FabSwingers.com forum: Ghosting

By *ay40x OP Man
over a year ago

Bromley

The amount of ghosting on this site is unreal, you just get chatting then they disappear into thin air!

Who’s experienced it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of ghosting on this site is unreal, you just get chatting then they disappear into thin air!

Who’s experienced it?"

Technically not ghosting as that's when you're already in am emotional relationship with someone.

Yes, people get bored or change their minds, find out that you're not both on the same page and stop messaging. Yes it's not nice, could even be described as a little rude but, heyho, it's normal just something to shrug your shoulders to and carry on!

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By *idsHornyCpl40Couple
over a year ago

West Mids area

Yes we call it the curse of Fab….

You chat with a couple, get on great but if you don’t get in your car that night and swap that night….then you don’t get a message from them for maybe a month…,not the same then…,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a bit of messaging sometimes it just ain’t working so you say fare well and good luck and get called a time wasting fat c***.

Easier after a while to just delete and block although we know it’s rude.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I’d guess that most of us have experienced something similar.

I consider myself lucky that they vanish before arranging a meet and not after. I’ve not been ‘stood up’ although I see on the forums this is quite common

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

Happens all the time,chatting and then they just disappear,you get used to it on here.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I wouldn't consider that ghosting. Ghosting to me is someone who doesn't show up for a meet.

Someone just stopping chatting just means they lost interest or something was said they didn't like so they stopped chatting. There is usually a reason why people decide to not take a chat any farther.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't think that's ghosting in itself,I've had it happen to me in the past

Maybe they've lost interest or got a better offer ,or life just got busy.

I just pop a private note on their profile so I know that they've chatted and then gone quiet ,for future .

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Many times, even when waiting for a arranged meet!

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Wouldn't call it ghosting if you've exchanged a few messages and then get no reply. I've had it done to me and do it myself if I feel it's not going anywhere.

I was seeing someone for about 2 weeks, lots of sex and things was going great until she blocked me on everything, turns out she got back with her ex. I considered that ghosted lol

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By *ay40x OP Man
over a year ago

Bromley

"I don't think that's ghosting in itself,I've had it happen to me in the past

Maybe they've lost interest or got a better offer ,or life just got busy.

I just pop a private note on their profile so I know that they've chatted and then gone quiet ,for future ."

Good tip, didn’t know you could add a private note

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

sometimes wish people would look up the terms they use far too may use the terms for getting nowhere ghosting catfishing and other term are all terms for reasons ..not getting anywhere is not one of them

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By *ccidentprone2023Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"The amount of ghosting on this site is unreal, you just get chatting then they disappear into thin air!

Who’s experienced it?"

Cant chat to ur self if u constantly get ghosted to many fakes and dont get to know u first

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By *ccidentprone2023Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"I don't think that's ghosting in itself,I've had it happen to me in the past

Maybe they've lost interest or got a better offer ,or life just got busy.

I just pop a private note on their profile so I know that they've chatted and then gone quiet ,for future .

Good tip, didn’t know you could add a private note"

Better offer how when they dont even reply lol and they are uglier than u and still dont give u a chance like there gonna get a david beckham lol

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

People change their mind, they lead busy lives, shit happens... Just don't invest too much

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Well it is nearly Halloween.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

Better offer how when they dont even reply lol and they are uglier than u and still dont give u a chance like there gonna get a david beckham lol "

sounds bitter wonders how you ever got verified in the first place ??

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By *ccidentprone2023Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Better offer how when they dont even reply lol and they are uglier than u and still dont give u a chance like there gonna get a david beckham lol

sounds bitter wonders how you ever got verified in the first place ??"

Any wonder its bitter when people judge and then they dont like them selves cus of other judgemtal idiots

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By *ccidentprone2023Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"Well it is nearly Halloween. "

My mask is always on apparantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest we have done it recently but not on purpose.

Sometimes real life throws you a curve ball and you just don’t log in for a couple of months. Your sight supporter status expires and you loose all your messages.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

That always drives me nuts - but at least on a conversation here its at least better than when your ghosted just before a meet or when on your way to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not ghosting!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"That’s not ghosting! "

Thank you!

It's infuriating seeing 'ghosting', which can cause real heartache, reclassified as 'Wah wah wah, a woman I've never met got bored and stopped talking to me.'

Some of the responses in the forum tonight are entitled,incel-adjacent nonsense of the highest order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy I was dating for six months ghosted me. I don't see how that's the same as some bloke I met once disappearing? Or a chat dying off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s not ghosting!

Thank you!

It's infuriating seeing 'ghosting', which can cause real heartache, reclassified as 'Wah wah wah, a woman I've never met got bored and stopped talking to me.'

Some of the responses in the forum tonight are entitled,incel-adjacent nonsense of the highest order. "

It's been a weekend for it - horrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy I was dating for six months ghosted me. I don't see how that's the same as some bloke I met once disappearing? Or a chat dying off? "

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"The amount of ghosting on this site is unreal, you just get chatting then they disappear into thin air!

Who’s experienced it?"

Welcome to fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't know what's goin on in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of ghosting on this site is unreal, you just get chatting then they disappear into thin air!

Who’s experienced it?"

Me. Loads.

It’s just a bit weird behaviour is all. But then we are on a sex internet site.

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

"The amount of ghosting on this site is unreal, you just get chatting then they disappear into thin air!

Who’s experienced it?"

More times than I care to remember

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"The amount of ghosting on this site is unreal, you just get chatting then they disappear into thin air!

Who’s experienced it?"

Thing is, we'll be having a great conversation and the guy will say one thing which will instantly turn us off (in a non sexual way).

We have zero patience or reason to give the benefit of doubt, we have a long list of guys who want to play so we'll ditch anyone at the slightest hint of being not what we want.

The difference for guys is that they'll (rightly so) tolerate so much.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes we have one minute they’re next minute gone and no idea why. Then pop Back up with a reason hehe

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Unfortunately had this a few times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep always women or couples alllwwwaayssss

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By *ueenmalaysia9TV/TS
over a year ago

islington

Story of my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep the women winks at me, we will message for a little while then nothing a month or so goes by and she will wink again the same women dose the exact same to mine and my wifes couples profile I find it amusing more than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never class it as ghosting, it's just a lot easier on this site to not reply or as the abuse you can get when you try to explain you're not interested anymore

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