FabSwingers.com forum: Why call your wife/partner a slut?

By *idsHornyCpl40 OP Couple
over a year ago

West Mids area

We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....

Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.

Agree or disagree?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I disagree.

Alice likes me calling her that, so I do.

Have you read The Ethical Slut? It's a slightly more positive take on the word.

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By *hatEscalatedQuicklyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I like him calling me slut. Each to their own though, I wouldn't necessarily let anyone call me it.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

It’s because they are trash human beings

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I disagree.

Alice likes me calling her that, so I do.

Have you read The Ethical Slut? It's a slightly more positive take on the word. "

From the wiki summary of the book:

'The authors define the term slut as "a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you." The term is reclaimed from its usual use as a pejorative and as a simple label for a promiscuous person.'

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By *efinitely worth it...Woman
over a year ago

East Riding of Yorkshire

"It’s because they are trash human beings "

Wow... such generalisation!

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By *efinitely worth it...Woman
over a year ago

East Riding of Yorkshire

"I disagree.

Alice likes me calling her that, so I do.

Have you read The Ethical Slut? It's a slightly more positive take on the word.

From the wiki summary of the book:

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By *efinitely worth it...Woman
over a year ago

East Riding of Yorkshire

"I like him calling me slut. Each to their own though, I wouldn't necessarily let anyone call me it. "

Ditto, in context its a consensual word, although I acknowledge some see it as an insult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never diss any lady and call her the above, unless they asked me to do so

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"We have never understood why guys call their wife a slut??? If the guy likes the wife being with other guy(s), couples or you swap as a couple or what ever....then I would say she is a good girl/naughty/greedy girl, but we hate the word slut.....

Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.

Agree or disagree?"

I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....

Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..

It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol

But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.

And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.

I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off..

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

My Gf Zoe loves being called all the names that have the same or similar because she loves it,she want to feel naughty and dirty so it fits for purpose!

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"It’s because they are trash human beings "

And I went to block and he already is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.

Agree or disagree?

I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....

Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..

It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol

But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.

And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.

I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. "

Exactly the same for us

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

It's depends what people like. I personally don't like being called a slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs NE loves being called a slut by me. Anyone else called her it and they’d be eating through a straw for 6-8 weeks.

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By *aughty kitten72Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's a kink, a turn on for some people. Each to their own, we all have particular things that we like.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Isn't this kink shaming?

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's our escapism and Mrs alto ego. I personally find nothing hotter than my wife being a filthy slut when she let's the moment take her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called a slut by my husband, especialy when "my" is used beforehand. I think a lot of women have reclaimed the word for more positive means now and kinks x

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I love being called a slut by my husband, especialy when "my" is used beforehand. I think a lot of women have reclaimed the word for more positive means now and kinks x"

Brilliant answer !! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A VERY Proud slut here BUT if ANY ladies dislike the word then pity the fool that calls them it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like him calling me slut. Each to their own though, I wouldn't necessarily let anyone call me it.

Ditto, in context its a consensual word, although I acknowledge some see it as an insult"

Yes, same for me too

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

Lucy likes it when she's in the right mood.

It's easy to determine when that mood is, it's when she changes from fucking like a skilled housewife to a cock crazed monster.

I call it engaging slut mode, and it's a beautiful thing

If you can't understand that people might have their own preferences in uses of words boy are you in for a shock when you see what some swingers enjoy :P

Perhaps less judgement and more open mindedness would do you good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it's one of my favourite words, but I always make sure my sexual partner is OK with it and those who are tend to really enjoy it

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

"I disagree.

Alice likes me calling her that, so I do.

Have you read The Ethical Slut? It's a slightly more positive take on the word. "

Totally agree the wood needs to be rehabilitated so that it is a positive compliment like "stud" for a man

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If you don’t like calling your wife a slut then don’t use that word. Other people really like it. Let them be - it is their life.

I think people should stop putting their prejudices of how the world works on other people.

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.

Agree or disagree?

I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....

Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..

It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol

But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.

And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.

I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. "

Exactly this!!!!

C x

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By *oupleOfFilthyWeirdosCouple
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

"It’s because they are trash human beings "

Shit stitrer of the year goes to...

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Not meaning to sound aggressive but if my wife wants to be called slut then that's between me and her. That doesn't mean I'll go around calling every woman I have sex with a slut or worse unless she actually asks me to call her it.

End of the day we all have kinks that we like and kinks we don't understand or like but in this lifestyle it's about live and let live.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.

Agree or disagree?

I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....

Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..

It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol

But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.

And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.

I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. "

Same for us too…but language is personal, especially in the bedroom. Understanding how to use it to enhance the experience for our guests and ourselves is an important part of the fun.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Personally, I think that there is a world of difference between a couple being happy with the woman being called a slut and a random stranger calling a woman a slut. The former is perfectly acceptable, the latter insulting and presumptuous.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Personally, I think that there is a world of difference between a couple being happy with the woman being called a slut and a random stranger calling a woman a slut. The former is perfectly acceptable, the latter insulting and presumptuous. "

It’s almost as if language can have entirely different meanings, implications and effects depending on the context of its usage!

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

It's not my favourite word but I'm fine with it as long as it's not being used with venom (normally when they know they'll never have a chance with said slut).

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

"It’s because they are trash human beings "

Ahahaha

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Nope, not my style to call anyone that, but in the right contax, have atter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind it... would depend on the person, I love my partner doing it when the mood is right

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

A few women i have been with in the moment have liked been called a slut, and by in the moment i mean as im fucking them from behind whilst pulling their hair or sliding my cock in their mouths.

Im guessing alot of women like to be teated like a lady in the street and a "slut" between the sheets.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

I’ll call M it in jest and use it really as a badge of honour towards her.

I’m really proud she has discovered the confidence to explore herself without fear from society.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Context is everything

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Don’t use the word often, sometimes during sex, but the word “my” always precedes itv

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

hate the word in a normal setting or pre sex post sex but during sex and with the right guy who knows what hes doing then yes its extremely hot

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

Loving this

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"I like him calling me slut. Each to their own though, I wouldn't necessarily let anyone call me it. "
snap xxx same as us …. I’m a slut x lol

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Couldn't agree more, it's all about context.

My man calling me a naughty slut when I'm being sexually promiscuous a real turn on.... when he tells me I've been a naughty slut on the way home after I've been riding him and sucking another cock... a turn on...

Someone I don't know calling me a slut in a derogatory way because they don't understand it... total no no....

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Let’s start a movement- let’s replace the word ‘slut’ with the word ‘queen’

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

"It’s because they are trash human beings

Wow... such generalisation!"

Yep was thinking exactly the same, maybe on the wrong site if they are so judgemental about others preferences

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

To us, a slut is not the same as a slag. Being slutty is kinda naughty and dirty with fun. Being a slag is unclean dirty and not overly nice in manner. This is just our opinion on the wording and how we peraonally use it

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.

Agree or disagree?

I like being called slut, usually pre fixed with "dirty little" ....

Or filthy bitch, naughty whore..

It depends where and why and how.I mean in sainsburies whilst shopping is a no no, or around the kids isn't ideal too.lol

But when I'm on my knees with my hair being pulled back, knowing I'm about to have his cock in my mouth is a different story.

And if he uses the word "my" first.. Well that's the biggest turn on ever for me.

I won't allow slag though.. Just an instant turn off.. "

This is me to a tee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When Zac says this to me, it makes me laugh out loud!

half because we both know I'm not + half because it's shock level banter.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Why aren't the males that swap called slut husbands, but they are more likely to be classed as 'Players', 'Studs' or 'Geezers'.

Agree or disagree?"

Coz it turns them on perhaps?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I guess it's down to individual preference

To me good girl is something you'd say to a dog

But then I do call my husband a slut or a man whore

But if anyone else was to call either of us a slut, it's a firm no, unless you know us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly!!

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