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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello All,

I've noticed an increase of late whereby a new member messages you, you engage in PM ping-pong, arrange to meet and then the day before, "poof", lo and behold, "user no longer on site".

Anyone else noticed this, or is it just moi ? I am beginning to feel inclined to reject anyone who is not prior verified !

xx

Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello All,

I've noticed an increase of late whereby a new member messages you, you engage in PM ping-pong, arrange to meet and then the day before, "poof", lo and behold, "user no longer on site".

Anyone else noticed this, or is it just moi ? I am beginning to feel inclined to reject anyone who is not prior verified !

xx

Tom"

Normally a fake profile...or they've been caught up.

Check your message filters..and if they are verified...also are you chatting on the phone to them?

It happens a lot...so it's not just you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*caught out not up!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I must confess, I've not experienced this and I do chat to quite some sexy folk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One or two now and again you expect but it's become one a week, and as you say, it's usually when the "lets exchange phone numbers" genie pops out

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One or two now and again you expect but it's become one a week, and as you say, it's usually when the "lets exchange phone numbers" genie pops out

xx"

Try at least 10 a day lol

Regular occurrence of which I laugh at, when they come back as a different profile name

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Yep join the gang lol

I was chatting to someone a while back it was a couples profile that had only been active 2 days......

Im cold and need some cock ping pong where are you Ripley came the reply. I can be there in 30 mins gimme your address....... Poof..... No not Dale Winton....... Gone with the wind

Did they bottle out or was it a kid or a single guy.... Who knows or cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep join the gang lol

I was chatting to someone a while back it was a couples profile that had only been active 2 days......

Im cold and need some cock ping pong where are you Ripley came the reply. I can be there in 30 mins gimme your address....... Poof..... No not Dale Winton....... Gone with the wind

Did they bottle out or was it a kid or a single guy.... Who knows or cares "

Crack down on your message filters...don't speak to newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello All,

I've noticed an increase of late whereby a new member messages you, you engage in PM ping-pong, arrange to meet and then the day before, "poof", lo and behold, "user no longer on site".

Anyone else noticed this, or is it just moi ? I am beginning to feel inclined to reject anyone who is not prior verified !

xx

Tom"

We haven't had it but we insist on early phone conversations. You do however get many who like the fantasy of swinging but in reality get cold feet. I wouldn't worry about it and move on to the next one.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Morning Julie I chat to anyone but just see it as banter..... It doesnt wind me up or get to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the replies, it doesn't get to me, but we all have limited time and it's got to be used judiciously.

I may stick on a newbie filter, then they will think there is a clique, hey ho, can't win, we were all newbies at one point

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning Julie I chat to anyone but just see it as banter..... It doesnt wind me up or get to me "

Hello..I chat to anyone on my other a/c

Doesn't wind me either...life is too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never got as far as a meet yet so would not know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOOOO, I'm new, not verified and genuine even though I have met one person off here.

Verified members do the ping pong too and do not disappear but they ignore, permanently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happened to me twice in a week one was chatting to then he was no longer on site lol the other arranged a meet he wanted it more than me but day before he had deleted I just laugh it off now

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" You do however get many who like the fantasy of swinging but in reality get cold feet. I wouldn't worry about it and move on to the next one. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our weekend wasted by a verified member doing the vanishing act!

Its really annoying when our weekends are few and far between and also dont have any veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had our weekend wasted by a verified member doing the vanishing act!

Its really annoying when our weekends are few and far between and also dont have any veris "

That's the thing, it's the waste of the limited time we all have and in your case, double damned as you are an unverified newbie yourself !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't tar all the unverified newbies with the same brush.

We all started out there!

I have had a couple of meets with guys who identify as straight and don't want anyone to know they are curious. So a good time doesn't always mean a verification.

Accept that time wasters are par for the course and block em if you spot em!

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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago

bristol

got a guy asking to be my sub, then we exchange emails.. then he said he's off the site as it has too many weirdos.. i told him, i dont think i'll meet with him since he new and not verified and now not on the site..

he recently got back to me saying he's back because he really wants to meet me and obey me.. what a good boy.. =)

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