FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Hotel or home

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think people should respect your feelings..i dont like using my own home for meets so why should you??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice chat up line Lee; hope it works lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer hotels unless we know the guy well and then happy to meet at his house.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I prefer to meet at the meets home..... Ive never done a hotel meet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee"

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will not meet at my home due to personal circumstance until i know them well. I mush prefer a hotel or club meet and will always offer to foot the bill etc

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Prefer home meets to hotels.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse. "

Ive never been charged for a mattress yet by a hotel and have spoiled many

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse.

Ive never been charged for a mattress yet by a hotel and have spoiled many "

And are you proud of that fact?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse.

Ive never been charged for a mattress yet by a hotel and have spoiled many

And are you proud of that fact?"

I come on the forums for fun not arguments so please save your loaded questions for someone who does.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We prefer to meet single guys at their home,after first meeting somewhere neutral as our first attempt guy never turned up at hotel,but mainly prefer clubs or party's now

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse.

Ive never been charged for a mattress yet by a hotel and have spoiled many

And are you proud of that fact?

I come on the forums for fun not arguments so please save your loaded questions for someone who does. "

Its not a loaded question but there and again you didn't need to quote me in the first place. You came across as being proud that you had not been charged for spoiling hotel property I was asking for clarification if you were proud of the fact or was it a misinterpretation.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer to meet single guys at their home,after first meeting somewhere neutral as our first attempt guy never turned up at hotel,but mainly prefer clubs or party's now"

I think a club is a win win situation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer to meet single guys at their home,after first meeting somewhere neutral as our first attempt guy never turned up at hotel,but mainly prefer clubs or party's now"

This happened to my friend and she,d already paid for the hotel! Hence she wont meet anywhere but clubs now so if the meet doesnt turn up she has plenty more to choose from

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edonism44Man
over a year ago

oldham


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse.

Ive never been charged for a mattress yet by a hotel and have spoiled many "

Same here !!! As for feeble excuse, it's the guys preference

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse. "

so lesson for the day is?

if you play messy take a rubber sheet with you!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse.

Ive never been charged for a mattress yet by a hotel and have spoiled many "

I hope you've played in one thats been spoilt previously by someone else!

your comment does come across as some what smug.

destruction of property in this way is not fun for the poor sods who have to clean up after you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not saying to annoy anybody it's just my personal preference as a £50 hotel is a lot cheaper than a £250 mattress xxlee

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying to annoy anybody it's just my personal preference as a £50 hotel is a lot cheaper than a £250 mattress xxlee"

Get a protective sheet, much cheaper than an hotel!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying to annoy anybody it's just my personal preference as a £50 hotel is a lot cheaper than a £250 mattress xxlee"

Waterproof mattress protector, very cheap and work wonders, I know this for a fact oh and I prefer meets at home

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse.

Ive never been charged for a mattress yet by a hotel and have spoiled many

And are you proud of that fact?

I come on the forums for fun not arguments so please save your loaded questions for someone who does.

Its not a loaded question but there and again you didn't need to quote me in the first place. You came across as being proud that you had not been charged for spoiling hotel property I was asking for clarification if you were proud of the fact or was it a misinterpretation. "

He didnt, he made a statement - and yes your initial reply was loaded. You fail to see the reason for his post... that his house gets messed up so is asking if this may cause issues.

A more apt reply would be .. change your profile to 'cannot accomodate' if it says otherwise

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee

I think a hotel bed will spoil just as easily as the one you have at home and the hotel will bill you for it so in reality its a feeble excuse.

Ive never been charged for a mattress yet by a hotel and have spoiled many

I hope you've played in one thats been spoilt previously by someone else!

your comment does come across as some what smug.

destruction of property in this way is not fun for the poor sods who have to clean up after you"

Good point its not big or clever to brag about damaging someone other person's property.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home meets for us, not only does the fun rarely make it upstairs (we have a huuuuge coffee table and 3 seater sofa) but I don't want to be trekking around in my skimpies to a hotel in the cold and rain, also I feel more comfortable where I can ask someone to leave if I want to and I know where the coffee is :D

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll accommodate a guy for 1 on 1 or two for a 3sum, but having recently experienced a gushing female I'm afraid I don't want one on my bedding, so accommodating couples is a no-no.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always use apartments/hotels

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I much prefer hotels. Not only do I not have to tidy my house (I'm a slob) but also it feels safer than going to a strange guys house.

There are loads of hotels in York city centre so much easier for me to get to than some house in the middle of nowhere. And if you're lucky, you get breakfast too!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's what I'm saying I can accomodate but in a hotel but that's my choice and if the meet is ok with it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's what I'm saying I can accomodate but in a hotel but that's my choice and if the meet is ok with it "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"I much prefer hotels. Not only do I not have to tidy my house (I'm a slob) but also it feels safer than going to a strange guys house.

There are loads of hotels in York city centre so much easier for me to get to than some house in the middle of nowhere. And if you're lucky, you get breakfast too! "

My house is a mess and needs some DIY work plus a teenage son with thin walls...... I prefer a hotel or club

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being stalked once by someone who came to my house.... It's hotels for me thanks.

When someone turns up in your doorstep demanding a quickie when you have your parents staying its very embarrassing....

Play away from home as home is my sanctuary.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being stalked once by someone who came to my house.... It's hotels for me thanks.

When someone turns up in your doorstep demanding a quickie when you have your parents staying its very embarrassing....

Play away from home as home is my sanctuary. "

OMG why would ppl do that, I'm just not that pushy or confident I suppose, to even ask ppl for meets, let alone turning up on someones doorstep without being asked, but blimey, that's pushing it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the couples ... I can accomodate in my own home but prefer to meet in hotels are couples and single ladies bothered by this ? Met at home before and spoiled a rather expensive mattress what do you think ?? Lee"

Hotel all the way

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being stalked once by someone who came to my house.... It's hotels for me thanks.

When someone turns up in your doorstep demanding a quickie when you have your parents staying its very embarrassing....

Play away from home as home is my sanctuary. "

That has always been a fear of mine, shame it actually happened to you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top