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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

I hear from time to time I'm too nice when chatting to people on here. However I thought manners were appreciated? Part of me is thinking I should be more of a player and maybe it'd start to work in my favour as being mysf doesn't seem to be working. Or maybe after being here a few years maybe I've just lost the excitement due to too many fakes and time wasters ruining a great site!! Discuss??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we know how you are feeling babes we have took all pics off file not showing up we have had it with this site full of time wasters fkes and there are alot of here who are just all mouth no play we have a lovely family and i also have a lovely grandson so we are more then happy to see him alot more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get told I'm to nice And not forward enough. But I prefer to be this way than a pushy arrogant nob.

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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

The annoyance is I've chatted and net some lovely people here it seems a shame that at 30 I've already become cynical as hell about this site. It's a damn shame

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

There seems to be a lot of negativity about Fab floating around at the moment for some reason.

In over 2 years I've never really had any timewasters or fakes cause me problems at all and I do find it hard to believe the site is 'full' of them.

I've always found the fakers easy to spot myself.

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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

I've been around a while now not just here but other sites too and it's a problem that's increasing across all of them not just here.

I love Fab I think it's the best of all the sites however there is a noticeable difference here than 12 months ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

be true to yourself, you can be too nice and you will be taken advantage of ( only if you allow it )

stay true to YOUR values, not other's demands

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"There seems to be a lot of negativity about Fab floating around at the moment for some reason.

In over 2 years I've never really had any timewasters or fakes cause me problems at all and I do find it hard to believe the site is 'full' of them.

I've always found the fakers easy to spot myself. "

I've noticed that too. I think some people take this far too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear from time to time I'm too nice when chatting to people on here. However I thought manners were appreciated? Part of me is thinking I should be more of a player and maybe it'd start to work in my favour as being mysf doesn't seem to be working. Or maybe after being here a few years maybe I've just lost the excitement due to too many fakes and time wasters ruining a great site!! Discuss??!!"

Sometimes a persons good nature and manners can be taken for granted!!!!!

Always be yourself but just keep an eye out for the abusers.....

Dont be a player....they are far worse...

Nothing wrong with being nice...just too many on here take it for granted or abuse it!!! xxxx

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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport


"I hear from time to time I'm too nice when chatting to people on here. However I thought manners were appreciated? Part of me is thinking I should be more of a player and maybe it'd start to work in my favour as being mysf doesn't seem to be working. Or maybe after being here a few years maybe I've just lost the excitement due to too many fakes and time wasters ruining a great site!! Discuss??!!

Sometimes a persons good nature and manners can be taken for granted!!!!!

Always be yourself but just keep an eye out for the abusers.....

Dont be a player....they are far worse...

Nothing wrong with being nice...just too many on here take it for granted or abuse it!!! xxxx"

I'll keep that in mind hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear from time to time I'm too nice when chatting to people on here. However I thought manners were appreciated? Part of me is thinking I should be more of a player and maybe it'd start to work in my favour as being mysf doesn't seem to be working. Or maybe after being here a few years maybe I've just lost the excitement due to too many fakes and time wasters ruining a great site!! Discuss??!!

Sometimes a persons good nature and manners can be taken for granted!!!!!

Always be yourself but just keep an eye out for the abusers.....

Dont be a player....they are far worse...

Nothing wrong with being nice...just too many on here take it for granted or abuse it!!! xxxx"

yes i for one have suffered and re_iewed the way i treat others.

but way should i because of those how just want to take the piss.

i went through a angry,nasty stage and that just wasnt me.

i was reacting to the way people were treating me instead of dealing with it correctly by blocking then,not replying to texts and ignoring them in chat.

put yourself first and change just to meet someone.if they want to meet you they will.

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