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As a couple have you ever invited the 3rd party back again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Yup…

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire

Yeah we have a repeat next weekend.

The meet was so hot first time round, we all agreed it would have to be a regular thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been described as part of the furniture at a certain house, so it does happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah we have a repeat next weekend.

The meet was so hot first time round, we all agreed it would have to be a regular thing! "

First time?

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By *nked_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We always like to invite them back as the sex will only get better and better as you learn more about eachother. Plus it's not just about the sex with us, if we sleep with someone it generally means we have already built a connection with that person in other more ways than just sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup… "

With a male or female as the 3rd?

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By *reepass4meCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes, based on a great first meet. Shame circumstances changed, otherwise we'd probably still be meeting.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

We have a regular guy who’s not on this site we invite over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t and probably never will.

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire


"We always like to invite them back as the sex will only get better and better as you learn more about eachother. Plus it's not just about the sex with us, if we sleep with someone it generally means we have already built a connection with that person in other more ways than just sex."

Absolutely THIS for us

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By *heAddamsCouple
over a year ago

corbridge

Of course we invite them back! As has already been said, it only gets better once you know which buttons to press to turn the other person on.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Of course she keeps a little stable as one of our special couple friends says.

Make the moments more comfortable if yiu kniw what we mean.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I recently joined a couple as a +1 and we are already planning round 2, I think I did OK. I'm not the prettiest person in the world but I like to think I tickled them both in a place they won't forget in a hurry (figuratively, not literally you pervs)

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By *oney and ReggieCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Yes we have

We’re looking for a regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Repeat meets are sexier and things get hotter as you meet more.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been invited back so it does happen.

Met the same couple several times!

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"

Never. We do this purely for sex and we fully understand that feelings can naturally develop. We've been clear from the start that we never want to feel like we "want to fuck *that* person". Ie, it's totally fine for her to say "I really want to fuck a guy this week" but it's not acceptable to say "I really want to fuck Joe bloggs this week".

If she ever wanted to start something regular with a guy, that's something we'd discuss, but it's not something we want to happen by accident.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"Yup…

With a male or female as the 3rd?"

Now that would be telling!

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

Oh yes a few of them been ask back and more and more times

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By *ioux80Man
over a year ago

london

Normally with the 100% of couple met we remain friends.. in the half of cases we have a repeat

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

we do like to meet again for repeat sessions if they are good

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By *azzolatinoMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I’ve been invited back as a third party many times over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed with so many couples on this thread, regular fun with the same guy/bull is what I/we like and looking for

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

ye have done

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

[Removed by poster at 06/10/22 10:55:58]

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?

Never. We do this purely for sex and we fully understand that feelings can naturally develop. We've been clear from the start that we never want to feel like we "want to fuck *that* person". Ie, it's totally fine for her to say "I really want to fuck a guy this week" but it's not acceptable to say "I really want to fuck Joe bloggs this week".

If she ever wanted to start something regular with a guy, that's something we'd discuss, but it's not something we want to happen by accident. "

This.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Only a few have returned.

Must were not what we were looking for or other factors such as pushy,couldnt perform,dull,needy etc.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I know a few couples where I have been/currently am a regular third partner.

If you all get on well why would you not want to meet again?

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Yes, absolutely if we hit it off.

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

from mmf it has evolved into cuckolding

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Yes definitely

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Yes we did have one guy we met a few times.

For us it's regular over one offs but not easy to find the right regular it seems x

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

yup

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries.

We have been playing on and off with one guy since 2008.

Another guy we played with once a month for over two years, inc weekends away.

There are couples we have played with multiple times over the years, including those we keep bumping into at parties.

It actually becomes easier with “regulars” as you know they are genuine.

Doesn’t mean you don’t occasionally crave the anticipation and excitement of meeting someone new.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We enjoy regular meets with same person if we hit it off, which appears to happen a lot.

Exploration leads to all kind of fun dynamics.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve been described as part of the furniture at a certain house, so it does happen "

.....................

Hopefully not a commode!

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We have in the past!

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries.

We have been playing on and off with one guy since 2008.

Another guy we played with once a month for over two years, inc weekends away.

There are couples we have played with multiple times over the years, including those we keep bumping into at parties.

It actually becomes easier with “regulars” as you know they are genuine.

Doesn’t mean you don’t occasionally crave the anticipation and excitement of meeting someone new. "

Our record is 2016 and still going strong. It’ll take some effort to beat yours…

Always looking for guys we see a few times, though the last few years have been lean.

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

A few times

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Yes a good few times x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"
I have one lovely couple that invite me back often.. they are the only ones I'd feel happy doing that with though x

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We have yes. She's more relaxed and comfortable

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By *iguyforfun50Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I Would LOVE a reg 9"+ cock to share my wife with,just need to convince her to swing for real,she asked me yesterday to get a 10" cock sleeve or dildo to use on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries. "

We would agree with this for sure

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Yes we have and it worked out well.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries.

We have been playing on and off with one guy since 2008.

Another guy we played with once a month for over two years, inc weekends away.

There are couples we have played with multiple times over the years, including those we keep bumping into at parties.

It actually becomes easier with “regulars” as you know they are genuine.

Doesn’t mean you don’t occasionally crave the anticipation and excitement of meeting someone new.

Our record is 2016 and still going strong. It’ll take some effort to beat yours…

Always looking for guys we see a few times, though the last few years have been lean."

On and off since 2008. Off when he has a GF and back on when he doesn’t. One GF joined in a few times. He’ll get married eventually and unless she is a swinger (and there is mutual attraction) then it will all be over.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"

Once we have made that connection repeat meets just make fun better. We even invite the 3rd to come stay at ours for a weekend for fun once we get to know them better

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By *un and Frolics 1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

When I was a couple quite often invited a 3rd party back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally we would invite them back a couple of times, then I'll get bored and look for fresh blood

C

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Absolutely love repeat meets if we both get a connection. It allows more relaxed sensual pleasure where we explore and push our boundaries x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

We knew another couple who split up so I invited him round a few times on his own for a 3

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By *ish you were here!Couple
over a year ago

Kidderminster ...ish

No,when we've had 3somes only in clubs with single guys, not repeated yet even if we see them again..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes plenty of times.. we meet a few regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeat visits are soooo much better. You get more relaxed and can push boundaries.

We have been playing on and off with one guy since 2008.

Another guy we played with once a month for over two years, inc weekends away.

There are couples we have played with multiple times over the years, including those we keep bumping into at parties.

It actually becomes easier with “regulars” as you know they are genuine.

Doesn’t mean you don’t occasionally crave the anticipation and excitement of meeting someone new.

Our record is 2016 and still going strong. It’ll take some effort to beat yours…

Always looking for guys we see a few times, though the last few years have been lean.

On and off since 2008. Off when he has a GF and back on when he doesn’t. One GF joined in a few times. He’ll get married eventually and unless she is a swinger (and there is mutual attraction) then it will all be over."

That sounds excellent. It’ll be sad when it’s over but I imagine very horny when it is going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course , lots of times

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By *r_Shares.Gym_girl69Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yep we have and we probably will in the future. Although there is something extra exciting about someone new (sometimes)

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yes on a couple of occasions…we have spent weekends with a single guy and a single woman.

The best play sessions come from being better connected.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been involved with the same couple for over 10 years so yes more than a one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah!!! We have had some great sexual experiences. Still friends sometimes still have a little sessions now they have partners now.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

It often means that the sex gets better and better - plus you can explore more!

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

When we meet single guys its now in twos rather than one at a time. This stops them thinking we want any sort of relationships. Other than a sexual one.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I've had the pleasure of having had repeat/multiple meets with a handful of couples - there were also a few others who invited me back, but for various reasons further visits couldn't be arranged...

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Yes, regular TV and female play partner(s), up until we moved up North.

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I've been invited back as a third, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that the idea?

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

Ocassionaly but it's rare we prefer one offs I think in 6 years we've had 2 repeat meets, there's one other we'd meet again but haven't as yet

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
over a year ago

near you

Also yes. Repeat performances are great.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Yup, well if they were any good the first time

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

yes if the fun is good and we all agree then great one of my regulars ive know for best part of 20 years and another over 10 years ...

some get invited back and become clingy then thats a instant stop and no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something we are looking for just need to find the right guy.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

yes

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Always more fun with a repeat

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By *ove2PlayLincsCouple
over a year ago

Gainsborough

Yes! Sadly he's not on here anymore. Hung like a can of monster, down to earth, even took and accidental spurt of cum to leg in good spirit.

Jon from around Doncaster, if your here on a new profile say hi!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"

HAve played with one couple for over 6 years!

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Only if they are better hung and a better shag than my cuck.

Which means everytime lol. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"

Our preference is for repeat meets with the same people…don’t get me wrong, I’ve no doubt there will be one-off’s along the way, but building that relationship with others you click with means the sex will only get better, and you’ll have more fun in each others company

F (Mrs)

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've met up with one couple a few times now, and we are all finding the sex improves every time as we know each other better and are more comfortable together.

Different things suit different people, but I like this dynamic we currently have.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

No but we would, we’ve met some great guys and she’s asked me a couple of times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to have people at home so we can relax into meets. It’s good to be able to have coffee or a glass of wine before getting down to it. Loads of possibilities for scenarios at home, too.

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By *uncouplerkCouple
over a year ago

TD


"Only if they are better hung and a better shag than my cuck.

Which means everytime lol. Xxx"

So cruel haha xx

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By *r blue eyes123Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

Still waiting to find that special mature couple that would enjoy regular soft swing meets , seems impossible in this area ,yet I feel it’s the safest way forward and it’s about friendship as well, most important

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?"

many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After having a threesome for the first time have you ever invited the 3rd person back again ? Or just one offs ?

Our preference is for repeat meets with the same people…don’t get me wrong, I’ve no doubt there will be one-off’s along the way, but building that relationship with others you click with means the sex will only get better, and you’ll have more fun in each others company

F (Mrs)"

This, for sure. We do if the first meet has gone well because the second is usually a lot better as everyone already feels relaxed and at ease.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Mainly just one offs. Our first ever mfm, we met him a few times as we were on holiday x

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

A few times

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Definitely - if we click then more than happy to meet again - also means you know what you’re getting and that you’ll enjoy your next meet with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet anyways and not had the chance however if we click then I'm sure we wouldn't have a problem taking them home as many times as they want

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We have meet a woman more than once but we like to keep it simple and in a flash we are gone.

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