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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I get so many unsolicited friend requests which is a bit annoying. Mainly from men or silhouette accounts. I know they just want access to my friends video gallery. I could accept and no doubt get a lot more of my content fabbed but somehow that seems like selling out. Does anyone else feel that way?

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester


"I get so many unsolicited friend requests which is a bit annoying. Mainly from men or silhouette accounts. I know they just want access to my friends video gallery. I could accept and no doubt get a lot more of my content fabbed but somehow that seems like selling out. Does anyone else feel that way? "

on mine and the wife's couples profile I wait until they are showing off line checkout thier friend only photos and the block them.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We just made almost everything public...only get five or six friend requests per day now

(Bry)

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I’m absolutely fine with this. If I’m not bothered I decline.

At the very least it starts a conversation.

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

The only unsolicited friend requests from women I decline is from those who have no photos. It's a zero sum gain for me, so I delete without a moments thought.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Agree with above

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"We just made almost everything public...only get five or six friend requests per day now

(Bry)"

bloody hell, we dont get six a month

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"bloody hell, we dont get six a month"

I'm amazed! Maybe people think you're out of their league.

(Bry)

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"I get so many unsolicited friend requests which is a bit annoying. Mainly from men or silhouette accounts. I know they just want access to my friends video gallery. I could accept and no doubt get a lot more of my content fabbed but somehow that seems like selling out. Does anyone else feel that way? "

I'd say we all them them.its pretty annoying.i don't delete them anymore so they can't send them next time

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think this is a problem for most profiles on Fab. Like you say, people are just choking to get behind the "Friends Only" album doors.

Usually we will just delete them or be very cheeky by accepting, having a look then deleting

C x

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Same a you OP it’s just pic collectors and folks looking for wank material haha ‘delete & block’

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

In our very early days on here we used to accept them. There are probably still one or two on the list. I will have a clear out one day.

Now we never accept them. Not one.

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

We accept requests from couples only.

Come and take a look at our vids. C.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

I just ignore them. I dont delete them as then they cant send another. No new wank bank material today buckos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I've spoken with them and we've built up a rapport I just blanket delete! Not interested in being wank bank material (unless they've proved themselves worthy )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trick is to never accept or delete them. Same for winks. That way they can’t do it again for a certain length of time.

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By *ugarandspicecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

We didn't have any friends only pics until very recently and still got inundated with friend requests

We just ignore them

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"The trick is to never accept or delete them. Same for winks. That way they can’t do it again for a certain length of time."

30 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to never accept or delete them. Same for winks. That way they can’t do it again for a certain length of time.

30 days "

Spoken like a man that sends a lot of unsolicited friend requests

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"The trick is to never accept or delete them. Same for winks. That way they can’t do it again for a certain length of time.

30 days

Spoken like a man that sends a lot of unsolicited friend requests "

Damn. Sussed.

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By *assiieneilxMan
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme


"We just made almost everything public...only get five or six friend requests per day now

(Bry)

bloody hell, we dont get six a month"

I’ve just sent you one

I hope you are happy now

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By *arried BifemWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

I think my friend request list might be bigger than my blocked list lol.

Tbh I don’t even look at friend requests because if I want to be friends with someone I’ll send the invite

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

They annoy me! Just had someone who was sending us daily. After a week, he got blocked fir his effort.

We only freinds, after we've met.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"They annoy me! Just had someone who was sending us daily. After a week, he got blocked fir his effort.

We only freinds, after we've met. "

I think anyone sending a friend request without a message attached is just a chancer after access to your gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does getting content fabbed matter?

And selling out to whom?

Do you OP, but you're probably on the right track with chancers hoping for a quick thrill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They annoy me! Just had someone who was sending us daily. After a week, he got blocked fir his effort.

We only freinds, after we've met.

I think anyone sending a friend request without a message attached is just a chancer after access to your gallery "

Also the people who think cause you've replied to one 'hi how are you?' message you're suddenly friends & they can send a request

My friends are people I've met or have spoken to for weeks/months

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