FabSwingers.com forum: When are you too old to swing...?

By *ivinefox OP Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Been thinking about this recently. I got into the swinging/fetish scene in my thirties and had a great time, don't regret it at all,and although it can still be fun, and I do still enjoy the social side of it, sometimes I think, am I just too old now...?

Genuinely wondered what other pp think about this. Tbh this may be affected by being out of the scene for so long due to Covid restrictions and finding it hard to rediscover my mojo for so long@

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By *lueeyes3082Man
over a year ago

nr kettering

"Been thinking about this recently. I got into the swinging/fetish scene in my thirties and had a great time, don't regret it at all,and although it can still be fun, and I do still enjoy the social side of it, sometimes I think, am I just too old now...?

Genuinely wondered what other pp think about this. Tbh this may be affected by being out of the scene for so long due to Covid restrictions and finding it hard to rediscover my mojo for so long@

You have nothing to fear you are of no age and look fantastic at 48. I'm sure you will be bombarded with offers x

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By *inkyfuckery69Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I'm 53 she is 26 .....your never to old x

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We’ve just turned 40 and tbh we’re very conscious of our age, we recently went to a club and felt like we were the oldest there

We’ve thought that maybe it’s time to move on and step aside from this as getting meets is getting harder, we’re not sure if it’s our age or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 70 and still love it, and hope to for a few more year's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve just turned 40 and tbh we’re very conscious of our age, we recently went to a club and felt like we were the oldest there

We’ve thought that maybe it’s time to move on and step aside from this as getting meets is getting harder, we’re not sure if it’s our age or not x"

You're age is perfect, don't give up, and gorgeous pictures,

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

As long as I can still fling my legs around a mans neck and don't wet my knickers I will continue to swing.

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Genuinely wondered what other pp think about this. Tbh this may be affected by being out of the scene for so long due to Covid restrictions and finding it hard to rediscover my mojo for so long@

Never too old, you look great xx

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

"We’ve just turned 40 and tbh we’re very conscious of our age, we recently went to a club and felt like we were the oldest there

We’ve thought that maybe it’s time to move on and step aside from this as getting meets is getting harder, we’re not sure if it’s our age or not x"

Not your age, you look amazing just continue to have fun as long as your able xxx

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By *rummy2020Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Genuinely wondered what other pp think about this. Tbh this may be affected by being out of the scene for so long due to Covid restrictions and finding it hard to rediscover my mojo for so long@

You are never too old to swing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you feel you're too old then you are. It really is a personal thing, for some it will be 80 and for others 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as I can still fling my legs around a mans neck and don't wet my knickers I will continue to swing."

Some may see that second part as an added bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still going strong here.

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By *ine and SongCouple
over a year ago

King's Lynn

I’m 49 my wife’s 27 we’ve been in the lifestyle for a few now and loving it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve just turned 40 and tbh we’re very conscious of our age, we recently went to a club and felt like we were the oldest there

We’ve thought that maybe it’s time to move on and step aside from this as getting meets is getting harder, we’re not sure if it’s our age or not x"

Just enjoy yourselves guys, don't let age stand in your way. If you are having fun then that's all that matters! Xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"As long as I can still fling my legs around a mans neck and don't wet my knickers I will continue to swing."

I've often wondered what your legs would look like flung around my neck.

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney

"As long as I can still fling my legs around a mans neck and don't wet my knickers I will continue to swing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there should be any age that’s too old for it. It’s just as much a social aspect as it is a sexual one. You’re never too old to have fun. Life’s too short to be worried about being too old for a good time

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I don't see any reason why age should stop you at all. Granted, it might (will) make finding others more of a challenge but, if you're physically able and still have the desire... what difference does a number make? I'm 40 now, but so are others. What's not to say in 20 or 30 years time we won't still be friends (unlikely. I know - but my point is you won't just rock up to a club in your 70's expecting to get laid. By then you'd have found your "circle". I plan on dropping dead old, dehydrated and happy.

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Genuinely wondered what other pp think about this. Tbh this may be affected by being out of the scene for so long due to Covid restrictions and finding it hard to rediscover my mojo for so long@

Get out of here

I’m 51 and never felt better about getting filthy. You’ve got many more years of debauchery left yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed and I'm 95... still get lots of offers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about peeing yourself lol there are plenty on here into that, if anything it will increase your popularity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as your tits are still hanging higher than your pussy, keep swinging Louie!

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

I didn’t start swinging until I was 53 and we have as many offers to play eight years later. You are never too old, but maybe just don’t want to swing at the moment. The desire may come back, and if it does you will have as much fun as you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number, the sexiest organ in the body is your mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no such thing as too old. If you want to do something, do it.

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By *69meMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"As long as I can still fling my legs around a mans neck and don't wet my knickers I will continue to swing."

I love having legs wrapped around my neck!

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
over a year ago

Southport

I would suggest 85 could be a reasonable cut-off point.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP I think women in their 40s and onwards are in their prime. In my experience they have much more confidence in themselves than before and they know what they want.

I would have said you were just entering the perfect age for this site.

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

99.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

"99.

When you reach 99 you get evicted from Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And then one day you find

Ten years have got behind you

No-one told you when to run

You missed the starting gun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I think women in their 40s and onwards are in their prime. In my experience they have much more confidence in themselves than before and they know what they want.

I would have said you were just entering the perfect age for this site."

Was gonna say the same

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

I think it's more a mindset than a numbers game. Some people will want to swing until they are ready to shuffle off this mortal coil and others may want to stop at 25. Circumstances, health, mobility, etc may make it more difficult but age shouldn't really come into it.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

When you don’t get any interest,o that’s now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your stunning beautiful sexy lady. If you enjoy yourself indulge! X

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Never to old

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Never too old? I suppose there is some truth in that.

However when you get to a certain age (like us) you start to lose some of your confidence. We are not quite knackered yet (we are going to a club tonight) but the day will come, probably sooner rather than later, when we call it a day.

We really don't want to end up as (literally) the oldest swingers in town.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm 69 and just getting into it, better late than never! Open to offers LOL

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By *irtuousBullMan
over a year ago

lake district

"Never too old? I suppose there is some truth in that.

We really don't want to end up as (literally) the oldest swingers in town."

Your profiles great, there's no doubt plenty of people on here keen to meet you both, I wish I'd look as good as you when I'm older

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By *orMatureWomenAndCouplesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

You’re most definitely not too old to swing. Age shouldn’t be a barrier to anything these days. 48 especially is not old! You look great and if you want to keep doing it, you absolutely should!

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By *revor1940Man
over a year ago

Near Southampton

I am 81 and am lucky enough to make love regularly with a much younger lady.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Depends who you are. women and couples the sky's the limit. Single males find their appeal begins to fade around 45. It's a younger man's game when it comes to us men

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

"I'm 70 and still love it, and hope to for a few more year's "

I'm 71 (A) and hope I can enjoy for a good many more years, so you are never too old

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By *ustooCouple
over a year ago

East Fife

Genuinely wondered what other pp think about this. Tbh this may be affected by being out of the scene for so long due to Covid restrictions and finding it hard to rediscover my mojo for so long@

Age is just a number but do agree we don’t get as many offers now compared to earlier years so keep swinging and enjoy the fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's different. If the interest is gone then it's time to hang up the boots, but otherwise..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Never. It's inclusive of all

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

In France and much of europe they call our hobby a libertine lifestyle.

It simply means following your own desires for the pleasures of life its more a journey than anything else. Sharing them is just an extention of that pleasure. I think that relieves much of the tentions to perform as others may think you should. If you want to, do if you dont, dont. Just enjoy the pleasures you want to without concern. Individual choices cannot be made by others enjoy your version of your adventures.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Still giving guys half my age a run for there money

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

When your teeth come out with his Willy after a blow job?

Sorry was kidding. There’s no age limit on sex.

So many patients & colleagues tell me off the goings on in care homes/assisted living etc…. STIs are a massive problem & room hopping is rife.

So carry on as long as you are able - I’m sure as hell planning on going out with a bang.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

"Never to old"

Best change your age parameters then.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

OP, I think you are way off being too old yet, I would say if eventually you are physically unable to enjoy it then you are too old, mentally it's how young you are in your head, blokes probably have the upper hand there though as we are all still in our twenties in our head.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Jeez... I thought you were going to be like 70 or something!!

I've only just started and in a similar age, so no, never too old.

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

When they nail the lid on the pine box… till then just enjoy!

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By *cooby6969Man
over a year ago

Gosport

Your deff not to old stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're a man and on here it's all downhill on interested parties after 50

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Almost 62. It’s over for the male half!

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Never too old. My friends and I who meet regularly for mmf are all over 65, and I've met some great guys around that age too. Some of us hope never to give it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s time for me to hang up my spurs.

Fab is just not fun anymore

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I shall retire from swinging at 50 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely wondered what other pp think about this. Tbh this may be affected by being out of the scene for so long due to Covid restrictions and finding it hard to rediscover my mojo for so long@

I don’t think there’s an age limit at all, J (Mr) and I are ‘only’ 42 and exploring together for the first time as a couple, I’ve no plans to stop when I get to a certain age haha

F (Mrs)

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As long as your expectations of number of meets diminish as your age increases, it’s all good. Rather than worry about getting a meet just treasure it when it does come along!

Remember that on fab nobody is guaranteed anything regardless of age.

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

When all you can do is blink one eye and wee yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s time for me to hang up my spurs.

Fab is just not fun anymore "

Fab always requires effort, willpower and stamina. Who said it was easy!!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Depends on the person.

I'm 62, and not ready to give it up just yet.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

age is not a reason to stop ..you only stop when and if you've had enough .. said before there are plenty still playing in the 70s n 80s fair play to them too

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

I think we are getting to old

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Genuinely wondered what other pp think about this. Tbh this may be affected by being out of the scene for so long due to Covid restrictions and finding it hard to rediscover my mojo for so long@

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47 I'd say but hey I'm still here

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over a year ago

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By *ensualAsiansCouple
over a year ago

London

We're in our 40s but feel like we're in the best shape of our lives and sex is always getting better! Do notice getting more age filter blocks now which makes us realise we aren't 25 anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think hitting 50 sent it all downhill for me

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