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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just been slagged for being too thin ( b ) how rude ! And by a girl as well .......... grrrrrrrr

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Was she, errm, *not* thin?

TBH - I can't see what the problem is - you look well 'fit' as I think the current vernacular is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no denying you look great!

Did she mean too thin for her? As in she prefers larger ladies?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest no idea but why go to the trouble of telling me what she thinks ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably jealous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been slagged for being too thin ( b ) how rude ! And by a girl as well .......... grrrrrrrr "

You will get some bitter sorts but if you are happy in yourself then who cares what someone else you are not interested thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya it's definitely jealousy, you have a great figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure you may be to thin for some people, but no matter what you look like someone isnt going to like you

I never get why people mail you out the blue giving their opinion on you, it just seems odd to me

the day someone mails me saying im to thin i'll be dancing my way round the house lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya it's definitely jealousy, you have a great figure "

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I wouldn't worry about it, I am sure you will get far more compliments than criticisms. Some feel the need to slag others off, you should just feel the need ignore them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

did she actually slag you off or did she just say you were too thin for her liking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it's worth, I think you look amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure you may be to thin for some people, but no matter what you look like someone isnt going to like you

I never get why people mail you out the blue giving their opinion on you, it just seems odd to me

the day someone mails me saying im to thin i'll be dancing my way round the house lol

"

So tempted

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

You look very pretty are you a Princess ?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"To be honest no idea but why go to the trouble of telling me what she thinks .......... "

Probably the same reason you went to the trouble of telling the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure you may be to thin for some people, but no matter what you look like someone isnt going to like you

I never get why people mail you out the blue giving their opinion on you, it just seems odd to me

the day someone mails me saying im to thin i'll be dancing my way round the house lol

So tempted "

me dancing isnt a pretty sight

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm the sexiest woman ever!

Till I say no. Then I'm just a fat munter who is up herself and probably couldn't get a shag if I wasn't on here.

My self confidence would be in bits if it weren't for the regular sex I get both through here and by pulling in nilla situations with men make it clear that I'm a sex goddess.

Albeit a curvy one who has munterlike similarities in dodgy lighting...

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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I not bi. but I wish I had your figure you look. fine to me ignore her silly bimp. nothing better to say or do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if this was just a random out of the blue message telling you what she thinks of you, then yes it is rude.

If however it was a mail after browsing profiles and someone message striking up that first initial contact, then I don't think its rude. You are too thin for some people. Had it been us my OH would have given a similar answer because he's interested in curvier, bigger ladies with boobs and bums. That's just about preference.

I'm sure you are perfect for many others who message you though so don't take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may also find it was a confidence issue from her.

I know that I personally won't normally approach women with a gorgeous figure such as yours, because I'm not confident with my own figure - 'If I don't like my body, you won't either' kinds thing. I think it's different if you initiated the conversation though as it would show you definitely were interested.

If she was larger/curvier than you it may also be that she thinks you would look much better naked than her and so wants to avoid feeling inferior.

I really wouldn't take her comment to heart though, you don't look unhealthily skinny in any way, just slim, fit and toned. You look lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that you have just posted that on here tells me you are actually pleased and not offended that someone has said that.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Love it!!

If the OP was a BBW and had said someone had called her too fat this post would have been full of people foaming at the mouth and saying how gorgeous she was. But because she is thin several replies have questioned her interpretation and at least one has stated she is secretly pleased!

Its just as insulting to be called too thin by someone as too fat you know. Stop judging with double standards.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

You look real hot to us

Let people say what they like you know you look hot in a mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest no idea but why go to the trouble of telling me what she thinks .......... "

Some people can be a little Inconsiderate, don't let it bother you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My daughter gets this a lot. She is naturally slim and looks great, not that I'm biased at all lol but people, well women actually are often rude to her about her weight in a way that's offensive. She has a great size 8 to 10 figure eats well and stays fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too slim.

too fat.

too short.

too tall.

too old.

too young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it!!

If the OP was a BBW and had said someone had called her too fat this post would have been full of people foaming at the mouth and saying how gorgeous she was. But because she is thin several replies have questioned her interpretation and at least one has stated she is secretly pleased!

Its just as insulting to be called too thin by someone as too fat you know. Stop judging with double standards. "

Ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you look good to me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it!!

If the OP was a BBW and had said someone had called her too fat this post would have been full of people foaming at the mouth and saying how gorgeous she was. But because she is thin several replies have questioned her interpretation and at least one has stated she is secretly pleased!

Its just as insulting to be called too thin by someone as too fat you know. Stop judging with double standards. "

Why is that double standards?

It is like me posting on here saying ' upset today because someone has said my cock is too big'.

It is the type of post that just invites some kind of appeciation society and is very needy. If someone was genuinely upset by a comment you wouldn't open it up on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and note that the OP has used this..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've just been slagged for being too thin ( b ) how rude ! And by a girl as well .......... grrrrrrrr "

I just fabbed one of your pics.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Was she, errm, *not* thin?

TBH - I can't see what the problem is - you look well 'fit' as I think the current vernacular is..."

Whistler is correct with his use of terminology. You hotness personified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps she was insecure and wanted to be the thinnest at the "party" and you would have stolen her limelight...

Isn't that why some women go to town with their "dumpy" mates?

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been slagged for being too thin ( b ) how rude ! And by a girl as well .......... grrrrrrrr "

I've had something similar in the past and just smiled as it was just jealousy. Ignore, smile and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been slagged for being too thin ( b ) how rude ! And by a girl as well .......... grrrrrrrr "

you aren't too thin! You are you! Wished some people would heed a sayin my old man used to say, ~if you can't say anything nice,don't say anything at all!~

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a great body fuck what anyone says ignore them and carry on with what you was doing don't even dignifie it with a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the guys' comments on here make me really cringe, definitely sick bucket time.

Yes of course the OP has started this thread for exactly the type of comments on here, basically touting for compliments. Its not a bad thing, we all do this when we post in some way or other. The OP is a lovely looking lady and if compliments make her smile then good for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you are fishing for compliments!!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I've just been slagged for being too thin ( b ) how rude ! And by a girl as well .......... grrrrrrrr

you aren't too thin! You are you! Wished some people would heed a sayin my old man used to say, ~if you can't say anything nice,don't say anything at all!~ "

Are you thumper???

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I've just been slagged for being too thin ( b ) how rude ! And by a girl as well .......... grrrrrrrr "

You look perfect to me. Very sexy indeed - and fairly close too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just looked at pics and your nothing but spot on ; me thinks the other person was jealous

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)

I've had a quick look too lol and all I can say is she must be jealous. Why else would she comment? She has nothing to gain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a quick look too lol and all I can say is she must be jealous. Why else would she comment? She has nothing to gain. "

in the interests of fair play and balance i looked at you to and yep your dead cool looking to lol

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"too slim.

too fat.

too short.

too tall.

too old.

too young.

"

.

too black

too white

too Rangers

too Celtic

too clever

too thick

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By *erseypairCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

just looked at your pics

the words

toned

slender

sensual and fit spring to mind

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've just been slagged for being too thin ( b ) how rude ! And by a girl as well .......... grrrrrrrr "

You'd be surprised at the unsolicited comments people make!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too skinny???? Take no notice, you are lovely and all in proportion.

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)


"I've had a quick look too lol and all I can say is she must be jealous. Why else would she comment? She has nothing to gain.

in the interests of fair play and balance i looked at you to and yep your dead cool looking to lol "

Haha thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a quick look too lol and all I can say is she must be jealous. Why else would she comment? She has nothing to gain.

in the interests of fair play and balance i looked at you to and yep your dead cool looking to lol

Haha thank you "

pleasure to you both lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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the day someone mails me saying im to thin i'll be dancing my way round the house lol

"

Naughtynymph, you can start your dance!!!...i think you are thin..

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

seems like rudeness for the sake of rudeness to me .. just ignore and move on .. and u look fine from here by the way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too slim.

too fat.

too short.

too tall.

too old.

too young.

.

too black

too white

too Rangers

too Celtic

too clever

too thick

"

We quite often get the, not a proper couple... just ignore it, its their loss in the end.... xxx

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Some of the guys' comments on here make me really cringe, definitely sick bucket time.

Yes of course the OP has started this thread for exactly the type of comments on here, basically touting for compliments. Its not a bad thing, we all do this when we post in some way or other. The OP is a lovely looking lady and if compliments make her smile then good for her "
ha ha ha! Jealousy springs to mind

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Well if this was just a random out of the blue message telling you what she thinks of you, then yes it is rude.

If however it was a mail after browsing profiles and someone message striking up that first initial contact, then I don't think its rude. You are too thin for some people. Had it been us my OH would have given a similar answer because he's interested in curvier, bigger ladies with boobs and bums. That's just about preference.

I'm sure you are perfect for many others who message you though so don't take it to heart "
so in not so many words you concur with the rude lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with you. Your pics are lovely x .... Its probably just her sexual preferance dont take it to heart and i like honesty least she was with you. Just move on and dont think into it too much x

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