harsh to generalise all men the same due to a snap shot of your messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"also op lets look at it a different way why do you seek over 6ft tall ? alot will moan at that what difference does it make for sex ??

if we think theres a problem now wait til the next crop of boys become men they are even more porn obsessed blame the smart phone ... "

I prefer men over 5’9 due to me being 5’7 and it’s not just sex some of us go on socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ummm.... I don't. Wise saying is you can only piss with the dick you've got. It's honestly not something I focus on and you know what everything works out fine.

I state on my profile that I don’t like hung guys so I find it odd when someone uses being vwe or hung as a selling point, it’s like some men assume that it’s what every woman wants!

They don't usually read what we want though lol. Or at least the ones that message me dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s one for everyone …

And is nice to feel that .

Girls don’t need to feel shy cause they don’t have magazine perfect model shape

And we don’t have to feel shy cause we don’t have Mr Universe look or a giant pocket rocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I started on this site, I presumed that men wouldn't be interested in me because I'm chunky. I'm not and never will be a size 10. So I guess it's similar. We think about our own insecurity and presume incorrectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are obsessed with size in my experience... The bigger the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I started on this site, I presumed that men wouldn't be interested in me because I'm chunky. I'm not and never will be a size 10. So I guess it's similar. We think about our own insecurity and presume incorrectly "

Works both ways

Always thinking : “ stand no chance when are thousands better look or better shape …

They all bigger and better then me ….

Not saying that’s what a lady goes for …

I work with chemistry more then looks too .

But it does make u feel with less chance .

And as a bloke worse .

Cause is so many of us , and so little of yous .

The 200 messages u ignore , is the 200 I get ignored ^^

Is how it is . And is great have you ladies here to make this possible .

So just for that . Thank you .

You are lux . Loved your photos x x

Shame I’m not 10 miles away ^^ would trow a “ hi “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love my willy

Put a ring on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seems alot of couples and single ladies request vwe or above a certain size I'm average so a soon as I see that on a profile I don't bother

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Men are obsessed with size in my experience... The bigger the better

We got told even with most (not all) couples asking for VWE, it's for the Man to see his partner with a big one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ummm.... I don't. Wise saying is you can only piss with the dick you've got. It's honestly not something I focus on and you know what everything works out fine.

I state on my profile that I don’t like hung guys so I find it odd when someone uses being vwe or hung as a selling point, it’s like some men assume that it’s what every woman wants!

They don't usually read what we want though lol. Or at least the ones that message me dont

Reading is very important . Saves time and saves you falling in love for some one that is just 200% not gonna feel ok with you xx

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Bit harsh to generalise all men the same due to a snap shot of your messages."

Bit harsh to presume a generalisation when there wasn't one.

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By *lackFun69Man
over a year ago

East Anglia

I have also seen quite a few profiles where the woman is asking for hung or VWE, maybe that's why some men assume they should put that in there profile and messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge.

I think in your case OP they just aren’t reading your profile are they. Fairly common on here I would say "

It’s just this and nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit harsh to generalise all men the same due to a snap shot of your messages.

Bit harsh to presume a generalisation when there wasn't one."
was the generalisation that men think ALL women think this based on their own experience. Maybe men just think the OP likes them vwe.

(I have no idea of course. Just continuing this generation thread!)

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

You can't help people's own feelings about themselves, I can be very self conscious too, but if you have got as far as inviting someone to a private room in a club then all that should evaporate and just enjoy each others bodies, including all the nobbly and wobbly bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can like what they like but they're only getting distinctly average from me

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

It's absolutely ludicrous. I find the ladies are much more interested in my 9 inch tongue!

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Nobody is saying anything about being disheartened. The question raised is where do men get this idea from, and that poster has just given you an answer

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

That’s not the issue at hand though! No one is saying women can’t want huge, we are asking why do so many men assume that every woman wants huge.

What in gods name are you on about? Are you reading a different thread?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Not about size. Sometimes about girth. About how you use it. If she is not never had girth and you are thick she will struggle. Same with length.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I'd say I've seen more profiles not mentioning cocks then ones asking for huge cocks, for some Men its their best assert so they will lead with that, In my opinion more are interested in Men who can get into their head or

face

personality

body

height

no particular order as it will depend on Woman to Woman

But I'm sure size/look of cocks will play a part when meeting for some of Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love my willy

Put a ring on it

What again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair 95% of profiles in the north west seem to want VWE or BBC . To be honest though I get it . It’s about fulfilling fantasies . And women can be picky and have the best of the best .

If they have average already I can see the need .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The flip side, is that of those messaging proclaiming XXVWE, many will be average, perhaps all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes porn has alot to do wit the way we think about sex. Plus some good friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

Bit harsh to generalise all men the same due to a snap shot of your messages."

Crikey #notallmen better now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

It's great that some women are not all about size. You give me hope that my penis won't be laughed at by women someday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is cock reduction even a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

Some women like it and some don't. Not everyone are into the same things. Variety is the spice of life and all that

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines tiny and I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

Some women like it and some don't. Not everyone are into the same things. Variety is the spice of life and all that

Nobody is saying people can’t have a preference though! This is about some mens mindset and why they assume all women prefer bigger

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over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

There’s a “Girth vs Length” thread on here I commented on - i commented to say that size is generally unimportant and bigger doesn’t necessarily mean better, it’s about what they do with it. I reckon porn has a lot to answer for with regard to people thinking bigger is better

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over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

F (Mrs)"

To be fair, have you seen stuff where the guy is well endowed? The female star always loves it.

VWE porn actors are always the most in demand for a reason

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

F (Mrs)

To be fair, have you seen stuff where the guy is well endowed? The female star always loves it.

VWE porn actors are always the most in demand for a reason"

You know it’s not real life right ?

All I can assume is a/ they are 15 or b/ their experience of sex is predominantly from watching porn - or both

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"VWE porn actors are always the most in demand for a reason"

I think you're thinking of lesbians.

Very few Step-moms are VWE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

F (Mrs)

To be fair, have you seen stuff where the guy is well endowed? The female star always loves it.

VWE porn actors are always the most in demand for a reason"
because men like to see vwe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"VWE porn actors are always the most in demand for a reason

I think you're thinking of lesbians.

Very few Step-moms are VWE."

Nah, sites like Blacked are far far more popular among women than other porn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"VWE porn actors are always the most in demand for a reason

I think you're thinking of lesbians.

Very few Step-moms are VWE.

Nah, sites like Blacked are far far more popular among women than other porn"

Yawn! This is getting tiresome now!

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By *eallylovesoralMan
over a year ago

West Oxfordshire

Size is nothing to do with it.. If you ask me its the build up before the penetration happens which is key

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

Some women like it and some don't. Not everyone are into the same things. Variety is the spice of life and all that

Nobody is saying people can’t have a preference though! This is about some mens mindset and why they assume all women prefer bigger

I think this is where you are missing part of the overall picture. Lots of women particularly on here do prefer bigger which is what will influence SOME mens mindsets

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The men seem more bothered with size than the women I have found.

I like my cervix intact, average is good, small are cute, large are scary.

The Mr is around 8" and that's my max, that hits the cervix at times.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

To be fair, have you seen stuff where the guy is well endowed? The female star always loves it.

VWE porn actors are always the most in demand for a reason"

Female star "appears" to love it, that's their job, no one would watch it if they showed the amount of lube needed, the crazy injections they have to keep them going or the discomfort.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"The men seem more bothered with size than the women I have found.

I like my cervix intact, average is good, small are cute, large are scary.

The Mr is around 8" and that's my max, that hits the cervix at times.

Mrs "

This is your preference which is cool. I know and have known many women who do not have a sensitive cervix and can take any size hard as they can give it and love it. We are all different. It’s what makes life great isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

Some women like it and some don't. Not everyone are into the same things. Variety is the spice of life and all that

Nobody is saying people can’t have a preference though! This is about some mens mindset and why they assume all women prefer bigger

I think this is where you are missing part of the overall picture. Lots of women particularly on here do prefer bigger which is what will influence SOME mens mindsets "

I get your point! Just wish people would answer the question asked instead of going off into a preference debate! The profiles that ask for hung are a minority, a sizeable minority but still a minority!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

Some women like it and some don't. Not everyone are into the same things. Variety is the spice of life and all that

Nobody is saying people can’t have a preference though! This is about some mens mindset and why they assume all women prefer bigger

I think this is where you are missing part of the overall picture. Lots of women particularly on here do prefer bigger which is what will influence SOME mens mindsets

Have you got the exact percentages on that ratio

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over a year ago

First and foremost we are social creatures and we live in a society where we are taught to compare ourselves and have to be better than the next person, instead of trying to be a better self. I mean look at sport events, it is not about surpassing yourself but be better that the next competitor. Then the dominant discourse strikes and tells us what ideal we should aim for, be it in porn or in magazines.

Fab is no different, and like it has been said you see more women’s or couple’s profile asking for bigger cocked men that smaller ones. And as you’ve underlined it op, if it is not mentioned men should not assume anything. But verifications paint a picture as well. So even if it is not mentioned per se, if the said woman has met only a category of men, the comparison process strikes again and men unconsciously (wrongly) assimilate that this particular demand is the norm. There is also body dysmorphic disorder that kicks in, link to the aforementioned ideal body size defined by society through media. So if you even have pictures of you enjoying smaller cocks, if a man perceives his as smaller, it adds up further to his idea that bigger is better.

Then there is penis envy. Freud was right about it but wrong about the gender who has it. Having said that dominant narratives highly influence men’s subjectivity on the subject. For instance, in the past small cocked guys was considered as an ideal.

The assumption that all women want bigger cocks stems from society and the way we portray the sexual worth of men through their genitalia.

Most men think that the cock does the man and not the inverse unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First and foremost we are social creatures and we live in a society where we are taught to compare ourselves and have to be better than the next person, instead of trying to be a better self. I mean look at sport events, it is not about surpassing yourself but be better that the next competitor. Then the dominant discourse strikes and tells us what ideal we should aim for, be it in porn or in magazines.

The assumption that all women want bigger cocks stems from society and the way we portray the sexual worth of men through their genitalia.

Most men think that the cock does the man and not the inverse unfortunately. "

THANK YOU!!! A detailed answer that actually answers my original question!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

(Thread closed got too intelligent)

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By *rtist with museCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

We think it's def porn - the other thing is the demand for blowjobs as if that is the be all and end all and a girl should be satisfied by just sucking a circle of cocks - muse is a very greedy girl but she needs the cocks of all shapes and sizes fucking her - not standing in a circle just expecting her to suck em off (that's my job)

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By *untobehad2020Man
over a year ago

Sandy

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

I think you’re probably missing the point from those men, they aren’t generally saying it because they think it’s what you want, they are saying it because men generally are ego driven creatures and that’s the thing they are most proud of, especially with this being a site predominantly set up for having sex.

Some men with big cocks just want everyone to know!! They don’t actually care if you want to know!

But my guess is it’s like wealth, those who are really wealthy don’t feel the need to shout about it whereas those who are above average but nothing to shout about feel a desperate desire to shout about it!!

Sadly I don’t shout about it because I’m the very definition of average both in wealth and cock size!

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

After following and reading through this thread and seeing that most on here imply that men are obsessed with having bigger cocks, is it any wonder as a favourite insult to men by both men and women is having a smaller cock.

I don’t think porn has much to do with men advertising a bigger cock but more to do with the dick measuring society we live in specially amongst men who puff on a big chest and all that posturing for silly kudos. It’s the same in sex, men think a bigger cock gets them up the pecking order, above intelligence and personality. It takes a very confident man to message a lady and say I’m average size if not a tad small.

Be honest ladies, if I guy messaged you and you got as far as discussing size and he said small, would you really entertain him?

Really?

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By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn

"Ummm.... I don't. Wise saying is you can only piss with the dick you've got. It's honestly not something I focus on and you know what everything works out fine.

I state on my profile that I don’t like hung guys so I find it odd when someone uses being vwe or hung as a selling point, it’s like some men assume that it’s what every woman wants!

Your first mistake was assuming men read.

Secondly, yeah most guys think that. It's a "sex" site we're obviously all gagging for it and the only thing we're interested in is the cock size.

I generally think if a guy refers to himself as hung vwe or whatever, then that's pretty much all he has to offer. "

So very right ??

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption.

Exactly this, I enjoy sucking but I'm not there to just please the cock men. It does not get me off

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Exactly this, I enjoy sucking but I'm not there to just please the cock men. It does not get me off"

This also, it should be a house rule that cocks get sucked either after or at the same time as the foo foo get a tongue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After following and reading through this thread and seeing that most on here imply that men are obsessed with having bigger cocks, is it any wonder as a favourite insult to men by both men and women is having a smaller cock.

Be honest ladies, if I guy messaged you and you got as far as discussing size and he said small, would you really entertain him?

Really?"

Yep IDGAF if a guy is small! Penetration is a tiny part of sex for me and I categorically will not meet hung guys!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "
I don't assume this or think this, my personality gets what I want or need nothing else well maybe my looks and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest ladies, if I guy messaged you and you got as far as discussing size and he said small, would you really entertain him?

Really?"

If he said he has a small cock I wouldn't be interested. Likely he has some size issues. Same if he said he has a big cock. Total turn off.

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

"do men assume that for every woman it’s the bigger the better when it comes to cock size.

A big chunk of my messages consist of the word hung or VWE.

There seems to be an assumption that ALL women want this and in reality I’d say the minority are looking for hung men, many of us love average.

Has porn taught you this? Or is there another reason you make this assumption. "

It doesn't help when plenty of couples and female profiles specify a minimum dick size, "VWE only" or "BBC" only. It kinda reinforces the bigger is better mantra.

Of course, not being one of those VWE guys I say it's not the size of the waves but the motion of the ocean!

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