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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you meet someone and you give them oral but they won't do it to you, is that acceptable? Would you meet again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I would prefer this

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yes, I could give all night with nothing in return

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

If it's not something they enjoy. Why would you expect them to ?

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By *koda33Man
over a year ago

garvesend

If they don't return the favour I probably won't meet them again or I probably wouldn't meet them at all

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By *acktinyMan
over a year ago

bridgnorth

Yes I love giving oral and don’t expect anything in return. For obvious reasons lol

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yes. Each to their own preferences

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If you meet someone and you give them oral but they won't do it to you, is that acceptable? Would you meet again?"
of course it is if you like the person you have to respect their likes and dislikes end of

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We probably wouldn't have met them in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would meet them again. I don’t expect anything in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, have to respect everyone’s likes and dislikes.

If it’s that important, don’t meet them

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

It depends. If its due to preference then why not. If they are just a selfish lover then provably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather give a woman oral just to feel her pleasure is a massive turn on & I don't mind at all if a woman does not reciprocate, We all have out likes & dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on expectations. Quite happy to give someone oral and not receive anything in return if that’s known at the outset but it’s a bit disappointing if not expected

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It would all depend on if they were selfish in bed .Not getting oral back wouldn't be a deal breaker if they gave pleasure other ways.If it was all about what they want then no I wouldn't meet them again.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Yes it's fine. A meet should be about doing what you both enjoy and going with the flow. It shouldn't be transactional, like "I licked your pussy, therefore you owe me a blowjob"

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I enjoy exploring with my tongue I guess others dont x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's fine. A meet should be about doing what you both enjoy and going with the flow. It shouldn't be transactional, like "I licked your pussy, therefore you owe me a blowjob" "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea but I for one love giving oral and don’t stop till my face is soaked! Hehe

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I guess it depends on how satisfied i was with the meet overall tbh.

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

I just love giving pleasure so it wouldn't bother me at all, as long as my partner male or female enjoyed the experience i'd be very happy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chatted with a guy who said he didn't like to give oral. He seemed quite surprised when I said it was a deal breaker for me. When he tried to backtrack I pointed out I would hate someone to do something they don't enjoy, but at the same time I do want that aspect and there's lots of others who do enjoy giving it

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I enjoy giving more than receiving

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By *ibi692022Man
over a year ago

Mere

I think when it comes to oral, it has to be done with no expectation of reward.

Whether it's male or female if they can just relax and enjoy my administrations and know nothing else is required by them, then that's as good as it gets for me.

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