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By *iner69er OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You have to appreciate that fab is a very small part of swinging for most. More of a social tool for clubs, socials.

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By *im67Man
over a year ago

London


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?"

That's a bit of a defeatist mate if you think like that your never get anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You GUYS can speak for yourselves.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm not here to seek out meets as I think it'd ruin the experience for me, I'd just be disappointed the whole time. I do occasionally try and send messages to the ones that stand out to me, but I don't expect to get anywhere with them.

The only time I can see myself walking away from places like Fab is if I'm in a happy relationship, which of course is never going to happen. So, with this in mind it's likely I'll be lurking in the forums and fabbing dick pics for a long time... I guess it could be worse

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By *iner69er OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

That's a bit of a defeatist mate if you think like that your never get anywhere "
yeh,I know,but after years of nothing ,you have to accept that your chances are pretty slim and will continue to dwindle. I'm staying on here and not giving up though,as there's always that million to one chance.

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Find fab like the lottery several million to 1 chance of winning,but feel if not in it could miss out on that one chance

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?"

Surely the plan is to keep plugging away? If you are plugging you've made it

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By *im67Man
over a year ago

London


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

That's a bit of a defeatist mate if you think like that your never get anywhere yeh,I know,but after years of nothing ,you have to accept that your chances are pretty slim and will continue to dwindle. I'm staying on here and not giving up though,as there's always that million to one chance."

Just looked what the odds are on winning the lottery and it's 4 million to one so you never know that's a lot worse than your million to one chance so look on the bright side

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

has it occurred to you..most people on this platform are n t swingers , or all that fab ...

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By *thletic_cuckMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?"

I've been on and off. Depending on my relationship status. Sometimes I don't come on for months then get back on.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Been on fab for 4 years or so - last meet was over 2 years ago but still here.

The tenuous social link it provides is a balm for my lonely single life.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

OP, there's no set formula and I won't give you profile advice as you've not asked for it, but with no pics and a very short bio, you're making it even harder for yourself!

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I second everyone else.

I'm not in fab too get anywhere, unless the where is a club or find out about an event or social

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

I rarely message anyone random, I don't really even see it as a hookup site, just like perusing the forums, the profiles and the pic updates etc. There's a big world away from fab to meet people if you have the inclination.

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I’ve been on here for over 10 years had some amazing memories however peoples preferences have taken president so it has become rather difficult to get acquainted with folks

Hope things will change over time

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?"

I wonder why you get no where

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The longer you men are here, the greater your levels of expertise become. . So your chances can be improved upon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The longer you men are here, the greater your levels of expertise become. . So your chances can be improved upon. "

You are a man?

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Like anything in life, you only get out what you put in and if it's something you really want then you should put as much effort in as it takes to reach the goal. Nothing comes to you on a plate so you just have to stick it out, beats endless hours and countless money trailing round bars in hope of finding like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?"

From a couples perspective, when we are looking on Fab for people we’d potentially like to get to know, things that are important for us are (in no particular order) - public pictures, a profile picture, some decent info in the bio to give you a sense of who’s behind the profile. If someone hasn’t made an effort with their profile, we just scroll past. So for people who feel they aren’t getting anywhere, but would like to, these are things to perhaps consider. Good luck!

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

From a couples perspective, when we are looking on Fab for people we’d potentially like to get to know, things that are important for us are (in no particular order) - public pictures, a profile picture, some decent info in the bio to give you a sense of who’s behind the profile. If someone hasn’t made an effort with their profile, we just scroll past. So for people who feel they aren’t getting anywhere, but would like to, these are things to perhaps consider. Good luck!

F (Mrs)"

But would a massive cock help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After two years, which produced 4 coffee meets, many of my messages went unread. Of those that were read, many got few replies! I'm nearly there in quitting. It's more a habit being on here rather than any kind of expectation now of actually finding a suitable playmate. What is rather frustrating is my into message is typically polite, friendly and concise.I think my profile is reasonable in its presentation. Reading ladies profiles and the forums, it appears many ladies get bombarded by cock pics and aggressive behaviour yet many blokes like myself are ignored. I've been on and off the site over the the last two years. When I go I'll be gone for good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

From a couples perspective, when we are looking on Fab for people we’d potentially like to get to know, things that are important for us are (in no particular order) - public pictures, a profile picture, some decent info in the bio to give you a sense of who’s behind the profile. If someone hasn’t made an effort with their profile, we just scroll past. So for people who feel they aren’t getting anywhere, but would like to, these are things to perhaps consider. Good luck!

F (Mrs)

But would a massive cock help?"

Depends how good you are with it….

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

From a couples perspective, when we are looking on Fab for people we’d potentially like to get to know, things that are important for us are (in no particular order) - public pictures, a profile picture, some decent info in the bio to give you a sense of who’s behind the profile. If someone hasn’t made an effort with their profile, we just scroll past. So for people who feel they aren’t getting anywhere, but would like to, these are things to perhaps consider. Good luck!

F (Mrs)

But would a massive cock help?

Depends how good you are with it….

F (Mrs)"

I don’t suppose you need to be that good?

As long as there is adequate stimulation and blood supply would you just not lie back and think of Bradley Walsh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

From a couples perspective, when we are looking on Fab for people we’d potentially like to get to know, things that are important for us are (in no particular order) - public pictures, a profile picture, some decent info in the bio to give you a sense of who’s behind the profile. If someone hasn’t made an effort with their profile, we just scroll past. So for people who feel they aren’t getting anywhere, but would like to, these are things to perhaps consider. Good luck!

F (Mrs)"

Adding to this , desperation, coming across as way to desperate for a meet will be off putting to a lot of couples , the majority of couples and single women on here have there inboxs flooded with hundreds of single men , you have to set yourself apart and make yourself stand out , be unique . Good luck op

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Have been on here for over 7 years and had busy spells and quiet spells. I don’t see myself retiring from the scene despite my age, but am realistic enough to realise the older I get, the frequency of meets will decrease. If any couples out there want to help disprove my theory, feel free to PM me.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I will retire from Fab only once I have completed all 100 levels and unlocked the special Easter Egg.

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By *orny bi sub 82Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

It's harmless fun in here, I recently had a breakup and when I've asked for advice I received a couple of messages of well wishing people so that's a nice gesture x Also sexuality is fluid I'm in a gay phase right now but also love fabbing all the horny top pics. People also have different needs on here so it's all good. Just need me some cock now lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"You have to appreciate that fab is a very small part of swinging for most. More of a social tool for clubs, socials."

Not for everyone; Fab has worked fantastically for me over the years, whereas the club scene left me overcome by indifference…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs been good for me but I do find I'm more of a social butterfly and enjoy chatting to people in public than trying to online

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By *001handMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Around 5 years. I find you get out of it what you put into it. And understanding that many aren't what they say they are. But also spotting a time waster a mile off.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I may still be here a while yet. I love it. Made some amazing friends on here. I don't want to lose that for sure

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

From a couples perspective, when we are looking on Fab for people we’d potentially like to get to know, things that are important for us are (in no particular order) - public pictures, a profile picture, some decent info in the bio to give you a sense of who’s behind the profile. If someone hasn’t made an effort with their profile, we just scroll past. So for people who feel they aren’t getting anywhere, but would like to, these are things to perhaps consider. Good luck!

F (Mrs)

Adding to this , desperation, coming across as way to desperate for a meet will be off putting to a lot of couples , the majority of couples and single women on here have there inboxs flooded with hundreds of single men , you have to set yourself apart and make yourself stand out , be unique . Good luck op "
how is it desperation he's not desperate he hasn't had a meet since he's been here, just because he doesn't have the wherewithal to change his profile pics and write up in order to change his present situation doesn't make him desperate Dan

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I come and go from fab over the years. Prob had around 10 different profiles in the last decade here

I tend to get bored of the site after a few months and leave. Then few months later float back or not. I don’t take fab remotely seriously though as it’s really just entertainment, it gets distracting though at times like habit so I find it easier to delete it and come back later if inclined.

Find I rotate around few different sites one on one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quitting today. So bored by it all at this stage.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Until I get bored with perving boobs and pussy..and bums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact I'm quitting right now. This site is a waste if time if you are a single man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

From a couples perspective, when we are looking on Fab for people we’d potentially like to get to know, things that are important for us are (in no particular order) - public pictures, a profile picture, some decent info in the bio to give you a sense of who’s behind the profile. If someone hasn’t made an effort with their profile, we just scroll past. So for people who feel they aren’t getting anywhere, but would like to, these are things to perhaps consider. Good luck!

F (Mrs)

But would a massive cock help?

Depends how good you are with it….

F (Mrs)

I don’t suppose you need to be that good?

As long as there is adequate stimulation and blood supply would you just not lie back and think of Bradley Walsh?"

Hmm, not Bradley Walsh - maybe Jason Momoa, though

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

From a couples perspective, when we are looking on Fab for people we’d potentially like to get to know, things that are important for us are (in no particular order) - public pictures, a profile picture, some decent info in the bio to give you a sense of who’s behind the profile. If someone hasn’t made an effort with their profile, we just scroll past. So for people who feel they aren’t getting anywhere, but would like to, these are things to perhaps consider. Good luck!

F (Mrs)

Adding to this , desperation, coming across as way to desperate for a meet will be off putting to a lot of couples , the majority of couples and single women on here have there inboxs flooded with hundreds of single men , you have to set yourself apart and make yourself stand out , be unique . Good luck op how is it desperation he's not desperate he hasn't had a meet since he's been here, just because he doesn't have the wherewithal to change his profile pics and write up in order to change his present situation doesn't make him desperate Dan "

Don’t think they mean OP here - I think they mean in general. When you’re getting to know someone, and they are pushing for a meet right away, it can be off-putting

F (Mrs)

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Until the fun stops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

That's a bit of a defeatist mate if you think like that your never get anywhere yeh,I know,but after years of nothing ,you have to accept that your chances are pretty slim and will continue to dwindle. I'm staying on here and not giving up though,as there's always that million to one chance."

“If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got”…stick a profile pic up, stick some public pics up, start interacting on the forums. I know it’s not easy when your confidence is low, but try wee things to see if it makes a difference

F (Mrs)

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I have been on here over 10 years which has over all been good but I am considering leaving. I am not getting the response I use to and it all seems very quiet. So has Fab left me or should I leave it?

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By *as1098Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I've been on here years. I tend to come and go and have deleted my profile, come back etc...

But I've now managed my expectations and am only here for the social aspect nor that I'm ruling out meeting anyone. I just enjoy the site because of the videos, forums etc. Mainstream porn bores me because there seems to be less and less genuine amateur content, hence why I come here.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I come and go.

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By *iner69er OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"To all the other guys getting nowhere on fab, how long can you see yourself staying on fab? Will you quit after months/years with no success, or the way I see it,keep plugging away,even though it's 99% likely you won't get anywhere?

I wonder why you get no where "
Don't know. I have had a meet but that was 7 years ago and was after 7 years of trying. I've had loads of supposed possibilities,but every single one has let me down. I turned up for one and she just wanted a lift to a friend's house. Another had a social and agreed to meet,then changed her mind. Others have said yes,then no longer answered messages. Even the one I met 7 years ago, agreed to meet again, then that night,ignored my messages on here and Kik as I was driving to meet her.A few have suddenly quit the site,and so it goes on.Not one meet out of dozens who have been on for it.If it wasn't for that one meet,that showed me it is possible,I would have left years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I'll ever come off fab now but I use it more as a tool to make contact with people I have met at a club, even if my relationship with my wife was to break down I don't think I'd ever want to go back to being monogamous, swinging is a big part of me now and the majority of my friends are swingers, but ha who knows what the future may bring

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