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By *entative_Cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

I suspect I know the answer but I'm posting this as I'm a bit torn and confused.

I finally got the courage to discuss my cuckolding fetish with my mrs. To my massive surprise she wasn't against the idea. But... she wanted more of a friends with benefits arrangement and definitely not me watching.

However, I don't know if I could cope with giving my blessing to her essentially having a sanctioned affair. The idea of her dating a guy etc makes me uncomfortable. Possibly naively I had hoped it would just be sex.

Not sure what to do next (I know I should discuss it with her and we do talk about it. I guess I'm posting here just to rationalize my thoughts).

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Did you tell her that you'd been on here for over a year as a single male with two clearly identifiable pictures of yourself and a profile stating how you'd like to see her fucked by another man whilst she watched?

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By *entative_Cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"Did you tell her that you'd been on here for over a year as a single male with two clearly identifiable pictures of yourself and a profile stating how you'd like to see her fucked by another man whilst she watched?"

No I was a bit more tactful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you tell her that you'd been on here for over a year as a single male with two clearly identifiable pictures of yourself and a profile stating how you'd like to see her fucked by another man whilst she watched?

No I was a bit more tactful "

I think you missed the point there

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By *entative_Cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"Did you tell her that you'd been on here for over a year as a single male with two clearly identifiable pictures of yourself and a profile stating how you'd like to see her fucked by another man whilst she watched?

No I was a bit more tactful

I think you missed the point there "

Evidently, as I still don't see a point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she say that she had already someone in mind ?

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By *entative_Cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"Did she say that she had already someone in mind ?

"

No, she didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you tell her that you'd been on here for over a year as a single male with two clearly identifiable pictures of yourself and a profile stating how you'd like to see her fucked by another man whilst she watched?

No I was a bit more tactful "

Perhaps she's already on here meeting men without you knowing.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

I could be wrong as I'm a bit under the weather but to.put your profile up asking what you have and not to have discussed it with her first is a bit outrageous and doomed to failure.

I don't know much about the cuck dynamic but from what I've observed, it doesn't seem cuck it seems like she's potentially off . Unless you provide her with such a lifestyle she can't leave.

The fact she feels uncomfortable with you watching seems to speak volumes. But what do I know.

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By *entative_Cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


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Perhaps she's already on here meeting men without you knowing. "

Lol I suggested she make a fab profile but she said she would prefer to look to meet someone in everyday life 1st. While I respect that I find it unrealistic she is likely to, as I don't know how you broach the subject in everyday life with a guy

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

If you feel insecure I think this is not for you. But what she proposes is the first step towards what you claim you want.

Watching or being watched maybe a bit daunting if you have never been on the scene.

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By *entative_Cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"If you feel insecure I think this is not for you. But what she proposes is the first step towards what you claim you want.

Watching or being watched maybe a bit daunting if you have never been on the scene. "

It is the idea of her having relationship and emotional intimacy with the guy I dislike. I mean outside of the bedroom. I think i only ever imagined it as being sex then she would come home...

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"If you feel insecure I think this is not for you. But what she proposes is the first step towards what you claim you want.

Watching or being watched maybe a bit daunting if you have never been on the scene.

It is the idea of her having relationship and emotional intimacy with the guy I dislike. I mean outside of the bedroom. I think i only ever imagined it as being sex then she would come home..."

I can just share my experience. Before we were open with kinks with each other, there was a guy in her life. Nothing has happened between them apart from snogs behind my back. She knew him for years. So when we were on the same page about our kinks, it was a no brainer that she needed to try what it is to be with him. Well - it was a slight disaster especially for him. And that pretty much turned that page over in her life.

So if you are brave enough - try.

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