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Finger blasting/trying to make a woman squirt

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.

It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.

The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.

I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.

Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

I think it's for their own personal ego boost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it’s not usually about the woman’s pleasure

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Snap... loathe it when done to me... its no makin them look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slow and build up to a good pace. It lets it build up and it’s wonderful. Don’t like jabbing!

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I like slow and build up to a good pace. It lets it build up and it’s wonderful. Don’t like jabbing! "

Exactly, what happened to good old fashioned fingering?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"If she ain't squirtin', your ego's hurtin'"

- LorenzoVonMatterhorn (just now)

LvM

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Build up is key……… taking time to arouse is crucial to turning me on.

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By *9erloverMan
over a year ago

Sleepy Dorset

For me it’s all about a woman’s pleasure…a big turn on for me knowing I’m pleasing a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s all about what the receiver prefers! Most of my partners have preferred a nice, slow fingering with my fingers curled and rubbing at just the right spot but, there was one lover who insisted I finger banged her until she squirted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finger blasting is a teenage game. Growing up you realise slow steady building it up works best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.

It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.

The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.

I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.

Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in."

Being a fan of squirting myself I feel I should share my opinion.

I get hugely turned on if a woman squirts, however it is not the be all an end all for me if it doesn’t happen. I do agree with what you say about blaming it on porn that SOME men are quite rough or Vigourous towards the “ finger blasting” in order to get the squirting scenario. I myself have learned that you can make a woman achieve a much more intense squirting orgasm without needing to be like why you see on porn. It’s all about finding out what the woman likes and enjoys rather than just copying what you see on porn.

I quite liked that this topic has been raised from a woman’s point of view

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I think it’s all about what the receiver prefers! Most of my partners have preferred a nice, slow fingering with my fingers curled and rubbing at just the right spot but, there was one lover who insisted I finger banged her until she squirted"

This wasn't a thing until recent years 20 years ago finger banging/blasting wasn't even a word same with squirting.

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

Personally I’ve always taken the slow and gentle to start and watch/listen for feedback/encouragement approach and change tempo to suit. The same goes for when women give guys oral, some have watched far too much porn and think that approach works on all guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's for their own personal ego boost."

To some degree you are right as it is an ego boost for a man if that happens but for me personally I enjoy being able to give pleasure more than I enjoy receiving it

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By *otwifedundeeWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.

It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.

The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.

I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.

Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in."

Amen to this, shout it louder for those at the back that might not hear. I have been cut badly inside and been very sore for days from idiots doing this. They have no bloody idea and safe to say I didn’t want to see them again. Getting me to squirt seems to be the only thing they are Interested in and it’s also scary how many think that when you squirt you have cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.

It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.

The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.

I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.

Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in.

Being a fan of squirting myself I feel I should share my opinion.

I get hugely turned on if a woman squirts, however it is not the be all an end all for me if it doesn’t happen. I do agree with what you say about blaming it on porn that SOME men are quite rough or Vigourous towards the “ finger blasting” in order to get the squirting scenario. I myself have learned that you can make a woman achieve a much more intense squirting orgasm without needing to be like why you see on porn. It’s all about finding out what the woman likes and enjoys rather than just copying what you see on porn.

I quite liked that this topic has been raised from a woman’s point of view "

There is something satisfying about making a lady squirt however down to experience I tend to find a gentle approach works wonders certain ways of using fingers helps

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If someone is doing something I don't like I ask them nicely to stop.

If I'm going to do something that I'm unsure someone will like I ask them first.

If I'm doing something and the person asks me to stop, I do.

It's really that easy.

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By *eepshaftRyanMan
over a year ago

Southampton

It’s not for everyone.. I prefer to take my time.

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By *terobs6869Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

I'm sure whether a woman squirts or not, even assuming that she has a propensity to do this in the first place, has more to do with what is going on in her mind than how much effort the guy is expending.

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I'm sure whether a woman squirts or not, even assuming that she has a propensity to do this in the first place, has more to do with what is going on in her mind than how much effort the guy is expending. "

Very wrong

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm crossing my legs just reading this

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By *angler 321Man
over a year ago

Hereford

When I see videos on here of guys doing that, it makes me cringe!!

I just don't get how the ladies put up with it, surely it's got to be sore. Obviously there must be some ladies who like it, but I could never be that vigorous.

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By *terobs6869Man
over a year ago

Llandudno


"I'm sure whether a woman squirts or not, even assuming that she has a propensity to do this in the first place, has more to do with what is going on in her mind than how much effort the guy is expending.

Very wrong "

We'll agree to disagree.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.

It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.

The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.

I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.

Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in."

To be fair, ive seen lots of videos on here of women being finger blasted and squirting, so its hardly just a porn thing. The average joe and josephine 6pack do it as well

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By *abfipsMan
over a year ago

chester


"Why do guy's think it's the be all and end all when playing.

It's like they think if they don't try to finger with such ferocity that they are no good, and making a woman squirt is the holy grail.

The vagina is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings and ways to stimulate a lady you don't need to go at it like a bull in a China shop.

I joke on various threads but in this case I really do blame porn.

Guys word of advice,ask first before steaming in."

Unfortunately some guys have as much sophistication

as a dingo.

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