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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I got thinking recently about what happens to old swingers, a regular FWB or a Daddy almost becomes part of the family. As I start to hit 50, then 60 and higher I wonder. Please, if you are under 50 don't speculate, I would appreciate replies from people who have actually been there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Things either come to a natural end or continue well into older age.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Think mine as come to a natural end

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Not really sure I understand the question but at 54 we resent being called "old swingers" Still going strong. The only thing that has changed for us is becoming less tolerant of the the crap that comes with swinging.....timewasters, pretenders, users, etc....

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Oh one thing we have noticed is that as get into 50s and 60s lots of men do struggle sometimes getting/staying hard or cum quite quickly and that's it. And when it comes to couples often it ends up being more about the lady having fun and the man sitting back for that reason which is not ideal for us. Of course not in all cases but it is a thing.

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

We dont see ourselves as old , we prefer older bi guys especially if hing and top and like playing with bi couples around our age group as theres never any dramas

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

In scheme of things think the wording might have been a tade poorly selected op.

That said guess its a matter of if you still enjoy that side of things then do as you as you please. This is what its all about whatever your age, size, preferences, creed.

The ablity to to grasp freedom of mind, body allowing yourself pleasure as and WHEN you want to with who you want to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're in our mid sixties, we're older than many on here, it's fact and not something that particularly bothers us. The thing is you have to live, if you get hung up on age you limit yourself. Other people might not want to meet due to our age but that's absolutely their prerogative.

We were looking at a profile of a couple in their 70s recently and they were one of the few couples we've seen who both looked genuinely happy in their photos. They were laughing, smiling and just all round having a good time.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Things either come to a natural end "

Death ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Things either come to a natural end

Death ? "

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

No one is here for a long time just a good time. The thing is to grab each day and enjoy it! To try not to sweat the small stuff seek what pleases you and the pleasure you find whereever whenever and with who you find it without hurting anyone in the the progress.

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Maybe the original wording could have been better, but it's tricky to describe something that hasn't happened yet. Assuming the machinery down there still works, I suppose there's no upper limit and if you have bonded with someone for long enough, I just couldn't imagine not being around them.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anyone remember Fred Wedlock ?

The Oldest Swinger in Town

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I never started swinging until I was 51 and still feel I have many years left to enjoy this lifestyle.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe the original wording could have been better, but it's tricky to describe something that hasn't happened yet. Assuming the machinery down there still works, I suppose there's no upper limit and if you have bonded with someone for long enough, I just couldn't imagine not being around them. "

If you've really bonded with someone it's unlikely you're going to stop contact if sex stops. A real bond transcends that surely. FWB is different possibly, even then once the 'benefit ' part is gone you're still left with the friend bit

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I never started swinging until I was 51 and still feel I have many years left to enjoy this lifestyle. "

And a very good job you seem to be doing of it too!

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Maybe the original wording could have been better, but it's tricky to describe something that hasn't happened yet. Assuming the machinery down there still works, I suppose there's no upper limit and if you have bonded with someone for long enough, I just couldn't imagine not being around them.

If you've really bonded with someone it's unlikely you're going to stop contact if sex stops. A real bond transcends that surely. FWB is different possibly, even then once the 'benefit ' part is gone you're still left with the friend bit"

You are a star

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I never started swinging until I was 51 and still feel I have many years left to enjoy this lifestyle. "

I have fabed some of your pics, you are truly living your best life

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

With age comes experience and with us it's mostly been about Mrs4 having fun and new experiences and the only thing that's changed is that her tolerance for the idiots ( here's me knob etc etc ) has got lower than Mr4's ever was which is quite amusing !! but always been the sme the younger and upcoming generation always think they've invented the wheel !! and although the internet is great it has in certain degree's ruined the "Scene" as now everyone who has internet access etc etc now think they are "Swingers" or so it seems to us and that's all age related ....

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


" With age comes experience and with us it's mostly been about Mrs4 having fun and new experiences and the only thing that's changed is that her tolerance for the idiots ( here's me knob etc etc ) has got lower than Mr4's ever was which is quite amusing !! but always been the sme the younger and upcoming generation always think they've invented the wheel !! and although the internet is great it has in certain degree's ruined the "Scene" as now everyone who has internet access etc etc now think they are "Swingers" or so it seems to us and that's all age related .... "

That is so true, every generation thinks they invented sex, an 18 year old apprentice started at our place announcing she was a lesbian and just frowned on old fuddy duddys like me. If she only knew the pit of filth I had crawled through over the years, it would make her eyes bleed.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport


"I never started swinging until I was 51 and still feel I have many years left to enjoy this lifestyle. "

You definitely have...... So hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll always keep going as long as science continues to give me a helping hand, only been using blues for a while but working really well for now !

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By *eamed stocking fanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Age is just a number. there a lot of men out there who enjoy the more mature lady. They enjoy the experience they have.

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By *..WillowCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

We fall into this category now (well I do) and our swinging shows no sign of abating.

We feel we can still bring alot to the table, or bed or wherever takes your fancy.

One thing we have noticed is when we go to a club some of the younger people we play with have said that if we had tried to contact them via FAB their filters would have prevented it. But in the social atmosphere of a club we all got on very well.

All is not lost for us older folk

B

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Age is just a number, as long as you're still having fun and making connections what's it matter about age.

We are far from being models but we look after ourselves as much as we can, can still hold a conversation and still love sex so why is age a problem x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I get congratulations for just turning up...let alone doing anything

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"We fall into this category now (well I do) and our swinging shows no sign of abating.

We feel we can still bring alot to the table, or bed or wherever takes your fancy.

One thing we have noticed is when we go to a club some of the younger people we play with have said that if we had tried to contact them via FAB their filters would have prevented it. But in the social atmosphere of a club we all got on very well.

All is not lost for us older folk

B"

That's a good point, if someone blocking your age messages you first, does it allow a reply? Has anyone tested this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One has to slow down & be careful what positions one gets into , the back isn’t the same as it was

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

hang in there,,

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

We were at a club recently where all the people having sex in the large open room were in their 60's and 70's. (They compared ages). The younger ones were just watching.

You're never too old........

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Somebody just messaged from this thread saying "lovely udders" How nice to be compared to a cow. Bet he will be on the advice thread soon moaning about no meets.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

showing them how its done,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I’m having the best sex ever now I’m in my sixties.

I have far less hang ups than when I was younger and the couples we meet from our joint profile are of a similar age and feel the same.

No intention of stopping until my health decides otherwise. At whatever age that may be.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

we know plenty of couples who still play in there 70s n 80s people who we knew when we first started and are still going and get plenty of meets younger guys tend to really like these couples ... fair play to them ... i hope im still sexual at that age after all its just a number

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

join the church choir or volunteer helping the elderly , Im sure you ll get plenty of offers ..

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
over a year ago

dorset

Juat keep going guys

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Still love it, even more if anything

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Just gets better as you get older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still going strong here. Growing old disgracefully. Might not be able to go all night anymore but we both still enjoy meeting other men for sex

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss


"I never started swinging until I was 51 and still feel I have many years left to enjoy this lifestyle. "
and you certainly look like your enjoying it c xxx

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Just gets better as you get older "

Agreed! Mine certainly has. More and better sex now than I've had for a long time, thanks to Fab. OK, I need to take a blue pill beforehand but so what. Just wish there were more people my age up for it.

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