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By *im67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I was just wondering how couples approached both getting into the world of swingeing.

I've only recently took the plunge after I became single but was interested in getting into the scene but when I was with my last partner i found approaching my ex about getting involved awkward so never brought the subject up .

But was wondering if it was a easy or awkward conversation for couples starting out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication communication communication

I assume considering I'm not a couple!

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Plenty of chat, discussion about what each one looking for and possible boundaries.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

V was more into the idea than I was, in the end it came down to he really likes to see me fucking other guys & I really like sex, so here we are.

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By *arried ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Newark

Communication. It started as a fantasy and "during sex" talk. Then we had a more serious conversation about trying it. Frequency and eagerness waxes and wanes.

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

You need to talk to her n let her know how you feel n it's not just a thing your going through.

I talked to my wife about it n she agreed to an MMF n last week we did it.

Took a good few months n sometime talking n we got there in the end n we both loved it.

So talk n be honest n you'll get there n now we even feel closer now.

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford


"V was more into the idea than I was, in the end it came down to he really likes to see me fucking other guys & I really like sex, so here we are."

This is us, lots of communication as already been said, honesty about your thoughts and feelings are important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hadn't been together long and tentatively talked about our "shady" pasts. Turned out we were both once a pair of dirty fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hadn't been together long and tentatively talked about our "shady" pasts. Turned out we were both once a pair of dirty fuckers "

Yes, that’s pretty much us too

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