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First ever club visit VA

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

I have posted this in swingers clubs as well but think May get more response in here if ok.

we are looking at our first ever club visit on the 8th October at VA for seductive saturday.

We have had a couple of private meets and really enjoyed them however we know a club is going to be different. Both really nervous about it but really excited at the same time.

Have a few questions if anyone could help us newbies out.

How many people roughly would be at VA on a night like this?

Is it really as relaxed and no pressure as people say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

I have posted this in swingers clubs as well but think May get more response in here if ok.

we are looking at our first ever club visit on the 8th October at VA for seductive saturday.

We have had a couple of private meets and really enjoyed them however we know a club is going to be different. Both really nervous about it but really excited at the same time.

Have a few questions if anyone could help us newbies out.

How many people roughly would be at VA on a night like this?

Is it really as relaxed and no pressure as people say?"

It generally is a very relaxed atmosphere and with the exception of a few of the "Wanking Dead" absolutely no pressure. The main thing you have is each other, I attended my first as a single man and quite a nerve wracking experience, I am now quite comfortable and enjoy the atmosphere and chat...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool thanks, we are going on a couples and single females night so presume there won’t be too much wanking dead about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cool thanks, we are going on a couples and single females night so presume there won’t be too much wanking dead about "

There definitely won't be, the VA also run a very successful MILF club on a Wednesday daytime which can also be a great atmosphere due to the lack of people drinking loads ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately work gets in the way of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MILF day does need some planning but I have always found it a great relaxing day...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Cool thanks, we are going on a couples and single females night so presume there won’t be too much wanking dead about "

No I can't imagine they will be as couples usually stay together sexually from what I seen. It's only seems single men go around wanking over couples. Its a nice club. Hope you enjoy it. The staff and layout is very nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been on a couples and single women night and it was great, you will be fine x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, only got into the scene recently but loving it. Majority of people on here seem so friendly and helpful. Just wanted to know if the clubs were the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s great, thanks. Looking forward to it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, only got into the scene recently but loving it. Majority of people on here seem so friendly and helpful. Just wanted to know if the clubs were the same "

They are generally...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Thanks, only got into the scene recently but loving it. Majority of people on here seem so friendly and helpful. Just wanted to know if the clubs were the same "

Majority are very nice. I personally found the men weirder in person than on fab, thought they would of conducted themselves better it being so real. But if someone making you feel uncomfortable, just wish them good day and talk to someone else. They probably be many people to chat to. I heard people like chatting in the smoking area as it's easier to chat than other areas. The hot tub is a good place to mingle but alot of sexual activity goes on so I found it too difficult in there. Maybe that's where I found it difficult to mingle properly as it seems right at the start of the night and smokers area was the social hubs. I don't smoke so I ended up chatting to people at the bar, changing rooms and even in the unisex toilets lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Majority are very nice. I personally found the men weirder in person than on fab, thought they would of conducted themselves better it being so real. But if someone making you feel uncomfortable, just wish them good day and talk to someone else. They probably be many people to chat to. I heard people like chatting in the smoking area as it's easier to chat than other areas. The hot tub is a good place to mingle but alot of sexual activity goes on so I found it too difficult in there. Maybe that's where I found it difficult to mingle properly as it seems right at the start of the night and smokers area was the social hubs. I don't smoke so I ended up chatting to people at the bar, changing rooms and even in the unisex toilets lol"

I think that’s why we’ve chosen a night for our first one where it’s no single men. I’m sure we’ll just wing it on the day and see what happens. Not desperately looking to meet or anything. More about the experience and seeing what it’s like

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