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Saying 'I love you'

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By *orny bi sub 82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

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By *orny bi sub 82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Oops deleted original lol...

Basically being in a relationship and told 'i love you' a week in, is that far too soon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if she means it. Might be the right time for them just not for you

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By *orny bi sub 82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Depends if she means it. Might be the right time for them just not for you"

It was a younger gay guy... One week into a relationship to me is too soon?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes it is too soon. You can like someone a LOT after a week but love doesn't happen that quickly. It's possible that it'll develop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you know it's love more or less straight away. when you meet that someone special

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"Oops deleted original lol...

Basically being in a relationship and told 'i love you' a week in, is that far too soon? "

God I’d run for the hills. You can’t possibly know someone that quick and therefore you can’t possibly love them.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Yeah, these types of people are either clueless, desperate or just saying what they think you want to hear to get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research the term “love bombing” then run for the hills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it is too soon. You can like someone a LOT after a week but love doesn't happen that quickly. It's possible that it'll develop"

Totally disagree . 100% .

Massive special chemistry can ignite in seconds and explode to a divine level in minutes and a few words .

Of course will develop to even more …

Have u never felt in love with some one and u not even had the first date yet ?

I did . More then once ^^ .

Does it sound crazy ? Good .

Cause is mad . I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, you know it's love more or less straight away. when you meet that someone special "

Yes . U know . U just not sure cause u fear , cause it just kicked it . But is there already

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

some just dont get the meaning of love some people say it without having a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like infatuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, these types of people are either clueless, desperate or just saying what they think you want to hear to get what they want."

You mean , “ could be “ .. a charmer . Of course .

A good charmer could put a spell on you for over 20 years n u will never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Research the term “love bombing” then run for the hills"

Jesus on Moon Walk … that’s a dement psicho

That’s not love . That’s obsessive disorder x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have feelings for someone pretty quick in a new relationship but not 7 days in..red flag for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes love I would say so but it depends on your history?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops deleted original lol...

Basically being in a relationship and told 'i love you' a week in, is that far too soon? "

I don’t know if there’s a right or wrong answer to this. By the first night I actually met J (Mr), we’d been chatting for quite a while and I just had a feeling there was something different about him. The minute we laid eyes on each other, there was 100% some kind of special feeling for me that I hadn’t experienced before - and we just clicked on all the levels. I’m not sure it was love at first sight, or that, but it was something that’s for sure. It was months before I actually told him I loved him. Bear in mind, it’s ok if you don’t feel the same way and you don’t need to feel obliged to tell them you love them too if that’s not how you feel.

F (Mrs)

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Red flag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you really know someone enough to say it after 7 days, have you known each other longer?

Lust & infatuation, gives the same excited feeling as love I suppose but I'd be a bit creeped out if someone said it that early.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes that would be far too soon for me too op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the relationship and everyone's different, but 1 week does sound very soon

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By *orny bi sub 82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Seems general consensus is it's too soon. I also felt this, and yes I've also read up on lovebombing too, which I'm sure this was too. Red flag etc didn't sit too comfortable with me. Anyway, relationship ended now and he cut all ties in an instant so the love obviously wasn't there in the end as nobody with feelings would do that

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I just called to say " I love you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is lust not love at this stage

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Depends if she means it. Might be the right time for them just not for you

It was a younger gay guy... One week into a relationship to me is too soon? "

Don't say it back then. Just say thank you and you appreciate it but you're not at the same point.

It does seem pretty quick to me but then I'm a lonely unlovable spinster :’(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems general consensus is it's too soon. I also felt this, and yes I've also read up on lovebombing too, which I'm sure this was too. Red flag etc didn't sit too comfortable with me. Anyway, relationship ended now and he cut all ties in an instant so the love obviously wasn't there in the end as nobody with feelings would do that "

Wow! Consider yourself a lucky person! Classic narcissist behaviour

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Op definitely to soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it is too soon. You can like someone a LOT after a week but love doesn't happen that quickly. It's possible that it'll develop

Totally disagree . 100% .

Massive special chemistry can ignite in seconds and explode to a divine level in minutes and a few words .

Of course will develop to even more …

Have u never felt in love with some one and u not even had the first date yet ?

I did . More then once ^^ .

Does it sound crazy ? Good .

Cause is mad . I love it

"

That’s not love! That’s lust or infatuation.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Depends, if it's part of role play its acceptable. Same as the whole "I want your babies" when we both know I've had the snip. The words can be a massive turn on if it's part of something you are expecting, but if they drop it on you and you think they mean it, then you need to have a real conversation.

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By *orny bi sub 82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Seems general consensus is it's too soon. I also felt this, and yes I've also read up on lovebombing too, which I'm sure this was too. Red flag etc didn't sit too comfortable with me. Anyway, relationship ended now and he cut all ties in an instant so the love obviously wasn't there in the end as nobody with feelings would do that

Wow! Consider yourself a lucky person! Classic narcissist behaviour "

Well I was definitely love bombed no doubt about it, cheers for the narcissist comment that makes total sense, as he literally cut all ties with me in the end because he couldn't get his own way and got jealous... crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats wrong with I lust you lol

Should be used more!

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"Seems general consensus is it's too soon. I also felt this, and yes I've also read up on lovebombing too, which I'm sure this was too. Red flag etc didn't sit too comfortable with me. Anyway, relationship ended now and he cut all ties in an instant so the love obviously wasn't there in the end as nobody with feelings would do that

Wow! Consider yourself a lucky person! Classic narcissist behaviour "

I'd agree with you there

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