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By *ub... girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

worcester

Is it just me or is it happening to anybody else?

Last two meets, the connection seems is there. I'm polite, I message to thank for time and they get the verification and nothing!

I can see they are online but don't respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren’t interested then

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By *ub... girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

worcester


"They aren’t interested then"

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?"

I guess some will be, some won’t be. It’s not an issue I’ve come across before.

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

We've had it many times recently. Chatted and got on really well, plan meets and then nothing. Not even a no th ak you anymore. Weird.

All from so called single guys, who when they have a free night are all for it but most likely bwcasie the wofe isn't home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had it many times recently. Chatted and got on really well, plan meets and then nothing. Not even a no th ak you anymore. Weird.

All from so called single guys, who when they have a free night are all for it but most likely bwcasie the wofe isn't home! "

Think the OP is talking about being ghosted after a meet!

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Happens to me all the time, I think the reasons why are quite well established..

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Tbh - I don't think many haven't been ghosted on here.

Some by almost strangers, some by (apparently) good friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh then in that case, she was just used to beat and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste your time wondering, just add to the block list and find those that value you more. Their lost in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?"

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol

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By *ub... girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

worcester


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol"

I know exactly what you mean.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?"

Possibly they think they have better chances with others after being verified

I don't know if the meet was social or play but for many it's a notches on bedpost thing, they've had their fun and now they want to find someone else to play with

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By *ub... girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

worcester


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol

I know exactly what you mean."

Both after play. They were newbies but they caught my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol

I know exactly what you mean."

Admin, are you listening lol

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By *ub... girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

worcester


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol

I know exactly what you mean.

Admin, are you listening lol"

What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not had it happened to me but I do see a lot of women who have had it done to them ……. My mind boggles as to why they do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol

I know exactly what you mean.

Admin, are you listening lol

What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return."

Block them ladies and it disappears

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol

I know exactly what you mean.

Admin, are you listening lol

What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return."

Know that's a great idea

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

*now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that so strange!

But I'd just take it as a sign they got sex and that's purely all they wanted.

I can't imagine going to all the effort of having a meet then completely blanking them afterwards... even just a small message to say thanks, it was fun etc.

Don't worry about it anyway.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol

I know exactly what you mean.

Admin, are you listening lol

What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return.

Block them ladies and it disappears "

It still shows in their summary so It would still show one veri by meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

The verification is only meant for verifying the user.

1, being a legit user

2, have been met by other users

3, there pics are of the user themselves

To remove the verification is kinda a little vindictive

When its not there to be used like that.

Weve all had users that have met many of us then moved on because we dont fit with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol

I know exactly what you mean.

Admin, are you listening lol

What would be ideal is, the verification can't be displayed until they do one in return.

Block them ladies and it disappears

It still shows in their summary so It would still show one veri by meet "

True…but least they can’t show the verification

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lol"
There is it’s called the block button

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Has anyone suggested blocking them, yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They aren’t interested then

Well, that's obvious, but are males just on here to get the verifications?

I've had it happen a few times, we meet, have fun, I leave a verification, and then poof, nothing, I won't leave a verification for anyone now, as much as I'd love to, unless they leave one first, that's why I'd love a button so you can delete it from their account lolThere is it’s called the block button "

There is, but it still shows that they've had a veri even if they can't show it

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Is it just me or is it happening to anybody else?

Last two meets, the connection seems is there. I'm polite, I message to thank for time and they get the verification and nothing!

I can see they are online but don't respond."

Some guys (not all) will say anything to get into your knickers. Some guys (not all) are looking for notches on the bedpost. Some guys (not all) will look for the next new woman to meet after meeting you.

Hopefully, if you make guys spend time getting to know you online before meeting you will get rid of the guys looking for another notch on the bedpost.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Happens to me often with people. They are worried meeting ts will deter other meets from seeing them. Why i rarely leave verifications anymore and just say I have no interest in it .

Irony is they usually want me to leave one that they don’t display but shows on the number and flags recent veri in updates .

Had one meet really try hard to pressure me to verify them while at meet yet they said they will do mine following day as need time to reflect on how to write it .. I thanked them for the entertaining sex but said they just sound like imbeciles with that statement .. instant atmosphere killer for them and that was end of meet .

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By *eadjeyecMan
over a year ago

Bucks/London


"Happens to me often with people. They are worried meeting ts will deter other meets from seeing them. Why i rarely leave verifications anymore and just say I have no interest in it .

Irony is they usually want me to leave one that they don’t display but shows on the number and flags recent veri in updates .

Had one meet really try hard to pressure me to verify them while at meet yet they said they will do mine following day as need time to reflect on how to write it .. I thanked them for the entertaining sex but said they just sound like imbeciles with that statement .. instant atmosphere killer for them and that was end of meet .

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Shame you’ve had bad experiences we aren’t all bad

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Happens way too regular I'm affraidXx

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Happens to me often with people. They are worried meeting ts will deter other meets from seeing them. Why i rarely leave verifications anymore and just say I have no interest in it .

Irony is they usually want me to leave one that they don’t display but shows on the number and flags recent veri in updates .

Had one meet really try hard to pressure me to verify them while at meet yet they said they will do mine following day as need time to reflect on how to write it .. I thanked them for the entertaining sex but said they just sound like imbeciles with that statement .. instant atmosphere killer for them and that was end of meet .

Shame you’ve had bad experiences we aren’t all bad "

Oh I am not concerned by it as ultimately I got what I wanted with the sex , I just find the faux nonsense of embarrassed by the wrong veri left for some of these idiots . The mentality behaviour of it is mildly amusing for me to observe is all .

There are some smashing people in here absolutely though .

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It happens but, some are here purely for sex and that’s it. Hi thanks and goodbye. Others like the friendship side of things and meeting up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it happening to anybody else?

Last two meets, the connection seems is there. I'm polite, I message to thank for time and they get the verification and nothing!

I can see they are online but don't respond."

Judging from your verifications you’ve no shortage of meets or men that are willing to stay in touch.

Don’t worry about it (though I know it’s hard not to feel like you’ve done something wrong)

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By *eadjeyecMan
over a year ago

Bucks/London


"Happens to me often with people. They are worried meeting ts will deter other meets from seeing them. Why i rarely leave verifications anymore and just say I have no interest in it .

Irony is they usually want me to leave one that they don’t display but shows on the number and flags recent veri in updates .

Had one meet really try hard to pressure me to verify them while at meet yet they said they will do mine following day as need time to reflect on how to write it .. I thanked them for the entertaining sex but said they just sound like imbeciles with that statement .. instant atmosphere killer for them and that was end of meet .

Shame you’ve had bad experiences we aren’t all bad

Oh I am not concerned by it as ultimately I got what I wanted with the sex , I just find the faux nonsense of embarrassed by the wrong veri left for some of these idiots . The mentality behaviour of it is mildly amusing for me to observe is all .

There are some smashing people in here absolutely though . "

Well as long as you got what you wanted from it then I guess that’s a positive, even if you do have to put up with some of their crap

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Well we never verified before receiving one.

Things happen - some are jealous, kick drama, sometimes they are just jerks, sometimes life outside of fabs becomes priority. Just move on, their loss.

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By *jk1978Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We are new but everyone we have met for social we are still in contact with and planning the next meet and where we had a social and meet swap we are still in contact with them, seems strange that you would speak to someone for a while get on,meet and because you had sex they then don’t bother acknowledging you again,

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