FabSwingers.com forum: messages & winks

By *erksGuy3 OP Man
over a year ago

Aquitaine France

Why is it that some people don't accept winks and will block you if you send them. But when you take the time to send them a decent message they either delete it without a thanks or no thanks or just dont reply back.

Is this winking thing a major problem. I personally like to send people a wink to let them know I'm interested and if they wink back then I will take the time to message them.

What do you think guys

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wink unless I am winked at first. If I like what I read/ see then I will send a wink back. It's then up to them if they send a message.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that some people don't accept winks and will block you if you send them. But when you take the time to send them a decent message they either delete it without a thanks or no thanks or just dont reply back.

Is this winking thing a major problem. I personally like to send people a wink to let them know I'm interested and if they wink back then I will take the time to message them.

What do you think guys

If someone winks/messages you and there is no attraction then it can be fatal to reply. You say no thanks and you get a "why not" then a "I can change to suit"

"are you really sure" string of messages. Sometimes ignoring or blocking can save time and hassle all round.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this winking thing a major problem. I personally like to send people a wink to let them know I'm interested and if they wink back then I will take the time to message them.

What do you think guys

If someone winks/messages you and there is no attraction then it can be fatal to reply. You say no thanks and you get a "why not" then a "I can change to suit"

"are you really sure" string of messages. Sometimes ignoring or blocking can save time and hassle all round. "

Completely agree with that we've had our fair share of why not? Are you sure and what's wrong with you? Lol but we like the winks we tend to use them more as a compliment than a actual first contact