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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have to ask the potential lovers as I’ve no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fast cummer which is very accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who likes vwe guys judging by my messages even though the opposite is true!

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite. "

No point in trying to second guess what people think. I've learned that the hard way. If they can't be bothered to find out, they're not for me.

But I have the advantage of not being desperate.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

A few of the friends that know we swing seem to have the impression that we're having sex three times per day with all sorts of people!

(Bry)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm an 'older woman '. Just that fact means that sexually I know what I want and how to get it to potential lovers

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My sexiness is off the scale.

The bathroom scales tell me so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to lick my biceps before i pount there mound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will always jump to the wrong conclusions.you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. I don't let it bother me as life is to short xx

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Great question OP. I’d love to know what women think about me !

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By *igNick1381Man
over a year ago

BRIDGEND


"As someone who likes vwe guys judging by my messages even though the opposite is true!"

Hear that little fella, out time to shine

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

That it will be an experience. Possibly not good, but it will certainly be an experience

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I shall report back when I get some messages from couples or women for their assumptions but for now... it would seem, I give the impression I love cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had people say I look like a party animal. I'm happier at home lol. Not sure about sexually? Tell me what you think!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends on here I think people expect me to be outgoing and quite into kink/BDSM (I'm not) I just like tieing up the Mr, on general social media people think I'm shy and probably a girl next door type that would never be on a site like this.

A few friends who know are always shocked.

Mrs

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No idea - but I’d be interested to know just from curiosity

In my vanilla life some think I’ve been celibate for around 15-20 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite literally have no idea. I doubt people away from here have any perception of me in that way at all

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Either that I’m boring or that I like to be dominant. Neither of which are true.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

In real life, boring and meek, verging on asexual.

That's fine by me.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I shall report back when I get some messages from couples or women for their assumptions but for now... it would seem, I give the impression I love cock!"

Yup

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Great question OP. I’d love to know what women think about me ! "

First comes to mind, is you love tormenting woman with your truncheon?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I shall report back when I get some messages from couples or women for their assumptions but for now... it would seem, I give the impression I love cock!"

You look intense and creative in bed

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

I really don't know I guess you would have to ask them.....I'd say as a couple we are fun and adventurous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea what mine says about me but I’d be interested to know lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A keeper is all I'm able to reveal

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By *im67Man
over a year ago

London


"Ive had people say I look like a party animal. I'm happier at home lol. Not sure about sexually? Tell me what you think!"

Sexualy you definitely got all the right curves in the right places and think people are right definitely a party animal xx

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By *thletic_cuckMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite. "

Maybe they think so because you ride a Daytona.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought mine might have said that I was a smart, experienced and sexual guy but judging by the last 6 messages I received, it must say:

He can only read one liners and clearly doesn't need any flowery details.

last 6 messages (literally copied)

Sexy pics (I didn't mind that too much)

Nice verification - you sound super horny (that was ok too)

Do you travel because I don't? (Ok, fair question)

Are you from Wigan (WFT - not even close).

What you up to? (Reading messages clearly).

Are you Derick? (Who the *uck is Derick)

Apologies to any one that wrote one of those one liners.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite. "

As someone who is submissive, I'd love to know how you do this. Some guys can't take a hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm Dominant. I'm not, not in the bedroom anyway

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve stopped worrying about what people think of me a long time ago.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite.

Maybe they think so because you ride a Daytona. "

Hummm debatable. A sub girl with bikes? Hummm

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By *thletic_cuckMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite.

Maybe they think so because you ride a Daytona.

Hummm debatable. A sub girl with bikes? Hummm"

Well, it's a Daytona hence the reason people get the sub idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite.

Maybe they think so because you ride a Daytona.

Hummm debatable. A sub girl with bikes? Hummm

Well, it's a Daytona hence the reason people get the sub idea "

Coupled with the girly pink helmet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite.

Maybe they think so because you ride a Daytona.

Hummm debatable. A sub girl with bikes? Hummm"

I don’t see why the bikes would make a difference to whether you’re sub or not! Plenty of powerful women love relinquishing control. You’ve got women who have powerful job roles where they boss around men who are submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite.

Maybe they think so because you ride a Daytona.

Hummm debatable. A sub girl with bikes? Hummm

I don’t see why the bikes would make a difference to whether you’re sub or not! Plenty of powerful women love relinquishing control. You’ve got women who have powerful job roles where they boss around men who are submissive."

Don't take things so literally. He was making a joke about the bike being a Daytona not riding bikes per se.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite.

Maybe they think so because you ride a Daytona.

Hummm debatable. A sub girl with bikes? Hummm

I don’t see why the bikes would make a difference to whether you’re sub or not! Plenty of powerful women love relinquishing control. You’ve got women who have powerful job roles where they boss around men who are submissive.

Don't take things so literally. He was making a joke about the bike being a Daytona not riding bikes per se."

Wasn’t actually responding to his comment!

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I’ve been told I look filthy - which I don’t think I do. I think I look quite average.

On here I seem to appear submissive which I absolutely am not.

Mrs Misty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I've shagged so many people that I can't remember their names.

..I'm in single figures where that's concerned..

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Had one person whom, prior to meeting thought I'd be very vanilla

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By *thletic_cuckMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"What sexual message does your appearance give to potential lovers?

I always get mistaken as this meak, very submissive sexual type... which is laughable as in reality, I am the total opposite.

Maybe they think so because you ride a Daytona.

Hummm debatable. A sub girl with bikes? Hummm

I don’t see why the bikes would make a difference to whether you’re sub or not! Plenty of powerful women love relinquishing control. You’ve got women who have powerful job roles where they boss around men who are submissive.

Don't take things so literally. He was making a joke about the bike being a Daytona not riding bikes per se.

Wasn’t actually responding to his comment!"

It was just bike banter and had completely nothing to do with the actual subject. It's like telling a guy with a small car It's a hairdresser's car. And now I'm mansplaining too.

Triumphs are good bikes, but you won't get the bike banter especially from an Aprilia fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had people say I look like a party animal. I'm happier at home lol. Not sure about sexually? Tell me what you think!"

All I see is beautiful breasts and a nice big bum… look like a naughty little minx to me

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Erm quiet,shy,yeah whatever Xx

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

I think people believe me to be scary and not approachable, when in reality i’m well spoken and kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the messages I’m receiving… that I’m gay lol

I’m definitely not. I usually find I get more attention from teens than older women as the older women want big hunky men equipped with a baseball bat

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

People seem to think I’m a total deviant Dom! No idea where they get that impression from!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Innocent & meek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m a mature sexually confident woman who knows what I’m looking for and am no pushover.

Which is correct but before I sound like a bitch, I’m also quite nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I’m a mature sexually confident woman who knows what I’m looking for and am no pushover.

Which is correct but before I sound like a bitch, I’m also quite nice. "

But that all sounds perfectly nice to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Innocent & meek "

Surely nobody is that misguided?

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

That I’m well behaved and sweet. Well that what they think if they see me in my professional capacity.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Afew so called vanilla friends who know about our mucky secret think Mrs4 is virtually gagging for it 24/7 and we spend all weekend looking for or having sex and failing that cruising bars for sex ??? but Mrs4 has the classic "Butter wouldn't melt " look going on and .....and 90% of men on here think the above pretty accurate as well ??

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By *jayjMan
over a year ago

Farringdon, Central London

As some have pointed out, you should never judge a book by it’s cover!

People think that I’m a bit too innocent, until they look into my eyes and see I have bit of a filthy streak…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Innocent & meek

Surely nobody is that misguided? "

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I think they probably think I'm a bit of a pillow princess, when that couldn't be further from the truth....

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I think I come across as I am. Shy, a little awkward to begin with but when the heels are on & the knickers are off I'm insatiable.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Judging by the messages I’m receiving… that I’m gay lol

I’m definitely not. I usually find I get more attention from teens than older women as the older women want big hunky men equipped with a baseball bat "

Younger women like that too

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