FabSwingers.com forum: A question for bisexuals

By *itheniceguy OP Man
over a year ago

BICESTER

I just finished reading a book by Douglas Murray called The Madness Of Crowds, who is a gay man. In it he suggests that gay and lesbian sex is the best and most complete sexual experience a man or woman can have because it is possible to give pleasure and know exactly what the other person is recieving so the pleasure kind of goes around and around. Bisexuals who obviously enjoy both males and females sexually are probably best qualified to answer this as they know how each experience differs. Thoughts please.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Not necessarily. I wouldn't presume to act as if I knew for a fact that another guy would like what I like.

Plus, much of the pleasure in sex comes from our mental reaction to what's taking place, not just what is happening to our genitals. So, pain, excitement, affection, surprise, novelty, etc. all factor into it.

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By *itheniceguy OP Man
over a year ago

BICESTER

"Not necessarily. I wouldn't presume to act as if I knew for a fact that another guy would like what I like.

I think he was referring to knowing exactly what you are giving feels like in reverse. He suggests that heterosexuals can't know what the other is feeling exactly because they have never been the opposite sex.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I think he was referring to knowing exactly what you are giving feels like in reverse. He suggests that heterosexuals can't know what the other is feeling exactly because they have never been the opposite sex. "

I get that, but I'm saying I *don't* know what my partner is feeling just because I've had the same action done to me.

For example, if my balls are played with a blowjob is infinitely better. I've been with some guys who did not like that at all. I adore my nipples be grabbed *hard* , but I can't presume other men do.

Some guys don't even like a finger up their bum during a blowjob, as it's a split focus thing. So, my answer to your question is no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that, but I'm saying I *don't* know what my partner is feeling just because I've had the same action done to me.

Some guys don't even like a finger up their bum during a blowjob, as it's a split focus thing. So, my answer to your question is no."

Men are not all the same. Women are not all the same.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Disagree completely, not all is women like the same things, I'm sure men are the same, some of my worst experiences have been from same sex.

Mrs

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

I can see where they are coming from but really especially for women we all like different things. Some like it rough, some don't. Some like dildos, some don't. Lxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that, but I'm saying I *don't* know what my partner is feeling just because I've had the same action done to me.

Some guys don't even like a finger up their bum during a blowjob, as it's a split focus thing. So, my answer to your question is no."

As someone with really bad ADHD, split focus is the worst thing during sex!

too many stimulants can distract from the act itself and end up losing blood where it’s needed to continue…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I agree with his sentiment as he's basically saying we all like the same thing or it feels the same to everyone of that gender which isn't true.

Pxx

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

Complete poppycock!

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By *llSexMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

It's all about the conection with the person or people one is haveing sex with.

You can never generalize.

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By *lean_CutMan
over a year ago

Rasen area

Everybody’s different, though.. they like different things, or the same things done slightly differently..

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By *itheniceguy OP Man
over a year ago

BICESTER

I'm surprised by most of these replies because I have often heard woman say that nobody knows a woman's body like another woman.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm surprised by most of these replies because I have often heard woman say that nobody knows a woman's body like another woman. "

when you get a women who likes the same as the other woman then it's going to be amazing, the same if a man liked his cock sucking the exact same way as you did then I'm sure that would be amazing too.

But we're all different.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I agree with the general sentiment that it's rubbish.

Different people enjoy different things. What I enjoy might not be pleasurable to my sex partner.

In my opinion, the best sex is with a long-term partner, as you learn what makes each other tick and have the additional emotional attachment.

Nita

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It's all about the conection with the person or people one is haveing sex with.

You can never generalize."

I agree with this. I wouldn’t say it’s better with a woman than a man.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I don’t agree everyone is different and enjoys different things ..

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've read this idea before (ages ago) and I don't think I agree with it either. My first wife was the best sucker of cocks I've ever met of either sex.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

To me don't make any sense assuming that bisexual sex is the best experience . In my opinion depends of the connection and chemestry of the persons envolved independently if are bisexual or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience the key to a truly satisfying sexual encounter is attraction, connection and open communication. Genitalia is irrelevant.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"I agree with the general sentiment that it's rubbish.

Different people enjoy different things. What I enjoy might not be pleasurable to my sex partner.

In my opinion, the best sex is with a long-term partner, as you learn what makes each other tick and have the additional emotional attachment.

Nita"

Yeah Absolutely this

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I just finished reading a book by Douglas Murray called The Madness Of Crowds, who is a gay man. In it he suggests that gay and lesbian sex is the best and most complete sexual experience a man or woman can have because it is possible to give pleasure and know exactly what the other person is recieving so the pleasure kind of goes around and around. Bisexuals who obviously enjoy both males and females sexually are probably best qualified to answer this as they know how each experience differs. Thoughts please. "

If there is one thing everyone SHOULD have learned from FAB, is that we are all different. People like and dislike different things, and we can get different physical responses from the same stimulation... in fact, many people don't even experience the same stimulation the same from one day to the next.

Cal

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