FabSwingers.com forum: Coming out as trans

By *ritishgirl1 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

Hi, im post-op trans and it's really difficult as guys don't know i'm trans and think im female, should I tell guys i'm trans before sleeping with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, im post-op trans and it's really difficult as guys don't know i'm trans and think im female, should I tell guys i'm trans before sleeping with them?

Personally I'd be pleased indeed

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By *ritishgirl1 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By *aleunicorn500Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Hi, im post-op trans and it's really difficult as guys don't know i'm trans and think im female, should I tell guys i'm trans before sleeping with them?

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does it matter? You're gorgeous

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By *ritishgirl1 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

hehe thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the transparency is a very attractive trait.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

I'm sure they know. You're probably overthinking it.

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By *inknipzloverMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I’d love to try n guess xx

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By *ritishgirl1 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

They always ask if im on the pill

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i think you look fantastic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it matters unless you are seeing someone and it’s leading to more, if i was meeting someone for sex I wouldn’t expect them to tell me every aspect of there personal life, So if you feel like you don’t want to then you don’t have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would. Some guys would be turned off by it and then annoyed if you hid it from them. Other guys will appreciate the honesty and not bothered in the slightest.

But there is a huge spectrum of responses and reactions to this issue from guys so being proactive about it will benefit you long term in attracting the right guys for you

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

"They always ask if im on the pill

Just say yeh I'm on the pill. They'll never know.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

Just be the gorgeous woman I can truly see you are xxx

Mmm … stunning lady xxx

Love R xx

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By *uiteCurlyMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I was seeing someone a while back and she was pre-op trans and to me she was an amazingly beautiful woman.

Trans women are women.

You are a beautiful attractive woman.

I know that I didn’t answer your question quite but I felt that I had to say something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your stunning so it shouldn’t really matter

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

For filings one night stands it's non of their business.

You are now female right so what's it to do with them?

However if it was a long term relationship either planned or by accident.

I think that being upfront could save difficulties later on particularly if the other person wants kid's.

However your body your choice xx

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"For filings one night stands it's non of their business.

You are now female right so what's it to do with them?

However if it was a long term relationship either planned or by accident.

I think that being upfront could save difficulties later on particularly if the other person wants kid's.

However your body your choice xx"

Flings

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Dudley

Looking at your photos and videos it seems very difficult to tell that your post opp personally I would say before hand that you were post op or say nothing because I can picture it being one hell of a shock to some and there’s potential to be attacked by someone who might feel they have been tricked..... my personal opinion of you is that you look amazing and I have nothing but admiration for you, you are “All Woman”

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

If you are only meeting for sex, I wouldn't worry... If you are dating, it's a first date subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're asking the question it's obviously something that's on your mind and lying maybe doesn't sit well with you.

Tell them, beforehand, then less likelihood of finding yourself on the end of any abuse or nasty reactions.

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset

"Hi, im post-op trans and it's really difficult as guys don't know i'm trans and think im female, should I tell guys i'm trans before sleeping with them?

Yes you should tell them before you’ve even met them, nothing good will come from not being honest in this situation.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I will have my surgery in the end of nex month and i will always, be open and transparent with who i will have sex with ,in the same way i always have been, letting people know at first that i'm a transgender woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your beautiful xHx (Mrs)

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By *unfriendly 123Man
over a year ago

boston

U look amazing

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I don't think you owe them anything for a one off or even a series of meets. What bearing does what you were born have on anything.

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By *telksyMan
over a year ago

London

"Hi, im post-op trans and it's really difficult as guys don't know i'm trans and think im female, should I tell guys i'm trans before sleeping with them?

You're a beautiful women

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"If you are only meeting for sex, I wouldn't worry... If you are dating, it's a first date subject"

I would broadly agree with this.

Good luck with your journey.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I mean, you're a woman. You've ALWAYS been a woman, you just haven't had a "typical" woman's body all your life. I don't see any reason to discuss it with people you don't have some sort of relationship with if you don't want to.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Hi, im post-op trans and it's really difficult as guys don't know i'm trans and think im female, should I tell guys i'm trans before sleeping with them?

Yes you should

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