FabSwingers.com forum: If you suddenly gave up sex

By *aleunicorn500 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Would it be the end of your world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

Being married I've had lots of practice.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely not. Compared to giving up my children ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so far....

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Would it be the end of your world? "

Nope

I almost did...

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

No. If I never received any physical affection though, that's a different matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I'd just wank more

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Speak to the hand. Lol

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Definitely not

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Already given it up..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No. I'd miss kissing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it just now. Everything is still much the same as it was. So I'm reverting.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Welcome to my world

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No. If I never received any physical affection though, that's a different matter."

Although that is what the government expected a lot of people to do in lockdown. I live with adult children so couldn't form a bubble with my mum as she lives with my dad who has dementia. My son in a house share couldn't have physical contact with his girlfriend who lived in a different houseshare.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Was married 42 years, the last 19 of which was sex free. You learn to live with(out) it.

Also drink a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone’s saying no and I say yes instead

Once I’ve stayed 8 months without and I thought of going crazy,so never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No not at all. While I enjoy sex and it's great fun my life doesn't revolve around it. And I would hate it if it did.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

No…. But probably my marriage as I can’t see M being happy

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

If was still allowed orgasms then not totally.

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By *aleunicorn500 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Really interesting responses so far, somehow I expected site users to place much more importance on this. I wonder why most are saying no? Does this site give a skewed view as to the importance of sex maybe?

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

No. I haven't had it for 6-8 years. Can't remember exactly the last time as I've been pre occupied.

Sex was never a motivator but I know men who if they couldn't get it two to three times a week at least would slit their wrists. That's desperate and I've never been desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't think so. Went a few years once and it didnt bother me.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I did for 2 years

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"Really interesting responses so far, somehow I expected site users to place much more importance on this. I wonder why most are saying no? Does this site give a skewed view as to the importance of sex maybe?

I think many people do particularly men. They have pre conceived ideas that all the women will shag anything. But that's far from the truth.

( They'd be better off going to Ibeza).

I think the women and couples are patiently looking for the right couple, woman or man to come along and fulfill the fantasy. But I could be wrong.

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By *aleunicorn500 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I think many people do particularly men. They have pre conceived ideas that all the women will shag anything. But that's far from the truth.

( They'd be better off going to Ibeza).

I think the women and couples are patiently looking for the right couple, woman or man to come along and fulfill the fantasy. But I could be wrong. "

I think you may be right. But the question wasn't about fab specifically, just the act. Most people are saying they wouldn't miss it, which I find surprising given the amount of sexual energy here.

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By *nobyMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Would it be the end of your world? "

Isn’t that called marriage and don’t many people do it?

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By *aleunicorn500 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I would have expected more responses along the lines of I'd die without it lol

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

I did a year of [voluntary] celibacy during 2019 (yes, the pandemic kinda helped in that regard) and it was fine. I don't think I could do it for the rest of my life though

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’ve gone years without and survived. There are other things to get on with.

Might be more difficult if I couldn’t have cuddles though.

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We can't get through a day without it and I would say we're addicted to each other. I'm sure we'd survive without sex but it would not be an enjoyable experience

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

I think many people do particularly men. They have pre conceived ideas that all the women will shag anything. But that's far from the truth.

( They'd be better off going to Ibeza).

I think the women and couples are patiently looking for the right couple, woman or man to come along and fulfill the fantasy. But I could be wrong.

I think you may be right. But the question wasn't about fab specifically, just the act. Most people are saying they wouldn't miss it, which I find surprising given the amount of sexual energy here. "

Well I'm guessing the singles can go without for as long as it takes to find the right playmate but couples have each other. It's better to go without than have it just for the sake of it. I saw mentioned here or another thread that there's nothing worse than performing the act and in your mind d you can't wait to get out of there. I've had many long periods without it but it doesn't bother me. Connection is everything.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"Would it be the end of your world?

Isn’t that called marriage and don’t many people do it?"

Lol

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