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Dogging Advice Needed

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

So I am totally new to this scene.

And am parked here at one dogging site.

There are 2 other cars parked

I have few questions:

Can I park close or next to another car which is already parked there?

How do I know if I should get out of car and watch them or if they want me to approach them etc?

Any thoughts?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Just get out of your car, put the light on so people can see if they like the look of you and just stand and stretch.

If they like you, then they may interact.

I don't know what you're looking for, but it's quite possible that every person in that car park is a bloke sat in the dark hoping that it's a couple in one of the others.

Also, don't do anything drastic until you're certain they are dogging.

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Thanks so much for your advice.

It’s raining outside and I feel like but anxious getting out and stand in front of light as it’s quite dark so turning in headlights might put them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn your interior light on for 5 seconds then back off. Watch for a response

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

I did this.

And the car which is parked quite far behind me as changed it’s position with headlights towards my direction and exterior parking lights are on at that car

Is that a signal or something?

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Never mind, there exterior light just gone off, I think it might have turned on as they started engine like automatic lightening system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been a few of these over the years. Our opinion is : if you're a single male they are likely to approach

So if you were to step outside of your car and go to them to casually ask directions or something. When you have a bit better rapport you could hint to judge the reaction

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"I did this.

And the car which is parked quite far behind me as changed it’s position with headlights towards my direction and exterior parking lights are on at that car

Is that a signal or something? "

Possibly but you just don’t know. Only one way to find out and walk over

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

It was too far at this time

What if they mind if I walk over?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"It was too far at this time

What if they mind if I walk over? "

Ask yourself why you went there. If you just sit there nothing will happen most likely. It can be a bit risky but guess you understand that as you already there. Good luck

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

How about if I reverse my car and park next to them on their side ?

Or

Yoy suggest walking ti them? Coz it’s quite dark akd 10:30pm so wondering if I walk to them that might scare them or put them off

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"How about if I reverse my car and park next to them on their side ?

Or

Yoy suggest walking ti them? Coz it’s quite dark akd 10:30pm so wondering if I walk to them that might scare them or put them off "

You could park closer yes as less risky. Can you tell if a couple? If not get closer

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

I just parked close to them on their side liek a car distance space between us

No I can’t tell if they are couple

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

They have tinted rear windows so can’t really see as they are leaning back

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"I just parked close to them on their side liek a car distance space between us

No I can’t tell if they are couple "

Did they react in any way or move. Sounds like they most likely there for some reason as you as why else there? Now you will just need to decide your next move. They could be waiting for u?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

If leaning back odds on doggers

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

So what should be my next move?

I mean I didn’t get any signal so far, I even turned on my interior light for like 30 seconds

Opened my car window despite of raining lol

But no signal at all

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Keep us posted how you get on

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"So what should be my next move?

I mean I didn’t get any signal so far, I even turned on my interior light for like 30 seconds

Opened my car window despite of raining lol

But no signal at all "

I think you will just have to risk it and go and see. Nothing to lose

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Am guessing by amount of time since your last post you went over. If am correct please let us know what happened

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By *itArabGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Hahaha

OMG

So I grew some balls and opened window and turned on interior light and made hand gesture enquiring if they like me to come over and guess what?

The guy opened his window ajd said come over

So I walked to the car and asked I can’t see your partner and he said he is single . Hahaha

And I said ti him sorry dude I am looking for a couple

And drive away from there

Now came to second dogging site Whcihbis Golden acre park ajd this big van is parked here. With no lights whatsoever or any activity and this is making me slightly scared

So I think I am going ti Google soem other nearby site

Any suggestions?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"Hahaha

OMG

So I grew some balls and opened window and turned on interior light and made hand gesture enquiring if they like me to come over and guess what?

The guy opened his window ajd said come over

So I walked to the car and asked I can’t see your partner and he said he is single . Hahaha

And I said ti him sorry dude I am looking for a couple

And drive away from there

Now came to second dogging site Whcihbis Golden acre park ajd this big van is parked here. With no lights whatsoever or any activity and this is making me slightly scared

So I think I am going ti Google soem other nearby site

Any suggestions? "

Sorry did not get lucky mate. Keep on trying and will one day. Sorry I don’t know your area

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

How did it go finding new spots. Any luck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to whoever go to the male first we find it strange that men just stand at the side of the car for ages without speaking

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I hope he's not still out there.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"I hope he's not still out there. "

Lol. Hope not as would a long cold one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you met with some success.

We like being watched in clubs and spa’s and even invite an extra from time to time but this dogging seems very hit or miss.

We’d also worry that some dickhead would be filming and showing our faces and license plate.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"Hope you met with some success.

We like being watched in clubs and spa’s and even invite an extra from time to time but this dogging seems very hit or miss.

We’d also worry that some dickhead would be filming and showing our faces and license plate. "

That’s really bad when people do that. Had it happen to me once when it got busy. Hub of wife really pissed off by it and sorted it out. Big guy and other guy terrified. Got a reward and an invite to their place later. Nice people out there and fun spoilt by idiots

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