FabSwingers.com forum: LACK OF COUGARS

By *022YoungFun OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this?

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By *aseyjones7Man
over a year ago

leicestershire

I know they are a out there . You've just got to tease them out.

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "

Mine is happy to help out

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "

Perhaps try a website that is dedicated to finding women that consider themselves as 'cougars'?

As opposed to a swingers site

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

'cougars' or 'older women' are the most fun people on here

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this?

Perhaps try a website that is dedicated to finding women that consider themselves as 'cougars'?

As opposed to a swingers site

KM"

And can you suggest such a website .. cougars are defo the best

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By *022YoungFun OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I’m not aware of any websites?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..

1. Cougars are individual people with feelings.

2. It's not exactly good form to he on one website, and ask about other websites. Perhaps you could do your own Internet search?

Good luck

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

There are tons, but if you're actually messaging them calling them a cougar or an old/older woman you'll probably just get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One dilemma I face is that I don’t accommodate and young men tend not to either anymore. That puts me off getting started most of the time as I want a regular play thing.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i love younger guys but i wont answer to anyone who trys to call me a ''cougar'' or ''older woman'' or ''milf'' .. fuck me because you want to fuck me not because of a age kink

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"i love younger guys but i wont answer to anyone who trys to call me a ''cougar'' or ''older woman'' or ''milf'' .. fuck me because you want to fuck me not because of a age kink"

and to add i fuck guys because they are hot i dont look for their age just hgappens to be that some are younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t like being called a cougar rather off putting

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By *exyfungirl78Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

"Don’t like being called a cougar rather off putting

Agree it’s definitely off putting I ignore people who call me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "

My opinion on this is that maybe you should try joining a site aimed at cougars and younger lads, they are out there…probably not as easy to find on here

F (Mrs)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think this is a reflection of the permanent problem, of single men being in huge abundance, whatever type of woman they are looking to find.

Add to that, that many swingers are deterred from men who may be the same age as their kids.

Follow all the advice for single men struggling, asked by hundreds of single men.

Those of us that like younger guys are here but we'll often look out for those who really stand out, from great investment in their profiles and pics.

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By *andJDubaiCouple
over a year ago

Dubai, with visits to Glasgow, Edinburgh and London

We enjoy playing with swinging meets with an age gap, older or younger.

Male, female or couples and couples with their own age gap.

The search function is very helpful for you to set that age and reach out to people. Just not sure anyone especially on a UK based site would use the label cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is your 4th thread on the same subject OP.

Have you not learned anything from the other three?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "

'nowadays'? We have been here for a long time and haven't noticed any major change. Can you explain what time you are comparing your recent experience to?

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this?

Perhaps try a website that is dedicated to finding women that consider themselves as 'cougars'?

As opposed to a swingers site

KM"

Such as ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love younger guys but i wont answer to anyone who trys to call me a ''cougar'' or ''older woman'' or ''milf'' .. fuck me because you want to fuck me not because of a age kink

and to add i fuck guys because they are hot i dont look for their age just hgappens to be that some are younger"

Agreed

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "

Or maybe they want to see a person who has taken time in their profile and isn't invisible

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

At what age does one qualify to be a cougar??

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

They're hiding up in trees waiting to drop on the unsuspecting youngun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching too much porn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get told I'm too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this?

'nowadays'? We have been here for a long time and haven't noticed any major change. Can you explain what time you are comparing your recent experience to?"

He’s 20 lol guessing he doesn’t have anything to compare it to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always get told I'm too young

At 32?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cougar right here

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

What is the definition of a cougar? Could I be one? I’m not 40 yet but to someone I am an older lady

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "

I don’t think that is your issue

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "

Put on your big boy pants, go to a club, be clean, smart, polite, respectful and engage in intelligent conversation and you might get lucky. But please don't tell a woman you want to fuck her because she's old, and don't call her a cougar: it's a derogatory term coined in Canada to describe d*unken old slappers who grope young men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are definitely here for the right men.

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Cougars often find their pick of cubs and make themselves exclusive to them for longer periods of time than just fucking strangers or one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're more than happy to meet younger guys. Like most guys on Fab, there's a tiny percentage that are good looking, don't have dick pics as their profile pic or tonnes of them all over their profile, can construct a decent message and actually read our profile to see what we're looking for before messaging us.

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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

What age is a cougar

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

My wife loves being a cougar

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

I need a local cougar in my life

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

If they want you, they will find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe somebody could host a club night

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

"If they want you, they will find you

Haha I know, I know. I'm waiting patiently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What age is a cougar "

Over 35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe somebody could host a club night "

There are cubs n cougar nights in clubs….never been to one though although I do go to clubs regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe somebody could host a club night

There are cubs n cougar nights in clubs….never been to one though although I do go to clubs regularly

There was BC, but I'll have another look

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Cougars are native to America so would be a rare sighting in Britty lol

More luck finding badgers mate

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"What is the definition of a cougar? Could I be one? I’m not 40 yet but to someone I am an older lady

Do you ever get Deja vu here... (deep breath...)

So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.

The scale is as follows:

Age 0-12: Housecat

Age 13-17: Bobcat

Age 18-21: Wildcat

Age 22-29: Lynx

Age 30-39: Puma

Age 40-49: Cougar

Age 50-59: Jaguar

Age 60-68: Panther

Age 69: Pussycat

Age 70-79: Cheetah

Age 80-89: Leopard

Age 90-99: Tiger

Age 100+: Lioness

Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the definition of a cougar? Could I be one? I’m not 40 yet but to someone I am an older lady

Do you ever get Deja vu here... (deep breath...)

So, based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women (who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite) as felines.

The scale is as follows:

Age 0-12: Housecat

Age 13-17: Bobcat

Age 18-21: Wildcat

Age 22-29: Lynx

Age 30-39: Puma

Age 40-49: Cougar

Age 50-59: Jaguar

Age 60-68: Panther

Age 69: Pussycat

Age 70-79: Cheetah

Age 80-89: Leopard

Age 90-99: Tiger

Age 100+: Lioness

Think we can rule out house cat and Bob cat

Ooh I'm a panther

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"'cougars' or 'older women' are the most fun people on here "

That's because we know how to party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are tons, but if you're actually messaging them calling them a cougar or an old/older woman you'll probably just get ignored."

Why does Fromage have me blocked? Lol weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are tons, but if you're actually messaging them calling them a cougar or an old/older woman you'll probably just get ignored.

Why does Fromage have me blocked? Lol weird "

She has me blocked to haha

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

"'cougars' or 'older women' are the most fun people on here

That's because we know how to party!

Exactly that!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Surely you just head for a Cougars & Cubs night at a club.

ISTM that it's easier than it's ever been.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

I just like other ladies on here do not like to be refered to as your kink. We are human beings with feelings and not just a mechanical aid to get your rocks off. I have always prefered older guys but i am not ageist in the slightest so would not rule out playing with a younger guy in a mf meet sinario. But 1-1 id not really search for another guy unless my sir and partner rolled in to one john asked me to do so. Stop treating ladies age as your kink and you might just find what you are after! Joanne

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"We are definitely here for the right men. "

But UNLOS within 6 days

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Attend the envents aimed at younger men for older ladies, many venues host these.

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By *nigmaticcryptMan
over a year ago

London

How come so many people are offended by the term "cougar" when all it is, is a lady who's into younger men.

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

You have to lure them in and act as bait.

Then run!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"How come so many people are offended by the term "cougar" when all it is, is a lady who's into younger men."

That might be all you see it as, but the term has a different origin.

It was originally used as a put-down for older women who would go to bars and go home with whoever was left at the end of the night. You might find it hard to believe but some women take offence at being labelled as a d*unken old slapper.

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

There will be some but nope, I wouldn’t do it

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Personally I don’t see it as a derogatory term

But I don’t get offended so easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don’t see it as a derogatory term

But I don’t get offended so easily

Nice rack

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By *ittycock400Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Problem is so many younger guys are the ones who send very short and basic messages and we don't find that engaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try be polite (to whoever I speak with) and I wouldn't use the term cougar unless the lady has refered to herself as that as I know some do find it offensive!

And I agree alot of younger guys don't help with some messages they send to ladies on here and other sites, like "want to fuck" I mean I know it's a swingers site but come on, have some imagination! Have some fun with it! Ask questions!

Nobody likes recieving a message that just says "hi, how are you"

Just my opinion

Hope everyone is having a good weekend!!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I prefer to be called a Cougar than a MILF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or nowadays it’s hard to find cougars into younger lads? What’s people’s opinion on this? "
I like good looking and fit younger lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to be one of the few unfortunately lol

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