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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've got quite a few gripes about this site or should we say what seems to be the majority of people on it. As much as we enjoy being on here, on the scene and generally fulfilling our kinky fantasies we're finding our block list ever growing due to some of the Muppets on here. Our biggest gripe has to be single guys who REFUSE TO READ/ADHERE to our requirements and instead try their luck by either being liars, abusive or just plain rude in their messages. Now we really enjoy meeting single guys but so many spoil it for the genuine few good ones out there.

So what we want to know is... what's your biggest gripe regarding the people who contact you on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex only......Heavy cummer

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Same not reading or deciding to ignore profile.. the other day said yes read it but you gotta try your luck aint ya !! NO basically you haven't.. and Guys changing profile after they have read ours (some do) the other day a bi man we said no thanks to came back two days later insisting he was straight sure enough profile had changed.. and he wouldn't give in until we sent him the message he sent us two days before where he said he was bi... then he went away.. We do block ..ALOT !! but we shouldn't have to .. if it wasn't for these sorts who want it at whatever cost...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not gonna jump on the anti bare back wagon but we will only do safe sex and heavy cummers? What difference does that make? Surely women are more interested in Cumming heavy themselves lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As we're both bi men seem to assume I would take it off them but expect nothing in return or they say their "orally bi" our reply... you can orally Fuck off lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The only gripe I have is that people don't read my profile. I get contacted by MF couples even though I don't have them on my 'want to meet' list, and from non-smokers who state 'won't meet smokers' even though it clearly states I smoke.

If people read profiles properly it would save them an awful lot of time.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

People that say put 'please let me know one way of the other' when they message you then when you say no thanks won't leave it alone and keep going on.

OR cock pic next to a lynx can/sky remote/gherkin shots.

I could go on...

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

My gripe is those one liners couples in this way: any pics?...How big are you? fancy coming now? ( that is on saturday night at 3am and we never chat before ) ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yh i think its the fact people dont read ur profile properly.. why else do they think its there :/

if they cant respect the boundries on ur profile how do u expect them to respect boundries when u meet!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

My biggest gripe is getting messages from couples with profiles that are all about THEM, what THEY want, and listing the hoops that they expect singles to jump through for the honour of meeting them - whilst at the same time saying that they are great, attractive and friendly people....

Not at all enticing in my view but its easy enough just to ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just said who I am and what I do/do not do...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only gripe I have is that people don't read my profile. I get contacted by MF couples even though I don't have them on my 'want to meet' list, and from non-smokers who state 'won't meet smokers' even though it clearly states I smoke.

If people read profiles properly it would save them an awful lot of time."

Same as this ^^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Its so easy to ignore delete or block people that don't read your profile

Far less time than it take to get all huffy and start a thread about it

People seem to enjoy miserable moaning on here at the moment more than pleasurable moaning

Im sticking to the easy option and the moans of pleasure,its far more fun and less taxing on the blood pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest gripe is getting messages from couples with profiles that are all about THEM, what THEY want, and listing the hoops that they expect singles to jump through for the honour of meeting them - whilst at the same time saying that they are great, attractive and friendly people....

Not at all enticing in my view but its easy enough just to ignore them."

Yup. See what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest gripe is people moaning!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow never thought the griping would turn on us

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"My biggest gripe is people moaning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People whose profile is a list of requirements that they think people should adhere to...it's not the requirements I have a problem with it's the attitude

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"People whose profile is a list of requirements that they think people should adhere to...it's not the requirements I have a problem with it's the attitude"

I like those ones, makes them easy to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People whose profile is a list of requirements that they think people should adhere to...it's not the requirements I have a problem with it's the attitude

I like those ones, makes them easy to avoid "

I usually contact them just to piss them off

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By *untimes_2009Couple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Profiles with only one line stating "new to the site" but it shows them as having joined one year ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Wow never thought the griping would turn on us "

I think there has been gripe overload in here the past few days

Your timing is all wrong

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

I would have to say my biggest gripe would have to be couple's who when they have nothing better to do,start a post about how single guy's are the scurge of this site

Have a nice day

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"The only gripe I have is that people don't read my profile. I get contacted by MF couples even though I don't have them on my 'want to meet' list, and from non-smokers who state 'won't meet smokers' even though it clearly states I smoke.

If people read profiles properly it would save them an awful lot of time."

You commented on someones post today about them being too old for someones age range and you gave advice of if they havn't got age filters on try anyway.

Maybe the people reading your profile are trying anyway too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so easy to ignore delete or block people that don't read your profile

Far less time than it take to get all huffy and start a thread about it

People seem to enjoy miserable moaning on here at the moment more than pleasurable moaning

Im sticking to the easy option and the moans of pleasure,its far more fun and less taxing on the blood pressure "

If there was no moaners how would the forums survive.

Everyone has an opinion and an arsehole

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...I have nothing to gripe about....if a site like this started getting to me enough to make me waste time complaining about it I would take time away from it.

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds


"To the OP...I have nothing to gripe about....if a site like this started getting to me enough to make me waste time complaining about it I would take time away from it."
In a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP...I have nothing to gripe about....if a site like this started getting to me enough to make me waste time complaining about it I would take time away from it."

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Anyone want to borrow my ball gag? I'm all nicely chilled now and can't be bothered griping

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Anyone want to borrow my ball gag? I'm all nicely chilled now and can't be bothered griping "
You have a ball that speaks??yet you gag it?Iwould be straight off to the natural history museum with that Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP...I have nothing to gripe about....if a site like this started getting to me enough to make me waste time complaining about it I would take time away from it."

Well that's ur choice, others just like to vent, human nature

Some people just take it all too seriously and personal when something has a negative tone

There are threads on here I don't like, I just ignore them

Its how u use the site and make it work for u

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"People whose profile is a list of requirements that they think people should adhere to...it's not the requirements I have a problem with it's the attitude"

Its always tempting to send a message with the list included;

Can Accommodate - check

Heavy Cummer - check

Pubes pruned into the shape of eros - check

because that is one of my main gripes, the 'we are' and 'we only want' type of profiles. But I ignore them anyway.

I also agree that blocking is the easiest way when you get hassle, but the fact is, you shouldnt have to!! Allegedly we are all adults, people should be able to accept a rejection and move. Sadly of course this doesnt happen.

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By *ornishBiLoverMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't say single guys are the scurge of this site as primarily that's what we're looking for! just getting a bit boring when abusive ppl message us because their not our type. End of the day we have a profile with our wants and don't wants on it. Is it so hard just to move on without bothering us?

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By *ornishBiLoverMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

My biggest gripe would have to be timewasters and jerks who spoil it for the genuine people on here. I dont get timewasters and people who dont turn up for meets. Just doesnt make sense to me.

If a couple or a lady are offering an evening of pleasure then who in their right mind would turn that down?

From a gentleman swinger (yes, there are indeed genuine gentleman on this site)

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"To the OP...I have nothing to gripe about....if a site like this started getting to me enough to make me waste time complaining about it I would take time away from it.

Well that's ur choice, others just like to vent, human nature

"

It is my choice yes. I don't believe I said it has to ve everyones choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest gripe is people that put lots and lots of barriers in the way. I'm not a dog, so won't jump through hoops, go through the tunnel and sit up and beg for a meet.

I'm busy, and I'm genuine. If that's not enough tough muff!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't really got any gripes about the people who contact us, they're mostly nice, polite and friendly. One guy got a bit odd hwen we said no thank you but it was easily dealt with

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